For some unfair reason, ALL women seem to kick off on the premise-All men are cheats or would eventually cheat one day when the opportunity presents itself. If not all women, then all the women I have come across in my life do…
As a man who has probably been more faithful in all my relationships than the women I have been involved with, I find this assumption not only unfair but also cruel.
I am one of those men who believe in giving people the ‘benefit of doubt’. On no certain term will I just unfairly transfer the malice of my former partner unto my new partner, thinking because she did this and that, the new one can or even has the tendency of doing so.
If I do not transfer malice in the above way, this should tell you that, I kick start every new relationship or friendship on the basis of full trust. Until a particular person breaches my trust or gives me enough reasons to withdraw my trust, I find it unhealthy, cruel, unjust and unreasonable to start with DOUBT.
However, my dealings with several women have revealed that, this species of human race have this entrenched DOUBT embedded in their DNA. Even if you have not done anything, they look around to find non-connecting dots and then eventually knit a web out of it, mostly false in reality but in their imagination, it is true…
Which woman have you dated or have you been with that has not in the slightest of her imagination thought that you are somehow cheating behind her or involved in some sort of unholy act?
I find it difficult to understand the psyche of women in relation to the above and as such, I hope they can explain to us better why they think so…
If you are a man reading this, how has your experience with women been in relation to trust? And if you are a woman; do you affirm or reject the question-All Women Think All Men Are Cheats Or Would One Day Cheat…
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Unfortunately, the trend called “all men are cheats” is gaining ground and there is nothing men can do about it. I hate it when a lady who doesn’t even know my last name would feel comfortable to call me a cheat or a playa just because her last boyfriend cheated on her. Women should realize that, men are different. We’re not all the same. I can’t even begin to share the experience i had because it’s damn too many. That’s why i chose to stay single for now.
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I didn’t even read the article but I know the answer,BECAUSE Y’ALL ARE CHEATS! BY NATURE. ANY MAN WHO HASN’T CHEATED YET,ONLY MEANS A LACK OF OPPORTUNITY. YOUR WEAK SELF WILL MELT AS SOON AS YOU SEE AN ATTRACTIVE BOOTY.
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KA NE WU Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 15:32
@S3m3nhyia, ohooooo sister adzen! Lol
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gaelleangelle Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 15:33
@S3m3nhyia, I back it up 100%
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Dr. Miyagi Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 16:16
@gaelleangelle,you back her up 100% I’m not surprised why men wouldn’t cheat on you with that facial
Expression. You look more like a girl that a guy will take out after treating you on Jollof, pepper soup,shawama,kilishi,chicken,chips&burger,drink Smirnoff,& when he is about to take you home you answer him ”sorry i am on my period” WITCH! Even though he did not have any bad intention your insecurity is very low how many guys have you dated already?
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gaelleangelle Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 16:43
@Dr. Miyagi, I’ve been with one guy since forever thank u …n know how to address ppl in a better manner next time
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Dr. Miyagi Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 16:46
@gaelleangelle,you been with one guy and your backing someone 100% lol funny
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gaelleangelle Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 16:51
@Dr. Miyagi, I believe everyone is entitled to their opinion here
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Dr. Miyagi Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 16:57
Ofcourse your entitled to drop your opinion and I agree with you on that,but that doesn’t mean I can’t ask questions especially for a girl who has been with one person but still can back someone 100% or has your man cheated on you somany times that you have forgiving him because you sound really insecure @gaelleangelle,
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gaelleangelle Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 17:04
@Dr. Miyagi, lol but u don’t even no me or y I said that…..n sweety there’s no reason for me to be insecure
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Dr. Miyagi Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 17:10
Lol your right that I don’t know you yeah but reading your comments tells m that you are comment one you back someone 100% comment two if your man looks at other girl than its part of cheating as well what do you expect him to do walk “stevie wonder blind” out there all what? @gaelleangelle,
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gaelleangelle Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 17:31
@Dr. Miyagi, naww I spoke in general it ain’t gotta be my man …..HE’S AWESOME
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Dr. Miyagi Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 16:44
@S3m3nhyia,we are all cheats means they have cheated on you allot of times than, if you had loved Yourself you wouldn’t have been saying this one thing you should know is that your not a swap meet item just value your body and honour God with it. Cause ain’t no man should be worth your purity, because no matter how fine he is, or good talk he has. You have to follow the word not your emotions
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u look at another female in the wrong way u CHEATED already
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Truth Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 19:44
@gaelleangelle,STUPID mentality.SMH
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gaelleangelle Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 20:06
@Truth,matt 5:28 but I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart……This is wat I mean .so excuse ur self …
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Not all me. @ least not my MAN.
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Truth Reply:
December 20th, 2012 at 19:45
@em,Its better not to know the truth.
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December 21st, 2012 at 03:24
@Truth, i know my man..i trust & believe him, he is not ALL MEN.
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its both sides and not all men cheat but atleast 90 per.do though but not all.some women are also worse than men,they are not standing on the street like hores,no but into all kinds of runs,that is dating 234 guys at a time and those ones,nothing that comes out of their mouth is true,lies be nothing to them,some are drop dead beautiful from head to toe that sometimes you wonder why they are still single with all that beauty,they get who to spoil them with cash and trips and what have you but to propose marriage to them,lie lie because of their life style.there are also some men,they are just dogs,no matter what you do they are just like dogs,they just cant take their eyes of them booties so it cut across.
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December 20th, 2012 at 19:48
@jessi,thanks for your comment but looking at a lady’s booty doesn’t make you a dog.
I am a man who appreciates beauty a lot.Looking at them does not mean i will cheat on my gf.
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First m****ive respect to Jessi for keeping it real I totally agree with you. but not all men are cheaters. Some genuinely want a committed relationship. Men and women fantasise about other people, its natural, men are visual creatures so if they see an attractive woman of course they are going to check it out. This does not mean he wants to be with her! Men like security as much as women do in a relationship. That means that you need a woman with a realistic mind set. Im not sure why women think all men cheat or will ever cheat? there are also low down women who lie and cheat as well. its not limited to only men. Thats so sad! Why do women think that? If you find a nice woman, and she starts talking about that issue, then you need to leave her. Because if she has the mind set all men cheat and and are liars, than includes you as female too. She wont trust you, and will always check up on you cause she’s insecure! if you’re officially dating the girl then whats the problem? women need to give men more credit, We ate not bad as they make it sound don’t let one guy set your feelings on the male race. geez. All because she decided to date early blindfolded and was use at that time
Thank you and I rest my case
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December 20th, 2012 at 19:51
@Dr. Miyagi,first time i agree with you.
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December 20th, 2012 at 19:58
Thanks buddy@Truth,
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hahahahahaha… I really don’t know what I said that has attracted a lot negative thumbs down. Ya’ll should let me know now, are all men the same?
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Why do we say all men cheat, what is the kind of man you are dating? Men can cheat as well as women but why should i be suspicious that my man is cheating. if we ask the question which of these two gender is prone to cheat more then we can say the men because of several factors which are not part of this discussion. lets try and enjoy our relationships and avoid crying wolf when there is none.
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More often than I like, there seems to be a nonsensical piece of writing on this website. I’m quite ill today so I’m not even gonna be nice about it. How can one make the biggest generalisation and probably the most preposterous comment.
All women think men are cheats, does that not sound stupid to even dedicate a whole piece of writing to this. How could you possibly put every woman into that category. No doubt there are some women who will think they’ll get cheated on, whether it be down to insecurities, past experience or the guys dating history. But then, you have guys who have the same insecurites about cheating. Living in England, I know so many of my friends whose boyfriends hate them going on a night out for fear of being cheated on, but you wont catch me brandishing ALL men as insecure.
You know, this article could have been written in a way for me not to get so wound up about it. For instance, if the word ALL was substituted with SOME.
You haven’t even cited any survey sdone, your claims are based on the few women you know. I’m sorry even if you knew 1000 women and all these women thought this, population of ghana being 22 million or more. half being women, you’d be attempting to present the views of 0.0001 of women in ghana, as the views of the entire female population! How ridiculous.
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I agree with you Jessie. Both men and women cheat but I think society makes it easier and more acceptable for men to cheat so they do it more. Also, I think studies have shown that although both men and women like **** and think about it, men are attracted by sight and think about it more so they’re likely to cheat. Thank you
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December 20th, 2012 at 19:39
And what makes you think cheating is all about ****@Susie,
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December 20th, 2012 at 22:06
@Dr. Miyagi, hmmm it’s not only about **** but what’s inside the legs is sweet erh?
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December 20th, 2012 at 22:10
Okay I understand where your coming from but its not always sweet what if it happens and bad smell comes out of it or you pull it down and see a whole forest inbetween@Susie,
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December 20th, 2012 at 22:55
@Dr. Miyagi, hahaha! eii is that so? ok, we women promise to take good care of ‘our precious place’ so that it’ll allways be very sweet for our boyfriends and husbands ok?
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December 20th, 2012 at 23:06
@Susie,hahahaha that sounds better cause we don’t want any kobi smell coming out of it
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December 21st, 2012 at 04:11
@Dr. Miyagi, ewwwww… geeeezzzzzz!! blame ur moda for not cooking it well with hot water!
But tell you what , the correct scent OBGY says should be garlic onionish lol…
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December 21st, 2012 at 08:06
@NAADU,hahahaha lmao
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December 22nd, 2012 at 13:31
@NAADU, you said it all, lol
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it even suprises me when i hear dat…..i ask myself e number of guys they av dated b4 saying dat……….”i hav dated 2 girls and i found both cheatn, i’m now tired…..
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December 20th, 2012 at 22:35
@Komave,Just two and you are tired.
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December 20th, 2012 at 23:09
@Truth, yeah, wat aba you
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December 21st, 2012 at 01:06
@Komave,four gfs. Most of my female friends cheat on their bfs but i have seen some faithful good women out there too so there is still hope.
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December 21st, 2012 at 05:29
@Truth, wow, yu tried, i’m not givin up den, lol
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@Susie, i think that’ll do, lol
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December 21st, 2012 at 04:04
@Komave, Lol!!!! I think it’s the best thing to do!
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December 21st, 2012 at 05:31
@Susie, yeah, its aba tym i had sweet scented girls, lol
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I am a married woman and fully agree with the writer: women who think that men are cheaters are not being fair to men. Women can equally cheat. I see single women on facebook posting things like men are supposed to be the only ones to give into a relationship whilst the woman is to receive all the trust and affection. I think when single women do that, they drive all the men away from them.
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December 22nd, 2012 at 13:34
@Sally Amon-Kotey, exactly sister. more lecturing, and for those girls de3 leave dem wai…..they’ll be single foreva, lol
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I think that sometimes it has to do with your life experience. I do not have an uncle (and i have alot) or a male cousin who has not cheated on their wife. And I think about all the sufferings that our mothers used to go through for our fathers. But times hoave now changed and i think it is just working both ways now. its now really true that ‘only a woman knows the true father of her baby’.
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but honestly most men cheat on women -- i mean like 98% the 1.5% are the few good men -- and the 0.50% are gay. just saying…..
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most of the women are the biggest cheaters today, and they just can’t seem to be committed to only one man nowadays.
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