Dear GC Readers;
Let me begin by saying; I am sure there are some women out there who are not part of this popular phenomenon but the several I know belong to this group…
Since College days, the most notorious, bad and truant guys were the ‘object of interest’ for many of the beautiful young ladies in my class.
And these guys mostly treated the calm and innocent ladies who for some reason could not go on with their lives without the bad guys like some piece of rag.
I thought at the time it was something to do with students—-the student craziness.
But now that I am out of campus and in the real world, I’ve realized it was not just ‘student craziness’, it is a common woman syndrome…
My two sisters and several female friends seem to have a glue that attracts the most unreliable and non-caring guys. They continue to chase these guys in spite of all the heartbreaks and reckless treatment they receive.
The ironic is that, the good and gentle guys out there hardly get any attention. After years of observation, it seems to me that for you to get a woman glued, you must treat her like a piece of rag—-someone you do not give a hook about.
I’ve loved and cared for a woman, treated them like a Queen and she just walked away to someone who does not give about her—I couldn’t get her addicted. But I know of people who do not even return calls, who hardly support their women and sometimes even beat the hell out of women. And yet, these women continue to fall deeper in love with these guys…
Unless this is not love…
From Maxwell Amoah /Canada
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its d sympathetic streak. d motherly heart and d hope that he will change and become a. better person ..that dis person that is mysterious and dangerous is appealling to d senses.n that lyk all fairy tales he will. sweep us off our feet n marry us..nice is. boring, its monotonous, we want some thing risky, being with such a.man is exhilarating and he mans us feel.gud smetyms nt.always tho..its smething emotional …ive been der. trust me I.always sang d “I. hate. that I love you ” song…I dnt knw Wats wrong with us ohhh …lol
@ThickMama, loooool
@Oheneba Miyagi, yes ohhh i always sang dat song…
@ThyckMama, good old days
@Oheneba Miyagi, yes ohhh
ooooo what an article.for some of us even a hug sef we no dey get….hahaha
i think the article should be “why do SOME women love guys who treat them like trash” because i dont even like guys who disrespects women….and i know there are other women out there like me who feel the same way i feel….i wouldnt allow any man “no matter who you are” to treat me in anyway that is inappropriate….Ladies, please there are still some good guys out there for you ok??
Funny article….pls dont generalize…. I go for the attraction…. I cant allow a guy to freak me like trash when I treat him with respect….unless as a girl or a woman you are on a mission…. But what I can’t stand is a timid man….a shy quiet person….that’s just boring….but seriously if you a real woman and a guy is treating you like trash and you are still staying with him then you don’t really know your worth….we are all humans and make mistakes….if you’ve been with a great guy and things sort of start to go on a down low, that’s where you hope and work things to make changes cos you know he’s been a good guy before….but if he’s been a bad guy through out then you need help….ladies know your worth….pls….
@Missy, thank U..However guys treat women are a reflection of how we put ourselves on the table from the scratch.Some girls these days will do and tolerate anything simply because they are living their lives in a competition & want to be the talk of town.Ladies love and respect yourselves & no man would treat you the opposite.
Hahaha
Good guys ain’t fun,bad guys ain’t good.
I will describe myself as lil good n fun, I hate to be the good guy it gets you noo woman…
True fact women love having fun and they hate the gentle type of guy.
Am talking about the beautiful women
@27calibre(o_0), where ve U been?U keep being a stranger on here..And that’s not true,Good men attract good women Magnet always attracts steel..
Maxwell, its just a problem with we women that probably doesn’t have a cure.We sometimes can never make decisions for our lives and end up living our lives to please society.To summarize everything, the reason women do that is because its either they want to please friends which is termed as peer pressure.Ask yourself why your girl left you and I will tell its either She was convinced by a friend to do that, or She wanted to compete with a friend,or She wanted to brag about whoever that stubborn guy was to her friends.It all boils down not being able to make firm decisions on our own.
Women are opportunistic pieces of trash.