IamSassyChic.Com: Ended Relationships…

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It was Gloria Gaynor who first sang the song “I will Survive” about ended relationships, heart break and how the lady got over it and moved on. This article will also deal with surviving a negative experience in a relationship and the issue of moving on. This is a topic close to my heart because I have witnessed a lot of people who have found it difficult to come into a new life after such an experience. In my book, A Heart to Mend, I wrote about characters who overcame their pasts of adversity to blossom again in love.

I am your quintessential romantic but I do know that love and relationships sometimes are not forever. Some of us have suffered heartbreak. It can hurt as hell; we think our hearts are literally broken and seeping blood into our chest. We feel small, wounded, beaten and left to die. But the truth is that we get over it. It may take some time, it may take some strong words, it may take physical or mental breakdown but in the end, we will overcome. The lady in the song, we will look our heartbreakers in the face and tell them to go eat s**t. We will rave, we will cry, we will weep and mourn the dead relationship. But if we tap into the strength inside each of us, we will recognize when it is time to move on.

Elizabeth Kubler-Ross in her book, On death and Dying, listed five stages of grief and loss; denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. Losing a relationship is a bit like losing someone to death. Most people go through similar cycles and stages as they make their way back to a place of balance for them. They deny that the breakup ever happened; they do not let others know. They boil with anger towards the ex, maintaining that there is no break-up or acting like there wasn’t. They refuse to move out if they were living together; and then begin to give reasons to remain in the relationship. Continue Reading From Here



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Chris-Vincent Agyapong Febiri, Founding Editor
Chris-Vincent Agyapong Febiri is the Founding Editor of GhanaCelebrities.Com , a Film Critic and a Human Rights Advocate; he holds 2 masters degrees in Law; International Human Rights Law (LL.M) and Legal Practice Course (LL.M) from University of Leicester and Nottingham Law School--and also a degree in Law (LL.B) from University of East London. He's a Professional Truth Sayer and he is the author of the popular eBook “Success is a Right, Not A Privilege.” He currently works at Fortwell Solicitors in London--where he uses his legal brains to kick real ass, for the good of clients and humanity. Contact: Vincent@topvincent.com

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      1. Been around swthrt.Yea, am fine, thanks for asking.Ok, I will.Its fun to be on that site esp. for my ladies.Oh mine, I enjoy the little gossips and news.(iamsassychic.com)

  1. You know like they say “even good things come to an end” and no matter how bad the situation might end we must learn to swallow our pride and move on or else violence will definitely take over…. Brilliant article. 

    I never heard about the writer of the article but i will check her out. shout out to my homie Chris for posting this. Is good to see not only your team are not only posting about Ghana celebrities you guys are post some other real life experience. Just for clarification i ain’t saying I’m tired of seeing my people face but I also like the way you guys branch to others (hey I like see my girl Jackie Appia pretty s*xy face all the time..lol…)  

    Anyways, Chris, what is the different between your website “ghanacelebrities.com” and “iamsassychic.com”? Because it look similar if not the same.

    1. @Weapon-X,

      IamSassyChic.Com is a brainchild of GC, we decided to have that and let our female bloggers ( SassyChic & Gossip Mama) manage it . It targets wider audience (Ghanaians and non Ghanaians).

      Actually, it is like an all women platform where women will discuss and share issues affecting their particular Gender among other things.

      Since we cannot post certain articles on here as readers start to complain when issues posted here are not Ghana celebrity related, we decided to have IamSassyChic where everything is possible to be published…. How are you btw and thanks for commenting