Have you ever had that friend or friends who has pretty much been single for most of the time you’ve known her and you just don’t get it? Not only does she glow in the dark on nights out but she is also an amazing person who always looks fab and knows how to have a good laugh.

I guess we ladies are very different in our intimate relationships because it never makes sense why a lot of my now single friends are single. Aside from the fantasy make-myself-feel-better list: They’re either married, gay, in the army, in prison, a vicar etc.

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Dear GC,

I’ve been with my boyfriend for just over a year now and I can honestly say he is the man that has ticked 9 out of 10 things I want in a man. When we first met he was finishing his second year of university and looking forwards to completing his final year.

The summer was amazing and I really had a chance to look at our relationship as one that would go the distance. He made it clear how he felt about me and made a point of making me a big part of his life. We were like glue and spent everyday of the summer together.

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Twenty two players chasing one ball, cars racing around several times and given the name go-cart challenge or nascar. Pull your butt, your eye transfixed on a ball, swing the stick so hard and expect the ball to disappear into a hole and end up calling it golf.

Do all these make sense? Yet men watch these with so much enthusiasm and zeal. Honestly, men are so weird and complicated. A man can sleep with so many women, but if he sees his woman flirting with one man or just having a normal conversation, hell will break loose. They just snap.

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Check ma blings! When it comes to double dipping no one does better to root out the crushing defeats and sweet victories like yours truly.

Lets start with the hair, followed by clothes and finally the costumes. So what do you readers think about the shocking similarities in what people wear?

Can you say there will always be those who do an excellent job to wear it good, better or best?

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Kim Kardashian was recently spotted rockin her new braided hair that she swapped in place of her usual long wavy locks as she went for her gym workout. I’m not so  keen on the look to be honest BUT hey she tried something new right so kudos to her. So now I need some inspiration for what to change my locks and looks to. I need a new hair do to go with my new can-do attitude 😉

If you’re anything like me you don’t quite feel on point and sassy if your locks aren’t lookin’ slick and sweet! I can remeber a few times returning from hair salons and going straight back when I still can’t get over the bumps and lumps that were hidden from my view. It’s crazy right? The London Times News Paper once wrote an article about the fact that black women spend the most amount of money on their hair out of all the different cultural backgrounds. I read the titlle of the article and thought…say no more. I put my hand up, but not in shame. I dont much care for spending £200 on a pair of shoes but i’ll do that for my hair in a hot minute!

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2011 is here and surely one thing is on my mind. If you have the same mind and want as me, then come and join the fan club. 2010 saw the marriage of my little sister and though I was and have been excited for her, It brought intense pressure on me.

Family members and friends kept looking at my face like I am some weirdo on the wedding day, followed by messages such as “ you are next”, “we are praying for you and you will marry soon”.

The messages of most of the people asking God for a man for me kept pouring in non-stop the entire year as if they know the man I want in my life. I wonder what they tell God to give me in their prayers. I embraced all their prayers with a hypocritical AMEN.

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