I don’t really believe in this Men are from Mars and Women from Venus thing. Neither do I believe in any rules or follow a book when it comes to boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. I just prefer going with the mind and heart. If I recall correctly, there was an article about a specific topic that intrigued me. As usual I enthusiastically shared it with some of my friends. I later on did a little bit of research for more information. Ironically I came across interesting synonyms. Polyamory
It is very fascinating when it comes to relationships, whether parent-children relationship, friendship, husband-wife, boyfriend-girlfriend relationship and so forth. When it comes to parent and children relationship, it is just unconditional, and that is what fascinates me the most. Imagine you have something to count on with no conditions? Isn’t it lovely?
Polyamory I thought sounded interesting. It is obvious that it has something to do with “Amor”, which is love in Spanish. It may also be referring to cupid (the Roman God of Love). So Polyamory is the synonym for open relationship. These terms (polyamory and open relationship) are generally differentiated, according to my source.
I choose not to go into details. To be concise, open relationship is when one gets involved with another person besides the main partner within mutually agreed limits. It is an open marriage if couples come to an agreement for additional partners. There are all types of open relationships. Some relationships permit sex outside the main relationship with some restrictions. Some allow almost everything but not love.
Someone should correct me if I am wrong. I thought love was sex and sex was love? How can you have sex with a person without any affection or passion? Perhaps I am still in the old school rhythm. I find all these ludicrous. I am no Sigmund Freud to explain the sexual desire (Libido) involved in this or come up with a theory of explanation.
I assume partners who are into open relationship wants to avoid being paranoid about whether their partners are cheating on them or not. It probably adds some excitements to relationships. Perhaps! I am clueless to whatever the case or reasons might be. There are many ways of having an exciting relationship with a man or a woman. But I know for certain that I wouldn’t allow such a practice in my relationship.
I am aware that we are all different in various ways. The opposite attracts, so I have heard. Understanding human nature and behaviour is very difficult. I just don’t get the point of open relationship and don’t understand why some people go through with this type of relationship. There could be many reasons. I could need help from readers in grasping this issue.
What do you think of an open relationship or open marriage? Would you agree to an open relationship or suggest this to a partner?
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I think open relationships r a waste of time n energy…if u can’t commit 2 1 person den play da field innit…dun bother wastin ur time n da otha person’s by gettin in 2 a relationship…if u wanna be creepin wiv sum1 else u mite as well jus leave urself free…single…n ready 2 mingle…n i dun understand how people can say dey luv deir man/chick but yet allow dem 2 go creepin wiv otha man n gyal dem…if u truly luv da person da thought alone of dem bein wiv otha ppl shud be like a knife in ur heart…so no…i dun agree wiv it…n i dun c da point of it
I think an open relationship is not a bad idea. At least you’re free to see some other people and enjoy their company. As for me I love being in an open relationship. you should try that soul sista for real, stop thinking to much just act.
@vanessa, No thanx babe…I want my man 2 be JUST MINE not sharin wiv n e 1 else
@Soul Sista, i agree with u. an open relationship is a waste of time.
an open relationship is simply waste of time and unnecessary. If you love someone and you’re in a relationship with the person, you should commit to the person and stop looking outside. Any responsible person who wants a fruitful and an exemplary relationship will never sign up for “Open relationship bullshit”
Okay this topic paaa hmmmm. Deep down somewhere, I know I agree with it, but I can’t play fair even if I did agree to an open relationship I’d still wanna rip a chick’s eyes out for being third wheel in what my man and I have going.
That’s a no for me. What’s the sense in marrying if you can’t commit. That’s just not right. If I am ready to stick by her alone then she surely must be ready to do the same. “have fun with other people”? tweaaa how much fun kwraaaa??!
@ghallday, oh the fun is in the hunt the guilt of it all I think mostly. you must remember even looking at another who aint your intended is kinda declaring you have an open relationship….I see it all the time its just that these days ppl like to agree to “open relationship”
it doesn’t make sense… what’s the point in geting married then? you’d might as well stay single.