A woman in India is having the best of life. With 5 strong men around her, she is definitely getting more than orgasm each night as she sleeps with them on rotational basis.
The bizarre part of this is that, the 5 are brothers and they are glad to share…GEEZ!
Rajo Verma, 21, lives in a one-room shack with all five of her husbands, sleeping with a different one each night on a rotational basis.The housewife has no idea which one is the father of her toddler son.
She said: “Initially it felt a bit awkward. But I don’t favor one over the other.”
Husband Guddu, 21 — the first to make her his bride — insisted: “We all have sex with her but I’m not jealous. We’re one big happy family.”
But the custom in their village is she had to take as husbands his brothers Bajju, 32, Sant Ram, 28, Gopal, 26, and Dinesh — who married her last year when he turned 18.
Eldest brother Bajju said: “I consider her my wife and sleep with her like my brothers.” Rajo cooks, cleans and looks after 18-month-old Jay while her hubbies go out to work in Dehradun, northern India.
She said of the ancient tradition, called polyandry: “My mother was also married to three brothers so when I got wed I knew I had to accept all of them as my husbands.
“I sleep with them in turn. We don’t have beds, just lots of blankets on the floor.
“I get a lot more attention and love than most wives.”
And she feels really proud about that nonsense
@Dr. Miyagi, any reason why she shouldnt feel proud.. and please god brother dont tell me because It is a sin because “holy scriptures” say so
@Dr. Miyagi, You seem to be “personally” offended by this. I have read the comments you made further down about why muslim men are permitted to have four wives etc. This practice of polyandry also has its reasons, not cos the woman is “sick in the head” as you say. In some areas where polyandry is practiced it is because there are far fewer women than men in the population, and so there is a crisis of men being unable to find wives. You will notice that she is married to “brothers”. And so the practice is that when the woman is married into the family, she marries all the brothers, – hence no brother will be left without a wife. Also there are financial considerations (i.e it costs money to marry a wife), so in some rural areas, families may be poor, and not have sufficient funds to marry off each son etc, so again all brothers will marry one woman. I need not go on, just want to point out to you that there are reasons behind this practice, not just what you think.
@Truth, thanks for your feedback but if you had scroll done you would have noticed that Nyameke has been loud and clear enough but thanks again
Gala tournament in a life time…
I can imagine how each and everyone fixes his pipeline
good for her! this is not uncommon in india, one of their most famous epics is about five royal brothers married to one princess and it is a very good, interesting story. i know a lot of people might see it as the woman being a bike or asanka or whatever but in african and other cultures you don’t see men being insulted for having many wives. if a man can have more than one wife, a woman should be able to have more than one husband without all that lock and key nonsense. i’d rather have more husbands than share the one man with other women. 5x the love, security and chop money lol
@alaki, are you serious
@27cдгibre(Ф_ф), how do feel about a man having more than one wife?
@alaki, and why are you boxing all the men into one corner what makes you think all men have five wife’s or would want to marry five wife’s?
@Dr. Miyagi, i am not. i think if in some cultures men can have more than one wife and in others women can have more than one husband then fair dos. it creates a nice balance. i have no objections with to men wanting more than one wife nor do i with women wanting more than one husband as long as its legal and honest
@alaki, A man is allowed to marry up to four women for many reasons, benefiting both the man and the women. Firstly, it may help the women as in the case of the Prophet where he often married poor women or women whose husbands died in battle.
Secondly, as the prophet Abraham married, they may bear the man a child when the first wife cannot. Instead of abandoning a women for her inability to conceive, he marries another and treats them both with justice. And lastly, in the case of a man tempted to commit adultery with another women. Instead of this man committing a grave sin, adultury, Allah has given man an ease within his law and allowed man to marry another women.
The aim of this is to prevent man and the women from committing a grave sin. Many people look at this law as a selfish addition to men but in fact it is meant as an ease on both men and women; it’s not an excuse to ‘have fun’ with many wives but in fact it is meant to help ease men and women with their way of life.
But for a woman to marry 5 men is ridiculous and abomination
As for a woman not being able to have 5 husbands, it is just sick if she did do so. How would she know who the father of her children is? That is just wrong. I am not saying that women should not be treated fairly, but there are some obvious differences between men and women. And women are so sensitive and emotional, that having other sister-wives to share friendship with, and bringing up children with ect is better than 5 other husbands to have kids with and live in sin with. It is just more natural for a man to have multiple wives than it is for a woman to have multiple husbands. This woman is clearly sick in her had
@alaki, as for me i don’t a man to marry two wives or more i dont believe in that two ,i am not bassing on the aspect of bible alone ,
Marrying two wives brings trouble and jealousy coupled with hates.
Secondly for woman to marry more than one husband i don’t have problem but she should divorce the first husband before going to marry another man hence in my opinion woman should not marry more than two men it not even accepted in the olden days n guess we are in modern world so it no noo noooo.
Dont you think having one man can make you feel ok than sleeping around with multiple men?
I mean a man who will love you n protect you..
@alaki, right on baby. exactly. why should the men have it all??
Doc this your logic di3 i no dey barb!!! What is good for the goose is good for the gander!!!Yes true not all men want to marry 5 wives but a man in certain parts of the world including our beloved Ghana can marry five women if he chose to! All Alaki is saying that please do not say this woman is foolish because it is her culture and they are ok with it! And why is the woman sinning ?Is it lesser of a sin for a man to marry five women?
@Q, are we talking about Muslims or non- Muslims in Ghana?
Seriously??? although it is not legal in Ghana some women still have about 6 men ooooo
@Eaglebabe, tell me that you are kidding me sis….
@27cдгibre(Ф_ф), am telling you dear, there are some ladies in Ghana who are sleeping with more than 6 men yet they are not even married….and after all these men, they might have their serious bf somewhere…at least in this woman’s culture it is legal
@Eaglebabe, those are the bloodsucking vampires that dates 5 to 10 boys at the same time I don’t blame them I blame those stupid men who can’t spot that their being used all because of some hairy vaginas feels like their mother’s favourite rug
@Dr. Miyagi, yea, sometimes i wonder why these men dont see that they are being used….they feel they are rather using the woman but if u think about it, the woman also has an agenda thats why she is with all those men (especially the married men)
@Eaglebabe, wow i can’t stand those women..
They are devils in person lol
@Eaglebabe, terry true lucky I know how those ladies operate so they can never get to me with their nonsense
@Dr. Miyagi, you know they cant do that to young guys who monitor their women often lol
@27cдгibre(Ф_ф), loooool I got Holy ghost water for those girls, I remember on Facebook a few added me sometime ago and started communicated with them a few days later I logged back in to see what was going on and I had about 20 new messages from some of these girls back home and went through each message and I gave to say bro I was laughing like a mad man most messages I was reading started with “baby I miss you” or “dear I miss you” than the story begins its either their mums are sick or they need to so call pay their school fees so to convince you what they will try and do is send a naked picture of them self just to seduce you to get what they want but as soon as you go through their picture folder and you see her standing with another boy and when you ask who the boy is they reply that’s my ex or her younger brother I always end up blocking them cause you don’t no me but your missing me already “some girls are worst than a virus”
@27cдгibre(Ф_ф), oh no, they cant do that to the young men who monitor their women…like mine, hmmmmm monitoring be what??? but that has also built our trust because we know where each other is at every point in time and we dont doubt it becoz we know we are telling each other the truth…. 🙂
@27cдгibre(Ф_ф), why do you see the need to monitor a woman often. Not the sign of an alpha male son..
IN my opinion i´m against all kind of polgamy wether a man or woman has three or four partners. Can the man or woman share the love with his four wives/husbands? Becuase it could be that the husband might love one woman more than the other one.
This happened to our Grandfather Abraham. He loved his frist wife Sarah more than ( his concubine) Hagar with whom he had a son. He showed his love for Sarah when she demanded that Hagar and Ishmael should leave the house. If his love for Hagar was the same as for Sarah he would not let them go.
In general i believe that any form of polygamy can bring problems to the spouses and to the kids as well.
For the kids they have to compete against their half-brothers and sisters for love and care.
@Yahoozee, Abraham was a weak man In that regard. HHe gave in to the wishes and demands of his wife.. why would a right thinking man send his son and woman away to god kknow where all becuase hihis wife didnt want her there..
And for your second comment I dont see the need for competiton if there is love within the family.. and again it is up to the man of the house to set and maintain a loving atmosphere where eevery one in the household is treated fairly( not equally)..favoratism will breed competition not the institution of polygamy iitself..
@nyameke, yes thats what i mean……….the man will favor one wife over the other which will lead to hate, pain, jealousy…..
Question to u: Can u love everybody equally?
@Yahoozee, A man favoring one wife over another is only inviting trouble into his household. not a sign of a sensible man..
can u love everybody equally? well it depends on what you mean by equally.. if by equally you mean fairly then yes absolutely. if by equally, you mean SAME then no i cannot and i would not. we are all not equal. each and every one of us is unique and different. What you like might not be what i like or another might desire..
you have to understand that it is not the basic intinct of all sentient beings to seek equality.The basic instinct of all living things is to express uniqueness, not sameness. loving everybody “equally” defeats that purpose..this is why i have a problem with people clamoring for equality/sameness..
Creating a household or society in which two beings are truly equal is not only impossible, but undesirable. This one of the reasons why societal mechanisms seeking to produce true equality–in other words,economic, political, and social “sameness”, work against and not for the highest purpose- which is that each person will have the opportunity to produce the outcome of its grandest desires and wishes..
so no i cannot love everybody “equally” but i can definitely treat and love everybody fairly..
There is nothing wrong with it if she feels ok with it .. I for one supports polygamy..
Those of you using a 2000 year old books written by delusional lying individuals as reference to justify the sinful nature of her act are as ignorant, deceitful and hypocritical as the so called ” holy men ” that wrote the Koran and bible.. there is no such thing as right or wrong but something’s shouldn’t be either/or because the Koran or bible says.. what is right is that which serves you and vice versa .. it is a fallacy and hypocritical for guys to use the bible or Koran to justify men having multiple wife’s and mistresses and then condemn the act as sinful or abominable when done by females..
You have to be a dunce and dense in the head to follow a faulty dogmas and doctrines written more than 2000 years ago by elites of a society bent on controlling their masses and as such linking their instructions and commands as directly coming from an imaginary loving god -with an old beard sitting in the sky above, ready to judge and punish the deviants if they dare disobey.. if a god or deity that punishes with the least provocation is not an act of a malevolent god, then I don’t know what is..
Yet the ever ready SHEEPLE always ready to follow and be led since they have refused to fend and think for themselves, swallows this bullshit up like the ignorant unthinking masses that they are.
Religious people always making a mockery of the omniscient, omnipotent, omnipresent infinite creator..
@nyameke, I like the fact that your speaking your mind and challenging some off us but but you can’t compare both you might believe in polygamy
1) Well, first, they are two entirely separate documents. This is unlike the Jewish and Christian religious texts – the Christian religion’s text includes the entire “Tanakh” of the Jews. The Qur’an does *not* include any whole scriptures (whole books) from the bible, nor does the bible – written centuries earlier – contain any content from the Qur’an.
2) The Qur’an is a single book written in Arabic in the 7th century. The bible is a collection of more than 60 individual books written, at a minimum, over a period of 600 years in 3 ancient languages (Hebrew, Aramaic and Greek).
3) Both claim that the God of Abraham is the God described in the books. However, in the Qur’an, Abraham is instructed to sacrifice Ishmael, the first-born son of a concubine. In the bible, Abraham is instructed to sacrifice Isaac, his second son, whom he had by his wife Sarah. In both instances, Abraham is being tested and does not sacrifice his son. In the bible, the son of Abraham by his wife, Sarah, receives the primary inheritance and blessing of Abraham and God.
4) In the Qur’an, Solomon is a muslim. In the bible, he is a Jew.
5) In the Qur’an, the Queen of Sheba has an animal’s leg (furred) and a normal leg, and this is spied by Solomon during her visit. In the bible, there is no such detail about the Queen of Sheba provided.
6) In the Qur’an, Jesus is considered to be a prophet, but not God or even the greatest of prophets. In the bible, Jesus is the physical son of God, the savior of mankind, the future prophet prophesied by Moses, conceived by means of the Holy Spirit and not by man. Most Christians *interpret* the bible to mean that Jesus is God, but others accept only that he is the physical (conceived) son of God.
7) In the Qur’an, Jesus does not die on the cross, nor is he resurrected from death. In the bible, Jesus is crucified, thus sacrificing himself for the sins of all mankind, and is raised from the dead, beginning the institution of eternal life after death.
I spoke to some of my Muslim friends before I commented and trust me they have not seen such of things before in their Muslim culture I don’t know if your a girl or boy but imaging you being in her shoes would you have been proud to marry 5 men at the same time and served them every single day or sleep with them every single day
Last question what would you do if each one of them want 5 children each?
@Dr. Miyagi, well it is one of my calling to get people thinking.. but lets talk about what you wrote briefly..
1. they are not really that much different god brother. most of the stories in the koran are carbon copy stories of the old testaments or torah abeit with few modifications… you also have to understand that ISLAM was created by the vatican as a means to control the arab world/descendants of Ishmael.. Mohammed was trained by Catholics monks.. the purpose of the modifications was to make it seem somewhat “different” from Christianity
2. it doesnt matter if koran was initially written in arabic or not, most ot the stories was copied from the Torah..just as most of the stories or views about God from the torah were copied from the eqyptian book of the dead and other holy scriptures at time before the creation of the state of ancient Israel..
3. of course both books or should i say descendants are going to have counterclaims as to which of the son Abraham was asked to sacrifice.. each group feels they are the rightful heir to their forefather Abraham. these conflicting accounts should tell you that both history books were written by men and not inspired by their so called god.
a creator does not interfere in the affairs of his creatures. an all powerful God does not need sacrificing of any kind. let alone ask for the sacrifice of a son. then he ceases to be all powerful or a deity.. an all powerful God needs and lacks nothing..
4. well both group feels justified to claim Solomon as their own. but then again it wouldn’t make no sense otherwise.
5. you have to understand that when the bible was put together a lot of things were omitted. the bible is a controlling tool so some of the scriptures deemed unnecessary and controversial were omitted..even not all the stories about jesus is contained in the bible let alone queen of sheba.
6. jesus is the son of God just as we all are the sons and daughters of the most high. Jesus is the highest example to reach self actualization. He is simply not the only example to reach that highest state.there are many man who have reached that state Christ consciousness that Jesus attained.Christ is God made Man. He is simply not the only man made of God. we all are..Every man is “God made Man.
7. jesus did not die for the for the sins of anyone. beware of religion my friend. jesus did not come to save your from eternal damnation. he only came to show you the way and the truth about who you are. God in flesh.” have i not said that ye are gods sons of the most high”…there is no such thing as eternal damnation. he came to be an example and show you the way that you might get to heaven(self actualization) while in physicality..there is nothing that jesus did that you cannot do.
now to your statement/question.. they have not seen such things because their religions or “holy scriptures” written by MEN doesn’t support women having more than one husband.. not because it is a sin or condemned by their imaginary Allah but simply because it is a mans world.. their scriptures like most religious scriptures were written by men, with their imaginary Gods always depicted as a male to control. there is a reason why in current human history god is depicted as a HE and not a SHE.. this is for another time but eons ago when women actually controlled evcery aspect of society and men were considered useless but for sex and protecting of the young kids The God of those times was depicted as a Goddess. when men finnally gained control Goddess was changed to God and the “holy scriptures also changed to favor males..
but i digress i am male and as i such i cant honestly answer your question since i am not in her shoes.. but what matters is that the lady in question sees nothing wrong with it and as you alluded to it earlier, she actually seems proud of that.. she is not being forced to do anything and if it makes her happy then who are we to tell her how she should feel.. i am polygamous by nature so why should don’t why i should be hypocritical about something that i indulge in.
this is gettiing too long so let me end here.
@nyamekye, thanks for your feedback and I appreciate it for taking the time. I will do some more reading about. It
@Dr. Miyagi, anytime brother man…it is time for the minds of people to be emancipated from religious slavery and start thinking.. foreign religion and religion in general is destroying Africa especially and it is time to be eradicated.. this is the time of the great awakening
@nyamekye, I co-sign to that
@nyameke, you asked me a question about why should i monitor my girl friend,
The thing is it long time i monitored my girlfriend n it was way back in Ghana by then…
Now my wife to be always want to know where i am or she want be with me always the time..Not that she thinks am gonna do something bad….she just care
@27cдгibre(Ф_ф), well i asked because anyone, man or woman who seeks to monitor their significant other screams more of insecurity.. it is good that you stopped.
when you care and love someone you have to be willing to give them space and not smother them with incessant where are you, what you doing, when you coming home silly type questions.. thats beta characteristics..and it is not a sign of love but fear that they might loose you to someone else and as such the need to control.
@nyamekye, i got you..
March 19th, 2013 at 19:21
@Dr. Miyagi, well it is one of my calling to get people thinking.. but lets talk about what you wrote briefly..
1. they are not really that much different god brother. most of the stories in the koran are carbon copy stories of the old testaments or torah abeit with few modifications… you also have to understand that ISLAM was created by the vatican as a means to control the arab world/descendants of Ishmael.. Mohammed was trained by Catholics monks.. the purpose of the modifications was to make it seem somewhat “different” from Christianity
2. it doesnt matter if koran was initially written in arabic or not, most ot the stories was copied from the Torah..just as most of the stories or views about God from the torah were copied from the eqyptian book of the dead and other holy scriptures at time before the creation of the state of ancient Israel..
3. of course both books or should i say descendants are going to have counterclaims as to which of the son Abraham was asked to sacrifice.. each group feels they are the rightful heir to their forefather Abraham. these conflicting accounts should tell you that both history books were written by men and not inspired by their so called god.
a creator does not interfere in the affairs of his creatures. an all powerful God does not need sacrificing of any kind. let alone ask for the sacrifice of a son. then he ceases to be all powerful or a deity.. an all powerful God needs and lacks nothing..
4. well both group feels justified to claim Solomon as their own. but then again it wouldn’t make no sense otherwise.
5. you have to understand that when the bible was put together a lot of things were omitted. the bible is a controlling tool so some of the scriptures deemed unnecessary and controversial were omitted..even not all the stories about jesus is contained in the bible let alone queen of sheba.
6. jesus is the son of God just as we all are the sons and daughters of the most high. Jesus is the highest example to reach self actualization. He is simply not the only example to reach that highest state.there are many man who have reached that state Christ consciousness that Jesus attained.Christ is God made Man. He is simply not the only man made of God. we all are..Every man is “God made Man.
7. jesus did not die for the for the sins of anyone. beware of religion my friend. jesus did not come to save your from eternal damnation. he only came to show you the way and the truth about who you are. God in flesh.” have i not said that ye are gods sons of the most high”…there is no such thing as eternal damnation. he came to be an example and show you the way that you might get to heaven(self actualization) while in physicality..there is nothing that jesus did that you cannot do.
now to your statement/question.. they have not seen such things because their religions or “holy scriptures” written by MEN doesn’t support women having more than one husband.. not because it is a sin or condemned by their imaginary Allah but simply because it is a mans world.. their scriptures like most religious scriptures were written by men, with their imaginary Gods always depicted as a male to control. there is a reason why in current human history god is depicted as a HE and not a SHE.. this is for another time but eons ago when women actually controlled evcery aspect of society and men were considered useless but for **** and protecting of the young kids The God of those times was depicted as a Goddess. when men finnally gained control Goddess was changed to God and the “holy scriptures also changed to favor males..
but i digress i am male and as i such i cant honestly answer your question since i am not in her shoes.. but what matters is that the lady in question sees nothing wrong with it and as you alluded to it earlier, she actually seems proud of that.. she is not being forced to do anything and if it makes her happy then who are we to tell her how she should feel.. i am polygamous by nature so why should don’t why i should be hypocritical about something that i indulge in.
this is gettiing too long so let me end here.
@nyamekye, where do u have these information?
@Yahoozeee, what/which information
@nyamekye, about theorigin of christianity, islam etc
@Yahoozeee, well from reseatch, and applying common sense.. when you begin to understand the concept of God everything else falls into place.. I have been on my enlightenment path for a while now ..there are no secrets in this universe only iignorance..
I saw this in youtube
marriage debate in ghana http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-klQX-jEfI