And so the ‘Why Is It That…’questions continue. Last week GC started a new feature to our relationship section letting the men give the women the male perspective and vice versa! And so long as there are intimate relationships, there will always be questions about the way we behave, relate to and treat each other.
So why not let the men give you the answers to your relationship dilemma regarding men, and ladies in return, I’m sure you’d be happy to oblige men with the answers to their questions also.
Our last question was…
‘WHY IS IT THAT husbands/boyfriends sometimes take the advice of their friends before us? Even though we have given you the very same advice already, it isn’t useful till your friend says it.? What that about?
I was very appreciative of our reader ‘Frog’ who explained that:
‘ Because we need ppl who give it to us straight up without thinking abt hurting our feelings, or being afraid. If u are having **** with us u can’t give better advice. U might end up patronising us which further clouds our judgement. Is just how it is’.
This week a reader wants to know this:
WHY IS IT THAT….A man’s behaviour towards you changes from one minute to the next? One minute they are treating you sweetly and the next minute they make you feel like you are disturbing them?
One minute they are telling you they love you and the next minute they are telling you they want to end things with you?
Guys can you help a sister out?
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Thanks sister for asking this question.I have this issue with my boyfriend.
Basically most guys will wish their partners are invincible appearing only when needed.We are in a constant dilemma when it comes to giving each other space and being committed to some one.One hand we know we need u around us but on the hand we feel u are hovering around us too much.
The trick is to let ur boyfriend know why he must always need u by doing things he enjoys which can be anything(can’t give examples u have to figure it out by urself)..That way he will always yearn for u to be around him.Hence there would be no mood swings.
I hope this satisfies u ladies out there
Some girls think the only thing guys like about them is their body and beauty,so they don’t make an attempt in being interesting or having fun personalities.I had a gf once who was like that,she was boring but beautifu,.I only needed her around when i was horny and when i wasn’t horny,i felt she was invading my space.
These days i look at the woman inside and out before dating her.
Girls,try not to be sex toys for your bf or you will receive this kind of behavior from them.
he might be an emoytional blackmailer or bipolar google both and mke ur comparism
@jazzi, I don’t think it has gotten that far
@Frog, whats dat suppose 2 mean exactly? its either 1 or da other but may be @ a less acute level or degree..