Have you taken a quiet stroll through the priced restaurants in town on a good day or night? Especially the Accramall?
Have you been to the Labadi beach recently with your friends or family ?
Does this sound familiar?
Has anyone noticed the rising sickening trend of Ghanaian women trying to bag a white old man to seal their status’ as societal ‘it women’?
Most of whom are the most gorgeous ladies among their peers. Well I have noticed and wonder how they think low enough to cultivate this sort of idea and subsequently put it into practice.
I remember having a drink with my friend at ‘firefly’ and overhearing two ladies speaking behind me about white men.
One of them was complaining about how uncomfortable she was in the midst of so many white men and her friend replied how happy she was because she liked to be checked out by white men. She said “I like places where there are a lot of white men because they have the money you know !!”
I almost rudely interrupted their conversation to school her. Ghanaian women, who are ignorant enough to think some of these white men actually give a damn about you, let me give you a rude awakening.
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Some of the white men around only want one thing from you and that is to use you as s*xual toys. Their opinions about you haven’t changed since slavery days. You are their little slave b*tch they keep in the corner away from the eyes of the world.
Even when they marry you, it’s mostly because they want to make their business dealings easier in Ghana or they keep you here in a 2 bedroom apartment and come visit every now and then for maybe 2 weeks a year.
And send you some petty dollars once in awhile which changes for enough cedis to compensate you while you toil away at the embassy waiting for a visa to his country that will never come.
Why? Have you asked yourself? The answer is simple. You will never be the ‘leading lady’. Ask your husband why you haven’t gotten a visa to even go visit him after you have been trying for 5/6 years?
Get some sense into your heads! You are not a part of his real life! His real life is out there. And you are out here!! It hurts very badly when I hear even educated Ghanaian women set their sights on landing a white man. Wake up! Most don’t care about you at all!
I remember reading somewhere that the owner of Atlantic lobster who made headlines awhile back for refusing to let blacks patronise his business was married to a Ghanaian woman. How does that sound? I hope you understand the points I am making here.
I need more Ghanaian women to wise up and stop thinking a white man is an end to all their financial woes. Many Ghanaian men are even better off! Fact!!
I know several ladies who have married white men and later regretted it badly. Who told you there are no good Ghanaian men? The right Ghanaian man will treat you with respect and give you the right status. Why choose to be a holiday toy? This is my observation, what has been your observation or experience?