Hello Chris-Vincent,
It’s me again, the confused and anonymous guy from Accra. I’m happy you posted my previous mail to your readers to give me advice on what I need to do.
My problem again is that, I met this beautiful girl few months ago and we started dating seriously a week later.
I’m particular about where I meet ladies so I can say I’m happy with the venue and what has happened so far.
Even though she accepted my proposal, in all this while, I have been the one telling her I love her.
Sometimes I get the feelings that, she doesn’t love me but at some put, I tell myself that, maybe she needs time to fully love me, after all love grows.
I was beginning to get tired as I was the one who says or initiates everything. Which guy wouldn’t like his girl to be bold enough to initiates stuffs? Every guy wants his girl to be an initiator and not just a follower.
Recently, she told me she loves me after several complaints. I think she just said it because of my incessant complains.
Is she for real or saying it to make me happy?
Please advise me now.
From a confused and anonymous man in Accra/Ghana
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when someone loves you it comes naturally through the persons actions it doesnt necessarrily has to be spoken words. search within ur heart if she really loves you. for all you know she said that cos of your persistent complains.
Dude what wrong with you ,if a girl does not love you can’t you see ,what are brains for ?
If you can’t see what going on ,commit suicide
Love truly comes naturally….when i met my fiancee, i never said “i love you” to him for about two months, although he was always saying it…but my dear, the day i said it, i felt it deeply within me and when i said it, he looked into my eyes and he knew that i meant it…..i actually meant it
Hahahahahha I don’t no what to say anymore but this dude deserve some beating paaa was he raised by a woman or what (No offence to the ladies) someone should lock his ass up inside the mental unit cause there is clearly something wrong with him
hmmmm lol.. there are much fake gurls around.. this dude might be in love…..
Pure definition of mamabee paa lol damn hahahahaha omg i need me a man like this lol
aaaahh this guy paa…how can you force a lady to say ‘i love u’ …..gyimmi paaa ni
To me “i love you” is just another sentence. people say it all the time even without knowing if what they are feeling is love. You shouldnt have complain about her not telling you she loves you .
Her actions should answer your question.