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FOR THE LADIES: Why Blame, Fight & Call The Intruder Names Like ‘Snatcher’ When You Should Be Fighting Your Man Rather?

cheatingWho is a husband/boyfriend snatcher? Nobody! A girl trails her partner and another girl to the nightclub, the ‘original’ girlfriend is shouting profanity and calling the other names, fighting her. The perpetrator of the crime is standing there unscathed and the ‘other woman’ is suffering abuse. Some women are quickly labelled snatchers as if they snatched a thing or a minor.

When you pass by a billboard advertising a product/service, it is inviting you to treat (offer), when you buy that product or service, you’ve accepted the offer. That is how it works with cheating husbands or boyfriends.

A lady displays her ‘pulling power’ to a guy, married or single and the man gladly accepts with arms opened wide. He was not snatched!

A man is never forced into a relationship, they enter with their eyes wide opened and their faculties intact, so no matter how juicy the boobs or thigh looks, they were given the invitation to treat and it was accepted. Even if, the lady in question knows the person she is dealing with is married, a wife has no right or is not right to fight her. Some ladies only love a married man and that is their prerogative.

I always have this notion that, no matter how a boyfriend/husband gets into an ‘unholy’ relationship with another woman, it is never the place of a wife/girlfriend to fight the intruder.

The person you should be ‘fighting’ is your boyfriend/husband. An embittered wife/girlfriend should channel her anger to the right source, the husband or boyfriend. It seems the mistress or the other chick is always at the receiving end.

Communication is the key here. Why don’t you ask him why he is straying and work on it? If he is a habitual womaniser and you married him, that is your cross to bear, if a boyfriend, you can simply  leave. Just in case you don’t know, when you fight the other woman your husband/boyfriend may need to go and pacify her, so you have pushed them back together. The guy is the one who put the relationship in a mess, not the other woman.

Why don’t you reserve your energy for profitable things, like sorting the relationship out? Stop trimming the branches and sort the root out, branches will re-grow (another girl), uprooting the tree MAY solve the problem.

Stop fighting the wrong person; fight the person right under your nose.



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18 thoughts on “FOR THE LADIES: Why Blame, Fight & Call The Intruder Names Like ‘Snatcher’ When You Should Be Fighting Your Man Rather?”

  1. LOOK, SOME MEN ARE CERTIFIED WONANIZERS! THERE IS NO AMOUNT OF COUNSELLING, PRAYERS, OR APPROACH THAT CAN CHANGE THEM. IN THE FIRST PLACE WHETHER MARRIED OR IN A RELATIONSHIP. I WILL NEVER WASTE A PINT OF MY ENERGY TO QUESTION OR FIGHT MY MAN OVER ANOTHER WOMAN. NEVER!!!!!!!!!! YOU WILL RATHER BE AN OBJECT OF RIDICULE FOR YOUR MAN AND HIS CONCUBINE. HÈ WILL RATHER GO AND APOLOGISE TO THAT WOMAN AND MAKE UP WITH HER OR EVEN PAINT YOU BLACK TO HER.
    IT TAKES 2 TO MARRY AND BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, BESIDES MARRIAGE IS NOT AN IRREVERSABLE CONTRACT, WHEN YOU THINK ITS NOT DOING YOU ANY GOOD, YOU PEACEFULLY BACK OFF. AHHHHHH ADZEN!!!!

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  2. The thing is , some women are just disrespectful and need a lesson.I will check my man for sure, but if a girl thinks she’s bold enough to disrespect my relationship and myself, then she better be strong enough for what will come!

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    • I always say that i will never fight with neither my man or his cheating partner, if i catch them. It hurts yes, but why would you fight over a man? or why would you fight with your man bcz u caught him cheating? If i am not enough for you and you want another woman, go ahead! Whatever you went looking for in that woman would always be there so just leave me alone and go. I would rather ask you the reason behind your cheating, not fight. Maybe i did something wrong and pissed you off (even that is not an excuse). Maybe it is a spiritual problem that you need to help the man overcome, and you want to rather fight? Fighting doesn’t bring a solution, calling the other woman names wouldnt change the fact that she has f u c ked your man!!

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    • For all you know the woman didnt even know the guy is hooked up already. I always say that i will never fight with neither my man or his cheating partner, if i catch them. It hurts yes, but why would you fight over a man? or why would you fight with your man bcz u caught him cheating? If i am not enough for you and you want another woman, go ahead! Whatever you went looking for in that woman would always be there so just leave me alone and go. I would rather ask you the reason behind your cheating, not fight. Maybe i did something wrong and pissed you off (even that is not an excuse). Maybe it is a spiritual problem that you need to help the man overcome, and you want to rather fight? Fighting doesn’t bring a solution, calling the other woman names wouldnt change the fact that she has f u c ked your man!!

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      • @Eaglebabe, If she didn’t know..that’s another thing but ..I’ve seen so much in my life! You see a chick DISRESPECT you , making eyes to your man in your face, wanting his number IN FRONT OF YOU!!..NO no I don’t play that!!!!!

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  3. The thing is karma is a bit ch.If you cheat with someone’s husband today, someone will also share yours with you someday.(Unless you dont know they are with someone)What goes around, comes around.And to the men, who think cheating is the best fun to have, God is watching all of you.Your reward would nicely be present to you at the right time.And to the ladies, who also do the same, ur time go come.

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    • @Adjoa Nbaaso), I wished what you are saying is true. It isnt always the case that when you have an affair with someone’s husband someone will do same to you.
      From my personal experience with a married man who wanted an affair with me when I told him I dont want anything to do with married men. He told me that the fact that I wont sleep with any married man doesnt mean mine wont cheat on me too cuz he claimed his wife was a virgin when he married her but he now cheats on her though she never had an affair with anyone before him.
      So for life let us not judge anyone

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      • @zena, what u are saying is very true, sometimes these married men just want to do because they find their friends doing same. I have a friend whose husband was under a spell, he didnt even know what he was doing, the other lady wanted to kill his wife and take her place. It took prayers to get the man free from that relationship…the wife never fought with the other woman, she only prayed…the reason for cheating varies from one marriage to the other. If your partner is cheating find out why and know the best solution…

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