Lifestyle: The Beautiful Young Ghanaian Woman And The Old White Lover-A Sickening Trend?23 Comments

GC Staff
Posted on 07 Jun 2012 at 10:54am

Have you taken a quiet stroll through the priced restaurants in town on a good day or night? Especially the Accramall?

Have you been to the Labadi beach recently with your friends or family ?

Does this sound familiar?

Has anyone noticed the rising sickening trend of Ghanaian women trying to bag a white old man to seal their status’ as societal ‘it women’?

Most of whom are the most gorgeous ladies among their peers. Well I have noticed and wonder how they think low enough to cultivate this sort of idea and subsequently put it into practice.

I remember having a drink with my friend at ‘firefly’ and overhearing two ladies speaking behind me about white men.

One of them was complaining about how uncomfortable she was in the midst of so many white men and her friend replied how happy she was because she liked to be checked out by white men. She said “I like places where there are a lot of white men because they have the money you know !!”

I almost rudely interrupted their conversation to school her. Ghanaian women, who are ignorant enough to think some of these white men actually give a damn about you, let me give you a rude awakening.

Some of the white men around only want one thing from you and that is to use you as sexual toys. Their opinions about you haven’t changed since slavery days. You are their little slave bitch they keep in the corner away from the eyes of the world.

Even when they marry you, it’s mostly because they want to make their business dealings easier in Ghana or they keep you here in a 2 bedroom apartment and come visit every now and then for maybe 2 weeks a year.

And send you some petty dollars once in awhile which changes for enough cedis to compensate you while you toil away at the embassy waiting for a visa to his country that will never come.

Why? Have you asked yourself? The answer is simple. You will never be the ‘leading lady’. Ask your husband why you haven’t gotten a visa to even go visit him after you have been trying for 5/6 years?

Get some sense into your heads! You are not a part of his real life! His real life is out there. And you are out here!! It hurts very badly when I hear even educated Ghanaian women set their sights on landing a white man. Wake up! Most don’t care about you at all!

I remember reading somewhere that the owner of Atlantic lobster who made headlines awhile back for refusing to let blacks patronise his business was married to a Ghanaian woman. How does that sound?  I hope you understand the points I am making here.

I need more Ghanaian women to wise up and stop thinking a white man is an end to all their financial woes. Many Ghanaian men are even better off! Fact!!

I know several ladies who have married white men and later regretted it badly.  Who told you there are no good Ghanaian men? The right Ghanaian man will treat you with respect and give you the right status. Why choose to be a holiday toy? This is my observation, what has been your observation or experience?




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  • Akua

    Hmmm Chris, I am with you on this one. Most Ghanaian women believe hanging out with an old white guy will give them societal status, yak!! Just as you said, many Ghanaian men are better off than these white old folks. Frankly, I have never been attracted to them, and I thank God for that. I love my strong Ghanaian man. I respect everyone and like everyone else I like money too, but I will not stoop low because of money. I respect, love, and treasure myself too much to allow that to happen. Good article and a great point made, Chris.

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  • Christiana Quarshie pickens

    Thank you so much for bringing this matter to light. I was just in Accra less than 3weeks ago. And I did witness exactly what you are talking about  and I was extremely sickened to witness what Ghanaian women have become. I can count the numerouse of times I saw beautiful Ghanaian ladies with these old and retched Caucasian men. I have to say I was very disappointed in my fellow Ghanaian sisters.  Open your eyes Ghanaian women, these men are they to USE you and the sad thing is you are making it very easy for them buy stooping so low. Whatever happened to the women of Ghana with pride, respect, dignity? What happened? Ask yourself, why is this “obroni interested in me? He has an agenda, and guess what his future does not include you. WAKE THE F**K UP!!
    While we are on this subject, another thing that pissed me off is the fact that the foreigners are literally taking over Ghana. what’s up? Ghanaians and Ghanaians abroad guess what the FOREIGNERS ARE TAKING OVER. This is the most upsetting part, how is it that a Chinese man is able to leave his country, come to my country of Ghana and try to sell me a land in Ghana? HELLO!!! What has become of Ghana? 
    Please my fellow Ghanaians let stand up and do something before its too late. I love my country far too much to sit and watch this continue. Who’s with me?

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  • GCStaff

    Thank you Christiana Quarshie and Oforiwa. I am glad you understand my point of view. It takes education. It is a matter of ignorance so work on the minds of every such woman you meet and we will get somewhere. At the end of the day the bad name goes for all Ghanaian women.

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  • GCStaff

    *Akua

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  • Metaphor

    How is it sickening?If she cannot afford food to eat in a day.Do you expect them to hang around accra market as kayayo.lol.Do not condemn someone’s way of making money and earning their daily bread.
    Heck if shes with an old white man.What will you say if they are with old blk men.
    White men coming to ghana for sex mongering is doing good to our economy so shut it.

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    jessi Reply:

    @Metaphor, you have a point there,i mean are our black men any better?i have seen alot of our women here married to old whites guys and they are living quite well,a good home and very comfortable,some have gone home,built houses and doing 1 or 2 busineses here and there and they are happy,i has become a common knowlege that 85 to 90 percent of our black men cheats,some are even worse when they get married making their wives miserable,well the women do cheat too but its most common with the men,the stories are many and divorces everywhere but with the whites,even if its does not work the lady will not loose out completely,personaly i dont know what i will do with a white man,i mean i dont like the dick,i prefere the real cut long black dick but they are defnately a better choice than all these chewing gum boyfriends we have at home and i love the mix colour kids i think they are soo beautiful expecially as babies.

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    CJ SAINI Reply:

    Madam iam a Indian fell in love with a chui girl, can u help me in this? The girl too loves me a lot, nd I don’t want to break her heart, what should I do my no. Is 0506757825 plz suggest me something, I want to give her a good loving life, becoz she is beautiful, nd she is not rich

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  • em

    Hahaha we in the state here don’t even care about white men. my goodness the got some weirdo smell…

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  • Christiana Quarshie pickens

    @Metaphor, do me a favor and picture your friend, sister, daughter, auntie, cousin, or better yet your mother as one of these degrading Ghanaian women with these “Caucasian old good for nothing men” parading around town. There is no excuse for such behavior, no whatsoever .

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    jessi Reply:

    @Christiana Quarshie pickens, oh my dear there are excuses oh soo many of them,and reasonable ones too,i will give you one. A girl walks to my gate the last time i was home,asked what she wanted, she want to wash our dirty clothes to get money,asked her age,she is 16 with a 8 months old baby girl at her back,if she goes to school,she said no,who is the father of the child?he refused the pregnancy,what about her parents?both dead,who does she live with now?grandmother,what does the grandmother do?a petty farmer,now if this girl,at 16 through whatever way get to meet a 60 year old white man who offers her financial help like money for her child,some apartment and good things of life and even to fly her abroad with her child,do you think she will refuse?the moral thing will be to refuse but what other choice does she have,do our system have any real genue opportunities for cases like hers?thats the point.

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    CJ SAINI Reply:

    So much Wahala in this fucking life, white n black it doesn’t matter. love, care, relationship, truth and money matters, Iam happy I have a caring Ghana girl, becoz she didn’t hideaanything from me about her past life, she been thru a lot, by God grace I will do every possible thing for my love.

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  • Metaphor

    I don’t mind seeing Ghanaian women with white men.It helps boost tourism in the country.
    My main problem is seeing beautiful gh women with lebanese men.These men do not respect black women.When i came back to Ghana last yr.I noticed many Ghanaian women always surrounding Lebanese men in night clubs.I feel so disgusted by it.Since when did refugees start getting more respect than the citizens of the country.

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    ThinkinB4Speakin Reply:

    @Metaphor, Seriously? That is what you are upset over? The author of this article aims to discuss the white sugar daddy and you are flipping it to a discriminatory theme? She isn’t writing of the several Lebanese who came to our homeland so long ago that they themselves now call it their home. Surely if you live or lived In Ghana, you would see that a lot of them have married Ghanaian women, had children and are still successfully wed. Some of these people speak the local language (fluently) and eat our local foods with a lot more zeal enthusiasm than their hereditary ones! The emphasis is on the ‘old’ obrinis roaming around with these girls who in my opinion are more or less selling their bodies for frankies and Irish cream. Plz Metaphor, don’t bring your racism here, stick to the subject matter outlined…

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    ThinkinB4Speakin Reply:

    @Metaphor, Also, to term the Lebanese in ghana refugees, they must have entered the country without a visa, you cannot apply for a resident visa if your aim of entering that country is to seek asylum. The older families own businesses that increase the employment rate of our people, several of which you yourself must have shopped at numerous times. These are ‘immigrants’ since they rarely ever return to their home countries. The young Lebanese men you see nowadays are a result of our university educated people leaving to the US and the UK for jobs, leaving these job vacancies to be filled; in other words, the same way your friend Kojo graduated Legon and went to work for IBM in the States, this Lebanese Ahmed also graduated uni in his hometown and sought work overseas , in Ghana. These are ‘expats’ as they most likely will return to their home countries to settle after saving some money. Whoa, I feel like I’m giving a school lesson! Lastly, we have these ‘akokra boni obronis’ who from setting foot in KIA have one mission and one mission only; sex! These are called ‘sexual tourists’. Hope this straightens things out…

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    Metaphor Reply:

    @ThinkinB4Speakin,Are you lebanese? Or are you their official spokesperson?You should know that these same lebanese you call our siblings will fist fight with you when they see their own girls with a black man.Why shouldn’t i get pissed at them for using black girls when they get angry when their girls hang with black men.The old white men atleast give money to the girls,the girls need it to feed their families.Lebanese don’t give anything to the girls.They just use them for sex and later go to marry their own girls.I am speaking for what majority of them do.

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  • Miyagi

    Why is it that some people think they are better than others,when in reality we all bleed red and everyone,s shit stinks!! If that’s what they want allow them we are here commenting and all living the better life than what others are living back home so you can’t really blame some of them 

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  • Christiana Quarshie pickens

    @jessi, thanks for your rebuttal. I didn’t think to look at it that way. I really appreciate that eye opener. To pick up from your last statement in your rebuttal, the government needs to do more in providing opportunities in the country for young girls like the 16year old. Because I believe just like you if that 16year old had an opportunity from the start, life would be a little easier on her. I do give her credit for not sitting on her behind and feeling sorry for herself but rather taking some actions for a better tomorrow. Again, the government, the country needs to do better in providing resources and opportunities for the young girls of Ghana. It’s all about starting sooner rather than later.

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    jessi Reply:

    @Christiana Quarshie pickens, you are absolutely right.

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  • chris

    Funny reading this and scary too. People are saying the same thing in the philippines. I am not married to a black women from ghana, but a woman from the philippines I am white we meet 15 years ago. love each other and 1 lovely kid. She is 10 years younger than me. We now live in europe after 10 years in the philippines. DO YOU THINK it is nice when people are thinking that my asian wife must be a mail order bride or what not! YOU know STOP judging people you dont know! (you wanted to school the girls talking) maybe you need to be schooled ? think about it. People should mind their own business, dont try to control other peopels lifes or judge what is best for them. If you dont like a white person….no problem, dont be with one. But keep your business to yourself. Why create a world of hatred ? it serves no one…except the devil inside. BTW. I think black women are beautifull, and most black dudes are more cool than white. But thats just my opinion. People are free to choose what they want…also uncool old white guys (except fro myself ofcause :-) but then again I am not too old (44). Have a nice day.

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    hugh3s Reply:

    @chris,well said -- i think its a matter of choice -- after all don’t black men do the same in europe in order to get a green card -- --  In as much as we know that most is for financial gains and a chance for a better life --  some actually really love themselves.
    I once dated a white lady and most people without  knowing nothing about me, about the relationship  -- just think i must be leaching off her --  There was an incident that really ticked me off -- we just finished eating at a restaurant and the waiter came back with the bill, he didn’t even glance at me -- he just presented the bill to my white girlfriend!! now this happened on more than one occasion- we eventually turned this into a betting game -- can you believe out of 10 restaurants we visited for a period of time only one actually presented the bill to me -- and i gave him a very big tip! the young man didn’t know what  hit him because he was actually a very bad waiter. lol

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  • Abi gabby

    Most of them want papers to move abroad. Simon you sound like the exact pig who fetishes Black women. It doesn’t sound like you ”love” your wife. It sounds like she’s a trophy of how culturally open you are and culturally accepting. Bet you love your little medal and love flaunting her everywhere because women of your own country would never like you. These men prey on vulnerable Black girls because these girls have so little self-worth, these White men know what they’re doing. Why do you think they pick on these little women in the developing world.

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  • Abi gabby

    Don’t you dare send for Ghanaians again with your passive aggressive bullshit, just because you’re married to one. We don’t actually care or are bothered by interracial relationships. Nor do we care that you managed to infiltrate your dirty sperm in your childlike bride. The British have been in Ghana for centuries and you’ll continue to be there.

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  • Shane

    Wow, I’ve been working in ghana for 3 years now and met my now Ghanaian girlfriend 2 years ago on an international flight. I’m 15 years older than her but so what. When we met she had her own house in Accra, car and business. We have been on overseas vacations and soon will meet my family in Australia. Oh yeah I’m white, what is the big deal. There are many Africans in Australia who marry whites, this is 2013. I plan to marry my girlfriend and have a good life together. I can’t help it if I’m white and she is black, it’s just how it is. Some of you need to get a life.

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