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I try not to stress myself too much on relationships or follow up any rules. I go with my instincts, learn from my lessons and try to move on to the next step, making sure I do not leave my lessons behind.
I am no relationship guru; however it is adhering for me as a contributing Blogger on GhanaCelebrities.Com to share my opinion on relationships, based on my own and other experiences.
Before getting in-depth with this topic, I did some research on the phrase ‘one night stand’. The phrase was originally used to be referred to a single night theatre performance, usually by a guest group on tour.
One night stand (ONS) today is a term which implies a sexual encounter between two individuals who do not know each other. The practice is normally not planned and neither of the participants is in it for a relationship. I personally do not have any opinion on one night stands, but that does not mean I would want to practice it either. As rational individuals, we make decisions according to what we think is logical.
Some people choose to have sex on the first date and others would rather go on more dates before they decide to have any form of intimacy. Does it really make a difference if one chooses to have sex on a first date, wait for some months or have a one night stand?
I personally think that one night stands can be compared to sex on the first date, with the exception that ONS does not need any planning as a normal date would be.
ONS is a practice I wouldn’t get myself into, even if it happens that I have a moment with the person. I am sure some will agree with me on this.
I am pretty aware that some men/women would not want to have anything to do with each other after a one night stand. But can a one night stand in some cases turn into Love and a relationship? And what do you think would make someone have a relationship after a one night stand?
By Mabel Korlekie / Contributor / GhanaCelebrities.Com
A “witty” writer who wrote several award winning articles/debates in Junior Graphic at his Secondary School days at Adisadel College. To develop his writing skills, studied Communication as a major with Sociology and Law at Newham College Of Further Education, London. Currently studying at The School Of Law, University Of East London. I am not a journalist nor do I aspire to be one. I am a blogger who created this site as a hobby. And oh yes, I am bias. I only report on artists/celebrities that I like or find interesting..... Vincent@ghanacelebrities.com
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get a life! kwadwo(Quote)
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Lol @kwadwo…ad3n 3ha wo anaa…lol May(Quote)
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thanks kwadwo……this shris guy is so sure of himself nd i bet u no girl in her rightful mind will ever go out wit dis two known boy
i…i….i,who cares?follow rules mehn nd stop stressin urself over unesscessary issues.i ask again who cares………..get a life like kwadwo said waii basty(Quote)
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made a lil typin error, thanks kwadwo……this shris guy is so sure of himself nd i bet u no girl in her rightful mind will ever go out wit dis two known boy
i…i….i,who cares?follow rules mehn nd stop stressin urself over unesscessary issues…..u dnt follow rules or stress urself bout relationships…who cares?? basty(Quote)
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August 2nd, 2010 at 19:11
lol….i think you will find that the article was written by a Mabel Korlekie… Brown Suga(Quote)
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August 2nd, 2010 at 19:13
lol…if you look closer you’ll see that the article was actually written by Mabel Korlekie… Brown Suga(Quote)
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August 3rd, 2010 at 13:04
Yes oh Brown Suga let basty be aware of that..lolI I think he just figured it out by now..lol… May(Quote)
No,honestly its one night for a reason, you feed of that memory cause its sweet not serious. Kin(Quote)
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ghallday Reply:
August 1st, 2010 at 13:13
@Kin, I agree. It can’t happen. If I meet a gitl and able to get into her panties the same night, what’s the guarantee that the next guy she meets and she likes won’t do the same? It can’t happen. One night stand is what it is- a one night stand. ghallday(Quote)
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August 1st, 2010 at 18:23
@ghallday, *girl* ghallday(Quote)
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The kind of person who wants love after one night stand is possibly emotionally bankrupt. How long will this love high last anyway.
If one night stand can survive commitment then all gigolo’s and ashawo’s should be married by now right….lets keep it real folks. Kin(Quote)
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That Guy Reply:
July 31st, 2010 at 16:55
@Kin,
Wise words. That Guy(Quote)
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ghallday Reply:
August 1st, 2010 at 18:24
@Kin, lol ” right on point Kin. ghallday(Quote)
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yes it can! if the puky is gud. anne(Quote)
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How can dis be?I guess you’ve been watching a lot of hollywood flicks. TheChuckylee(Quote)
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Terrific work! This is the type of information that should be shared around the web. Shame on the search engines for not positioning this post higher! forex robot(Quote)
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well, I think it can turn into relationships and a love affair….I’m leaving prove. My man and I had sex on our first date and we’ve been together ever since! A year and a half later, we are very much in love and committed to each other. we are even talking abt marriage and planning a future. If anything our bond together was sealed that night! J(Quote)
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