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One of my best female friends ‘Doris’ has been battling for years to conceive a child and after moving from one prayer camp to another with her husband, God finally woke up from His sleep and answered their prayers.

The few months gone has been very exciting for Doris and her husband since it has taken them almost 7 years to have their prayers heard. 7 years is really a long time to wait on God when family members would not stop throwing all sort of pins to find a mistress for the Mr.

You can imagine the joy that this pregnancy has brought Doris but it seems all is dead gone and she wishes her prayers were never even answered.

After visiting the hospital to find out the sex of the child in the womb, Doris told me ‘everything has gone from beauty to nasty’.

The over-joyous and loving husband has become extremely moody without wanting to even hear anything about the baby she is carrying all because the test said they will have a GIRL.

‘I thought we wanted a baby that we can all ours’ Doris said in tears to me last Friday. I was so shocked to hear that the husband has gone this cold and moody just because they are going to have a GIRL, contrary to what he preferred-BOY.

After I dropped Doris off at the Saloon on Friday, I stared into my driving mirror for minutes and asked myself, “Does it really matter that it is a boy or girl?”

  • Have any of you guyz heard or come across a situation like this before?
  • Do any of you have such a strict sex preference for a first baby?
  • What would you want your first baby to be and why? Boy or Girl?


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5 thoughts on “Blog: Does It Really Matter That It Is A Boy Or Girl?”

  1. ma boyfriend also wants a boy as his child but he said he will be cool if it turns to be a gal.thou a boy is his wish.well for me it doesnt matter but som ppl realy make a big deal deal outta dis.i hav never heard somthin like dat among da white folks,i stand to be corrected thou.

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  2. as a mother for me a child is a child because a boy or a girl will get the same childhood fever, he or she will teethed same, you will have to change diapers, you will have to stay up, all the worries the parents go through still same, so just thank God for the blessing because a lot of people pray and wait for entire marriage and babies never come

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  3. Children are a blessing from God.It doesn’t matter whether its a boy or a girl,people go through IVF and other challenges just to have a baby. some so called pastors are taking advantage of these women. If i had a child and it is healthy then I will forever thank GOD.

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  4. A child is a child. The man wanted  a son as a first born… unfortunately that’s how many societies around the world seem to like. It’s not right and I condemn that. He should be happy that his wife has been able to conceive. For all you know the problem was from him and not her. He shouldn’t stress this pregnant woman out. She might lose the child due to anxiety and stress. 

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