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Love & Relationship: He Does Not Want Me Any More But His Family Adores Me, Should I Marry Him Because Of His Family…?

Worried Woman
Worried Woman

Dear GC,

I’m 27 and I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for 2 years now.  He was very good to me when we first met, a very kind and responsible guy.

If I’m honest I wasn’t really in love with him when we first met but as we moved on I fell deeply in love with him. All that changed after 1 year and I couldn’t ignore that it was obvious he was cheating on me.

I feel really hurt because it does not feel like he loves me the way he used to and he doesn’t seem to have time for me. The worse part is I’ve even caught him with a woman in his room before but when I confronted him about it, he told me that I’m the only woman he loves and because I love him so much I stayed.

It really feels like I’ve been in hell for a year now but because of how I feel about him and he knows this, I don’t know what to do.  The worst part of it all is, his family love me very much and they have even expressed their wishes for me to marry him. 

As it stands right now I have not heard from him in a month, yet his family want us to get married.

I’m confused and don’t know what to do, should I go ahead with the marriage because of his family? I don’t think he still loves me but I do still love him.

Please GC help me out.

From R.

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Dear R,

In an ideal world we’d have the man of our dreams and his family would adore us the way your boyfriend’s family do.

If your situation was the other way round and you had a bad relationship with the family but a great relationship with your man then of course it would be hard but it would still work and it would be worth the fight.

However having your guys family on your side is not enough to make your relationship work. You may be hoping that going along with their wishes will make your man see sense but it really won’t.

The same way his family could never tell him to marry you and him listen is the same way they can’t make him want to do right by you and marry and and start treating you the way he is supposed to treat you.  I’m sure you already know this deep down but the only thing I see here is an escape route!

Even if your man agrees with his family and marries you, the fact that you have caught him with his hand ‘in the cookie jar’ cheating means he will probably continue to do this in your marriage because you accepted it in the past and this would be heartbreaking for you.

You have the chance to take your leave and be ready to meet a man who will stop breathing before he lets a month go by without seeing you! Don’t miss out on having a man that will love and respect you and marry you with or without his family’s adoration.

Hope this helps!

Regards,

SassyChic!

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14 thoughts on “Love & Relationship: He Does Not Want Me Any More But His Family Adores Me, Should I Marry Him Because Of His Family…?”

  1. This isn’t even a dilemma….u deserve whatever heartbreak u get if u don’t know what to do in ur situation.

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    • If matters of the heart were THAT simple we’d all live happily ever after…pray you don’t fall with your heart for the wrong man and stop judging people! 

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  2. sweet i think you should take the advice from sassy chic, although its hard to let go but give it a try u will get over him

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  3. Though the family loves you,its the gentleman you will live with in the long run. Inform his family about the current state of your relationship to see if anything can be done about it.If not,please forget him and move on no matter how hard it may be.Its better to feel hurt now,grow stronger emotionally and live happily ever after than to sacrifice your future happiness for something which may never work.Consider this carefully and act accordingly.

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  4. This is total crap n Silliness.How can u marry somebody simply cuz of family ?Go on, n marry him and i promise u will experience TYPICAL Hell of your LIFE in that marriage.

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  5. daaaammmmmmmn!!!!!! u gona marry his family.think abt it…..if he doesn’t want u…den dnt want him too……..move on wit ya lyf

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  6. The family is not the one getting married to you. The guy is and im 100% sure if he doest love you anymore, there is no way he’s gonna get married to you my dear so forget about him and move on with your life. If you guys are meant to be, then sure enough he will come back. 

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  7. my dear it really hate but pls just forget abt him and move on as my other pals said ok, dnt marry to the family but to the guy and if he does nt wants u so be it. wise up gal…..gud luck.

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