They have been dating for some years. When the man lost his job, she took care of his finances till he landed a new job. Whatever he asked, she made sure he had it. He asked for naked pictures of her and she provided them.
Later, the man cheated on her with her best friend. She found out and is calling it a quit. The man has threatened to send to post the naked pictures on the internet and send a copy to her family if she breaks up with him.
In a close by town, a lady who lost both parents and had no where to go was taken in by a stranger (a man). He took care of her education and gave her all she needed (necessities).
Now she’s done with school and has a lucrative job. She falls in love with her guardian angel (the man) and later found out that his man is HIV positive. She left him at the time he needed her most.
Comparing these two situations, which sex will you say is ungrateful, less sympathetic and has no empathy??? Men or Women?
In your life experience, endeavours and stories you have heard, which sex do you honestly believe is more ungrateful in life and why? Your little experiences and stories are welcome.
Written & Submitted By: Leticia Owusu/GhanaCelebrities.Com/ United States
MEN!!!!!!Ok I’m taking both these stories into account yeah BUT i’ma also speaking from my won experiences and things I’ve seen around me…I think men are the most ungrateful…and the worst thing is the majority of the ones I know of and my own experience…they feel like they have not done anything wrong…I mean I’m not saying when u do someone good the person has to be in your debt forever…BUT at least acknowldege what they have done for u in the past before u start triflin and shit…but then I guess its human nature….easy 2 remember the bad and forget the good…but yeah still think men are such ungrateful wankers
the men are ungrateful. taking in consideration the first story. but even if i have to take the second story too yes the gal has every right to leave the man. just because he provided for my material things in life doesnt meran i should risk ma life for him. i cant compare things of the world which he provided for me with my own life. geeez. i just cant risk tghat. and mind yu if he was to be in ma shoes he would do the same. men will always be men. ok?
Very well said,material stuffs for a deadly disease?Ahaaa.Sometimes its best to face reality.
Putting these two story into consideration. Men are more ungrateful. Maybe the girl, react unfairly, but honestly speaking, Who would love to date someone who has Aids?
@Afia, looool innit tho…as heartless as it sounds most of us wud struggle wiv da idea of stayin wiv sum1 hu has AIDS…so not bein biased but da chick’s situation woz kinda understandable…but da guy…hmmmm no excuse at all…totally ungrateful
Charliee, no one.Maybe unless the person has it too.
we all know men are ungrateful no two ways about that.
LOL…i think we need 2 get sum guys on here 2 defend da males cos u lot r gettin merked by da ladies str8 up lol…yo Chris where u @ fam lol?
@Soul Sista Boateng, no lets deal witth them here akibe
@sei,some women are pretty fast…faster than the bullet trian in china
lolzz, thats funny!!
@Soul Sista Boateng,
O.K….fine, I think I have something to say..lol… Wait?..Alright, in my Arnold Schwarzenegger voice “I’ll be Back”..lol..
@Soul Sista Boateng,
We are here, you want my opinion and story? I am timming the post, I will join in with mine soon. It is for the week right? It is only Tuesday now so ” no shaking!. With my Akyeame voice ” Me san Aba” ( I will be back)
All gender stereotypes are annoying. Women are emotional and thus cannot be leaders. Men are unable to have emotions Man, to be real honest if women would stop putting up with crap guys would stop doing crap. Why are you working things out with a guy who cheated on you? In fact, if you suspect he’s cheating and he doesn’t want to adjust his behavior to reduce the suspicion then YOU are the fool for staying with him. Red flags fly all the time. Guys test the limits of your endurance. If you allow him to do crap he will. Start cutting dude’s off for foolishness and you will see really quickly that the type of guy you chase is the type that will cheat. Change your values, look for guys that have more to offer than glamor and the appearance of success. I think the women who agree with this post should learn to not commit to a person before you learn the core values of a person. Often time we are attracted to the smoke and mirrors (read: “swag”) but fail to really go beyond that as far as assessing a person. It sounds like you present countless opportunities for a man to “redeem” himself in your article and you’re always let down. The question then is, who is making who stay? You can’t be mad when people treat you the way you allow them too. Just bounce and move to the next instead of validating this behavior and having dudes just consider your actions “bitchy” as opposed to “dang she left me because I didn’t have my shit together.” Just a thought
@Miyagi, ahhhhhh Mr Miyagi…u wrote dis sooo beautifully n truthfully my bruva…almost brought tears 2 my eyes lol…definitely co-sign wiv evryfin u sed tho:-)
@Soul Sista Boateng,Thank you my sister how are you hope your okay it’s about time we start blaming each other
@Miyagi, am all good big bro…ain’t been on here in time so thought I’d pay a lil visit lol
@Soul Sista Boateng,lol thats good sis holla at me in my inbox so we keep in contact floss-bir@’hotmail.co.uk
@Miyagi, U’re on point.U couldn’t have said it any better.Sometimes I just don’t understand these women.When they’re going in 4 some of these guys who are cheats,cassanovas,violent etc.& they notice some of these bad traits yet they still go in 4 them.But when these guys start showing them their true colours they start complaining meanwhile better guys who will treat them well might have proposed 2 them earlier on whom they rejected.They just enter into relationships with their hearts only leaving their brains behind yet these same women can go on & on abt how men are ungrateful,wicked, liars,cheats etc. I have no pity 4 them 1 bit.They just piss me off sometimes.
@TheChuckylee,i’m with you and agree
But you know some of you come as angels and later reveal the devil in you right?Ok, its easier said than done.Its very easy to move on when you aint a lady.Women are emotional remember?
y’all guyz jux accepted the fact that most of you are cheats, liars and trip. that defines ungrateful….hehhehehehe, u jux answered it urself. A woman give her heart out to a man and u end up messin’ around….datz ungratefulness. so in short MEN ARE UNGRATEFUL NOT WOMEN…… @TheChuckylee and Miyagi. I wonder y a lot of ppl. are given props to Miyagi. yep, i accept de fact dat wat he wrote was well written, but, he jux answered the damn question (MEN ARE UNGRATEFUL).
we all become ungrateful at a point in life depending on the situation we find ourselves.
This is so obvious.We are talking about some deadly disease here,sometimes its better to face reality.Am sure everyone probably thinks about what their future is going to look like.I mean this is a man who has a short life due to the fact that he is sick.,Fine, she could stay with him for some time and help him but not till the end.Are you saying for the fact that he has helped her become somebody she should go ahead and sleep with him to get infected also?All in the name of love and appreciation.?Oh aden?The first scenario simply shows that the man is ungrateful, childish and a “fool”.Ok, fine , you stabbed the lady in the back, why dont you let her go so she can find someone help to heal her wound.The bottom line is:Men Are Ungrateful!!!!
THNX Adjoa……..MEN ARE REALLY, ABSOLUTELY, DEFINITELY, COMPLETELY UNGREATEFUL WITH A CAPITAL “U”
I am back… I am sure people are commenting with their sex in mind. The women on here are being bias as most are failing to look beyond their sexual orientation.
It cannot be even argued since women bear the biggest ungrateful badge. I will leave the two stories up out and chip in my little experience with a certain woman. It depicts how ungrateful women can be or are even immediately after you have helped them.
I was on a train to somewhere Yorkshire in the UK. I was seated near a black young girl who failed to even smile when I greeted her.
It was supposed to be a 5 hours journey and did not want to be “mumu” for that long so tried several times to pick up a conversation. Her responses were not friendly so I made it go…
After few hours, ticket inspectors came into the train. Guess what? She had no ticket and was threatened to be arrested at the next stop (handed over to the police).
The girl then burst in to tears, cried like a baby as she claimed she lost her wallet and all crap. As sat and watch her beg the ticket inspector. Then I said to myself, she may not have the right documents to even be in Britain, a hand over to the police for a 45 pounds ticket may cause her more harm.
I offered to pay and imagine the shock fused with smile on her face. I opened my wallet and took my credit card out. I was broke so was paying on my credit card…
After all the drama was over, she started talking to me and wanted to know much about me. I told her little and only asked for her contact number since she was getting off at the next stop.
She wrote her cell number on a newspaper she was reading and handed it over to me. As she went of the door, I decided to call to say, she should chill out and consider the day’s event as one of those bad days.
Guess what? she has given me a wrong number. Now, tell me, which sex is ungrateful? Men (me) or women (her)?
@Author: Chris-Vincent Agyapong Febiri, Oh oh ohhh chaley ur brave oooo loool…u got dissed Chrissy lol…BUT dat don’t mean women r ungrateful…listen…she made it clear she woznt interested by airin u wen u smiled @ her yeah…n e 1 in deir rite mind wud manipulate da situation 2 deir benefit afta sum1 helped dem out like u did wiv her…so she used her intelligence….where’s da ungratefulness in dat?…so u apid 4 her ticket n wot?…jus cos of dat she owed u a d8?…or maybe even 1 of her kidneys…kmt…cum on now Chris lol
@Soul Sista Boateng,
No, she only owed me a thank you, she couldn’t say it on the train so thought i will call and she will use that opportunity to say thank u, all i wanted was a mere thank u. and i got screwed with her ungratefulness
@Author: Chris-Vincent Agyapong Febiri, awwwwww poor lil chrissy lol…chaley am sure u get chow chicks n e wyz;-) so u 8nt gonna sweat ova no gettin a thank u 4rm dis 1
Hmm, so you only needed a mere thank you?You really really sure about that?Well I dont think that simple thank was going to make any difference in your life.Afterall you get to hear that almost everyday and remember your blessings comes from above.
@Soul Sista Boateng, Ok look in all honesty I would like to think I would taken your number if am so bothered about you harresing me… call on withheld say thanks and bid you goodbye. I agree Chris she was V ungrateful considering she could have been arrested. No one can force you on a date even. If you even called her and asked and she said no wots the biggy. But that was cold! Ah well am sure you ova it now…anyway Chris I woulda called ya wink wink 😉
Wouldn’t you have asked for a number if it was an old lady?
Funny how the guyz on diz site (Miyagi and TheChuckylee) jux answered the damn question themselves………I dnt. knw. y a lot of ppl. are given Miyagi props…….well i accept de fact dat, wat he wrote was well written, but, he answered the question crucifyin”’ his gender……..after a woman gives his whole heart to a man. they end up cheatin’, being liars, trip and a sap. …dat defines UNGRATEFULNEES, @Miyagi and Chukylee.MEN ARE UNGRATEFUL AS COMPARED TO WOMEN…..the guyz jux commintted themeselves. It ain’t matter, the kinda men ladies fell for, gud or bad. MEN ARE MEN, and wil continue to be ungrateful……….@Adjoa Nbaaso, i cudn’t agree wit u more, u awesome, MEN ARE COMPLETELY,ABSOLUTELY, DEFINITELY AND REALLY, REALLY UNGRATEFUL………!!
Aww Tisha thanks!!
men are totally ungrateful!!! for the love of God it could have been a different story if the man told her from the unset that he is HIV posItive, then the lady would have been ungrateful if she left him after all dat he has done her but with the other story the man is inhuman and a blackmailer; considering the fact that the lady still waited for him and provided for him everything, i mean everything and now he tends to threaten her after cheating on her with her own best friend!!! MEN, OH MEN!!!