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Dear GC Readers: I Am Pregnant For A Married Man…I Need Urgent Advice


Dear GC,
I’m really stressed and worried about my current situation. I know it’s all my fault in a way and  I never should have even started dating a married man but when we met he told me he was separated.
I really believed him since he took me to the house and even introduced me to his friends. Now I’m pregnant I don’t know what to do.
I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for two years when we met at an annual work event. For a whole year he just said they were having issues and he’s leaving.
Recently I saw them together (him and his wife) and I knew he had lied. I’m so angry, hurt and betrayed. I am going to have this baby but I don’t think he should know!
He has no right to know and he doesn’t deserve to know but my brother said I’m wrong to keep this from him. Am I wrong? I think I should tell his wife what is going on because I just feel so betrayed.
Anne.
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Dear Anne,
It sounds that you just found out about the pregnancy. It’s never good to make decisions in haste or anger.
What is important now is for you to put your baby and both your welfares before any emotional needs.
You blame yourself but it takes two to make a baby which is why keeping him out of the picture is not the solution long term.
Telling the wife will only cause you unwanted drama which is not what you need at this stage.
Hope this helps
All the best
SassyChic!

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  1. Please don’t blame yourself, and not telling the man about it is wrong. He is a liar, and that is the bottom line. I am dating a man who told me he was facing challenges in his marriage, and eventually separated. He is not divorced. Some men are honest and some are just liars. They just lie to get to you, and that is all. I don’t think many women want to date married men, so they come to you telling you that they are separated or facing challenges, so you can give in. Once you do, they just take advantage and bounce. Have your baby, but let him know about it and keep away from him for good. I hope this helps.

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  2. madam there is no need of letting da wife know……….cuz if u do they will later on becum one nd u will be da fool…so just let da guy know u preg nd thus it…..he will tell u to go 4 an abortion nd u just tell him no….after he has seen u hav kept the baby,he will try to be passing by to hav sex wit u occasionally but u need to refuse him till yr bby is born….and then he take care of his responsibilities as a father…..guess this helps

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  3. madam go hang yourself…why you go follow married man…that’s how greedy some of these girls are…they don’t want their own man…always snatching peoples husband…fuck u….

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  4. You want to let the wife now? Go ahead and see the slaps you will get plus the man will never be good to know. You have always been a secret and  i know this is hard, but you will remain so. Think about how you will have to take care of yourself and the baby and let the loser man off your head

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  5. @tee @agbo stop behaving lyk the fucking children u are and offer constructive solutions.She has admitted she made a mistake and besides the man told her he was separated. My dear let him know every man has the right to know if he has a child somewhere

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  6. hi dear, u made a big mistake dating a married man and getting pregnant for him. if u want to date a married man, always control yourself not to be pregnant. also, u thinking to tell his wife is to cause u a very serious prob. but u should tell the man about the pregnancy in a calm way. hope it helps.

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  7. my dear this is a very bad situation.my advice is to abort d pregnancy.hvn dat baby will be ur worst nitmare and u’ll regret it.this man was in 4 fun and dnt b fooled dat he’l leave his wife 4 u.hvn bitterness in u tru pregnancy will affect u and ur unborn child.should dis man deny u and ur pregnancy,can u takecare of a pregnancy uv not planned for?are u financially sound?my dear, its not easy.just do away with d pregnancy n move on.visit a good specialist doctor b4 its too late.ALL THE BEST!

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  8. I know how you feel im in the same situation… But he lied and told me he wasn’t married…… Now im pregnant and he went back to his wife…… And told me basically its over and he don’t want the baby he moving back home to.Africa…. My heart is so broken cause I really loved this man, and all.I can do is blame myself

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  13. OMG!! This is certainly a shocking and a genuine Testimony i have ever
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    and i was totally inconsolable and without hope because i have tried all
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    [email protected] of this powerful and great spell caster called
    Dr Omoze on the forum.. And i saw how Dr Omoze reunited a family and
    brought the Husband of a woman back to her in just 24 hours..I never
    believed it, because i never heard nor learnt anything about magic before..
    Not a soul would have been able to influence me about magical spells, not
    until Dr omoze did it for me and restored my marriage of 8 years back to me
    and brought my spouse back to me in the same 24 hours just as i read on the
    internet..i was truly astonished and shocked when my husband came to my
    house and knelt down begging for forgiveness and for me to accept him
    back.. I am really short of expressions, and i don’t know how much to
    convey my appreciation to you Dr omoze.. you are certainly a God sent to me
    and my entire life and family.. he did his work just as he guaranteed me in
    24 hours and it yielded an optimistic result to me and i was able to get my
    Husband back. right now my Husband has falling so much in love with me and
    my kids like never before. This spell casting isn’t brain washing but he
    opened up his eyes to see how much i love and wanted him, i really don’t
    know how best to be grateful to you Dr omoze for bringing happiness into
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    Email: [email protected], or connect him with these number +2348036640164

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  14. OMG!! This is certainly a shocking and a genuine Testimony i have ever
    seen..I visited a forum here on the internet on the 20TH OF JUNE 2014,
    after my husband separated me and my marriage of 8 years was broken down
    and i was totally inconsolable and without hope because i have tried all
    means to get my husband back after much pleading and did everything
    possible to make sure that he comes back, but nothing worked out for me….
    And i saw a marvelous testimony with this email adress
    [email protected] of this powerful and great spell caster called
    Dr Omoze on the forum.. And i saw how Dr Omoze reunited a family and
    brought the Husband of a woman back to her in just 24 hours..I never
    believed it, because i never heard nor learnt anything about magic before..
    Not a soul would have been able to influence me about magical spells, not
    until Dr omoze did it for me and restored my marriage of 8 years back to me
    and brought my spouse back to me in the same 24 hours just as i read on the
    internet..i was truly astonished and shocked when my husband came to my
    house and knelt down begging for forgiveness and for me to accept him
    back.. I am really short of expressions, and i don’t know how much to
    convey my appreciation to you Dr omoze.. you are certainly a God sent to me
    and my entire life and family.. he did his work just as he guaranteed me in
    24 hours and it yielded an optimistic result to me and i was able to get my
    Husband back. right now my Husband has falling so much in love with me and
    my kids like never before. This spell casting isn’t brain washing but he
    opened up his eyes to see how much i love and wanted him, i really don’t
    know how best to be grateful to you Dr omoze for bringing happiness into
    my life and family, and now i am a joyful woman once again.. here is his
    Email: [email protected], or connect him with these number +2348036640164…

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  15. OMG!! This is certainly a shocking and a genuine Testimony i have ever
    seen..I visited a forum here on the internet on the 20TH OF JUNE 2014,
    after my husband separated me and my marriage of 8 years was broken down
    and i was totally inconsolable and without hope because i have tried all
    means to get my husband back after much pleading and did everything
    possible to make sure that he comes back, but nothing worked out for me….
    And i saw a marvelous testimony with this email adress
    [email protected] of this powerful and great spell caster called
    Dr Omoze on the forum.. And i saw how Dr Omoze reunited a family and
    brought the Husband of a woman back to her in just 24 hours..I never
    believed it, because i never heard nor learnt anything about magic before..
    Not a soul would have been able to influence me about magical spells, not
    until Dr omoze did it for me and restored my marriage of 8 years back to me
    and brought my spouse back to me in the same 24 hours just as i read on the
    internet..i was truly astonished and shocked when my husband came to my
    house and knelt down begging for forgiveness and for me to accept him
    back.. I am really short of expressions, and i don’t know how much to
    convey my appreciation to you Dr omoze.. you are certainly a God sent to me
    and my entire life and family.. he did his work just as he guaranteed me in
    24 hours and it yielded an optimistic result to me and i was able to get my
    Husband back. right now my Husband has falling so much in love with me and
    my kids like never before. This spell casting isn’t brain washing but he
    opened up his eyes to see how much i love and wanted him, i really don’t
    know how best to be grateful to you Dr omoze for bringing happiness into
    my life and family, and now i am a joyful woman once again.. here is his
    Email: [email protected], or connect him with these number +2348036640164

    Reply
  16. OMG!! This is certainly a shocking and a genuine Testimony i have ever
    seen..I visited a forum here on the internet on the 20TH OF JUNE 2014,
    after my husband separated me and my marriage of 8 years was broken down
    and i was totally inconsolable and without hope because i have tried all
    means to get my husband back after much pleading and did everything
    possible to make sure that he comes back, but nothing worked out for me….
    And i saw a marvelous testimony with this email adress
    [email protected] of this powerful and great spell caster called
    Dr Omoze on the forum.. And i saw how Dr Omoze reunited a family and
    brought the Husband of a woman back to her in just 24 hours..I never
    believed it, because i never heard nor learnt anything about magic before..
    Not a soul would have been able to influence me about magical spells, not
    until Dr omoze did it for me and restored my marriage of 8 years back to me
    and brought my spouse back to me in the same 24 hours just as i read on the
    internet..i was truly astonished and shocked when my husband came to my
    house and knelt down begging for forgiveness and for me to accept him
    back.. I am really short of expressions, and i don’t know how much to
    convey my appreciation to you Dr omoze.. you are certainly a God sent to me
    and my entire life and family.. he did his work just as he guaranteed me in
    24 hours and it yielded an optimistic result to me and i was able to get my
    Husband back. right now my Husband has falling so much in love with me and
    my kids like never before. This spell casting isn’t brain washing but he
    opened up his eyes to see how much i love and wanted him, i really don’t
    know how best to be grateful to you Dr omoze for bringing happiness into
    my life and family, and now i am a joyful woman once again.. here is his
    Email: [email protected], or connect him with these number +2348036640164.

    Reply
  17. I am Sofia Rosendo Palma from C/ Grande, Nº16 Chinchón (Madrid) 28370 SPAIN I would like to share a little testimony of my life,some few months ago,I started having problems in my wedlock,then my husband left home,leaving me behind my our son,he left for 4months,i then started having problems where I work,I went from place to place for help but to no avail,till my uncle contact me to a spell caster,I never believed spells,but I had no choice,we contacted him,and he asked for some things to prepare the spell,he fixed it and gave me 48hrs,promised my husband will call back and my problems at work be over..in the following days,I was promoted and my husband called same day the spell casted..am so so happy..if you have problems in life what so ever(love spells,want your Ex back,getting good contracts,promotions at work ,protection & fortification etc),then contact him on([email protected]) and your troubles will be over in less than 48hrs..thank you..and help me thank him too. Email: [email protected]

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