Many young black women these days do not care about anything more than how much you have in your bank account—and they certainly do not care about the source of what is in your bank.
Probably, life is exceptionally difficult for these women compared to how we are all struggling to meet the needs of the next day. I can clearly understand why life would be harder for some black women who have placed themselves into a barrel full of ignorant wants—from expensive bags to weaves.
I was introduced by a friend to her mate, a young woman who was also looking for a Ghanaian out here in United States for a possible relationship. I’ve been opened to all forms of finding a partner. And I’ve tried Online Dating, Speed Dating and even Hook Ups, which this was one of the few Hook Ups opportunities that came my way late last year.
Through the work of my female friend, I received my first text message from Agnes. At the time I was introduced to Agnes who was taking up a part time class in College to help her with job security, I had just finished my masters degree— and had just started my own small business…
We had long conversations through countless text messages and each day, I made it a point to call her at least once to hear her voice and find out how her day and job hunting was going.
From our conversation, I quickly noticed Agnes loves good things—but then again who does not love good things in life as long as the person can afford it.
Agnes had a travel dream and wanted to see the world, which I told her it is possible as long as she works towards it. But I was wrong; she wanted someone to finance it for her. There was no way she was ready to pay for this so before we even met in person, she suggested I take her to Paris on her upcoming birthday.
