I try not to stress myself too much on relationships or follow up any rules. I go with my instincts, learn from my lessons and try to move on to the next step, making sure I do not leave my lessons behind.
I am no relationship guru; however it is adhering for me as a contributing Blogger on GhanaCelebrities.Com to share my opinion on relationships, based on my own and other experiences.
Before getting in-depth with this topic, I did some research on the phrase ‘one night stand’. The phrase was originally used to be referred to a single night theatre performance, usually by a guest group on tour.
One night stand (ONS) today is a term which implies a sexual encounter between two individuals who do not know each other. The practice is normally not planned and neither of the participants is in it for a relationship. I personally do not have any opinion on one night stands, but that does not mean I would want to practice it either. As rational individuals, we make decisions according to what we think is logical.
Some people choose to have sex on the first date and others would rather go on more dates before they decide to have any form of intimacy. Does it really make a difference if one chooses to have sex on a first date, wait for some months or have a one night stand?
I personally think that one night stands can be compared to sex on the first date, with the exception that ONS does not need any planning as a normal date would be.
ONS is a practice I wouldn’t get myself into, even if it happens that I have a moment with the person. I am sure some will agree with me on this.
I am pretty aware that some men/women would not want to have anything to do with each other after a one night stand. But can a one night stand in some cases turn into Love and a relationship? And what do you think would make someone have a relationship after a one night stand?
By Mabel Korlekie / Contributor / GhanaCelebrities.Com
get a life!
Lol @kwadwo…ad3n 3ha wo anaa…lol
thanks kwadwo……this shris guy is so sure of himself nd i bet u no girl in her rightful mind will ever go out wit dis two known boy
i…i….i,who cares?follow rules mehn nd stop stressin urself over unesscessary issues.i ask again who cares………..get a life like kwadwo said waii
made a lil typin error, thanks kwadwo……this shris guy is so sure of himself nd i bet u no girl in her rightful mind will ever go out wit dis two known boy
i…i….i,who cares?follow rules mehn nd stop stressin urself over unesscessary issues…..u dnt follow rules or stress urself bout relationships…who cares??
lol….i think you will find that the article was written by a Mabel Korlekie…
lol…if you look closer you’ll see that the article was actually written by Mabel Korlekie…
Yes oh Brown Suga let basty be aware of that..lolI I think he just figured it out by now..lol…
No,honestly its one night for a reason, you feed of that memory cause its sweet not serious.
@Kin, I agree. It can’t happen. If I meet a gitl and able to get into her panties the same night, what’s the guarantee that the next guy she meets and she likes won’t do the same? It can’t happen. One night stand is what it is- a one night stand.
@ghallday, *girl*
The kind of person who wants love after one night stand is possibly emotionally bankrupt. How long will this love high last anyway.
If one night stand can survive commitment then all gigolo’s and ashawo’s should be married by now right….lets keep it real folks.
@Kin,
Wise words.
@Kin, lol ” right on point Kin.
yes it can! if the puky is gud.
How can dis be?I guess you’ve been watching a lot of hollywood flicks.
Terrific work! This is the type of information that should be shared around the web. Shame on the search engines for not positioning this post higher!
well, I think it can turn into relationships and a love affair….I’m leaving prove. My man and I had sex on our first date and we’ve been together ever since! A year and a half later, we are very much in love and committed to each other. we are even talking abt marriage and planning a future. If anything our bond together was sealed that night!
SOMEONE MAY TURN BACK TO THE ONE-NIGHT-STANDER,BECAUSE OF WHAT THE SAW IN TERMS OF BEAUTY,CHARACTER,PERSONALITY,OR ONE’S SOCIAL STATUS.
hmmmmmmm
I’ve just had a one night stand, but just because i felt so close. I wish there were more nights with him. But im guessing not. He lives so far away. Sweet memory.