People always say you’re what you wear….But is that always the case? People tend to judge who a lady is by the way she’s dressed. Either she is an attention seeker, ‘cheap’ girl (I’m yet to understand who and what makes a cheap girl) or generally not fashionable enough.

Dressing is not about attracting but to always feel good about oneself. When a lady is bent on attracting a member of the opposite sex, sometimes it is not through the way she’s dressed. She can dress decently without exposing any vital parts and she’ll still achieve her aim.

A young girl choosing a short skirt could be tagged as an attention seeker, while an older woman doing the same is said to be having difficulty accepting that she is a grown-up. You are seen before you are heard (more like light travelling faster than sound).

This is why, before even uttering a word your visual image will say a multitude about you as an individual and that is very unfortunate because you’ve already been prejudged without knowing the ‘person’ in the attire.

When a girl puts on a belly-button-showing, spaghetti strap shirt, she is not thinking about how she hopes to lead men to sin. She’s probably thinking, ‘That’s a cute top, and it will look perfect with my shoes’.

Some people quickly decide if you’re a ‘believer’ (Christian) or of the ‘world’, just by the way a person is dressed/dresses. It may surprise you to know that the one who is a believer knows things of the world than the one in the world. Wearing what one feels comfortable in does not make her less a marriage material

People dress according to the occasion and what they feel comfortable in. Every occasion and the way you need to present yourself. Wearing a ‘clubbing’ outfit to the club does not make a lady cheap or available, taking the same outfit to church is what will raise eyebrows. It is just a matter of ‘dress to fit in or dress to look the part’.

I don’t believe the way a lady is dressed makes her cheap/available: Provocation is in the eye of the beholder. What moves you may not even shift me at all. Some ladies are all ‘covered’ up but are seeking male attention or hoping to attract while another is showing cleavage but not on the lookout for men.

The way a person is dressed calls/called for rape – How sexy is a 5-year-old girl? No matter how beautiful a toddler is, she is not sexy but kids as young as that and even lower do get raped. The way a lady is dressed is not a reason to be raped. But if just the clothes are to blame, what kind of sexy clothes could a toddler wear that would produce sexual desires in a sane man? Rapists tend to choose their victims because of their vulnerability’s. That is the reason why I don’t buy the idea that provocative dressing calls for rape.

I don’t have the boobs, so I’ll dress all covered up. I’m hoping to maybe get a boob job and show a little cleavage but that does not mean I’m silently ‘saying’ “Hey, boys, the greatest thing about me is my body, come have a feel of it.”

A woman needs to dress modestly, yes! But the way a lady is dressed/dresses does not make her a slut, an attention seeker or one ever ready to get laid in the name of rape!

The next time you’re ready to tag the mini-skirt wearing lady across the room, check the occasion first because maybe you’re not fashionable enough or not appropriately dressed for the occasion.

Anyway, what do you think? Should Women Be Rated/Tagged According To Their Dressing?