I got into a discussion last night with my friends and to my astonishment, it seems some men will be more bothered or be hurt if their wife or girlfriend was caught cheating with a man. But they will be less bothered if she was cheating with a fellow woman.
Contrary to the above, it looks like women do not care whether their man cheated with another woman or a fellow man, they will be equally bothered and hurt no matter the sex of the 3rd party.
I am not sure if this cuts across but that is what I gathered from the lengthy conversation we got into last night…
Is it less of a moral crime if a woman cheats with another woman or if a man cheats with another man compared to if it is done with opposite sex?
Probably this even follows the legal definition of adultery where the law only sees adultery as when a married person engages in a sexual intercourse with an opposite sex who is not party to the marriage (3rd party is not the wife or husband). So if you catch your wife cheating with another woman or your husband with another man, it does not amount to Adultery in law (UK Law to precise).
What do you think? Will you be more bothered or hurt if your partner cheats on you with an opposite sex and be less bothered if he/she cheated with the same sex?
I know guys who said if their wife or girlfriend cheats with another woman, all they will do is invite other woman home for ‘Ménage à trios’ (pardon my French).
I will be hurt if she was cheating with a man and will be more disgusted/appalled if she was in bed with her ” supi” . I may be willing to forgive if caught with a man but with another woman that’s an outright NO- she goes!
The only reason it will not bother most men that much if their lady cheat with another lady is because then they think ok, we can always bring a girl in for a 3-some!!!!!!
A cheat is a cheat, on less you’re in an open relationship.
As a woman, I think I will be hurt and bothered even if my man cheats with another man. I know for sure that men will not care much if their women cheat with other women but for a woman, we are jealous and every cheat will hurt us
hi GC i need your help i just found out that this actress luckie lawson broke up with her husband and now living in USA with her son is it true?….. i guess that’s why we don’t see her in movies anymore.. please girl come back cuz we miss u n i love ur movies…. the best female gangsta in Ghana movies….. please come back…
@merlow, Wow, am going to be really disappointed if this story is true.I luv Luckie and She looked really cute with her husband.And merlow, where did you hear this from?amanfo)
pls i want to know why we don’t get to watch many ghanian films on africa magic . I don’t see so many in cd shops in my town in nigeria here so africa magic would have helped a lot. I want to see shirley frimpong’s movies cos she gets a lot of positive comments on this site but sadly i hav not seen any of her works.