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Inferiority Complex of the Modern Black Woman-Fake Accent & Skin Bleaching

Bleaching and Accent

 

I hate to say this in the open, I judge women who bleach with the same level of detest as those who parade fake accents—I call them all, inferior beings!

Clearly, the number of low self- esteem black women walking around outweighs those with any sort of confidence left in them, and I blame it on our absurd desire to be everything except what we truly are in life…

I do not make excuses for the many who find pride and status in putting up accents, even if it makes them sound like idiots—and I do not accommodate those who take excessive delight in fixing a new complexion they find appropriate, far from what they have by default.

I love colours but do not appreciate any attempt to self-create one in the face of daily emerging complications and diseases. The modern black woman seems to have no confidence in herself and will go every extent to steal what belongs to another—-by letting go the uniqueness and beauty of her own skin.

Similarly, I love the fact that I can tell from a person’s accent she may come from a faraway land, but it becomes utterly confusing and disgusting, when my neighbour equally sounds like a foreigner as a result of her attempt to sound like those she sees on MTV.

Confidence and embracing the uniqueness of one’s identity, personality and outlook is totally missing in the minds of today’s black woman.

But interestingly, some think one aspect of the crime is far diabolical than other. Either skin bleaching or fake ‘accenting’, I think they all reveal a deep rooted problem of self-hate, low self-esteem and unnecessary desire to be like others.

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VIDEO: ‘Naughty By Nature’ CONFIRMS They Will Be In Ghana On December 6 For ‘Back in The Day’ Concert

We are not strangers to several Concert organizers selling tickets and promising fans they will bring a foreign act to Ghana—only to find out at the night of the event that the advertised artiste(s) cannot be found anywhere. It surely does not only make you feel like an idiot, but also having been cheated and … Read more

New Music Video: ‘Ask Dumelo’ By Sarkodie Featuring John Dumelo & Selasi

  We are all aware that the Ghana Movie Industry has been extensively SLOW, offering John Dumelo and the other actors a lot of time to play around… John Dumelo therefore jumped into the studio with Sarkodie and Selasi,and their finish product is out—a song called ‘Ask Dumelo‘. Even though John Dumelo hardly throw any … Read more

It Is In VOGUE – But Is It for You?

fashion

 

Each season, we buy into the newest fashion, trend or over hyped product and replace working items with newer models – because it is in vogue. We (ladies especially) follow fashion and love to keep up with all the trends; but oftentimes, what is in vogue is not necessarily for us. Fashion is marketed in such a way that one is compelled to ‘attain a certain look’. Many women have negative self-images if they don’t look or dress up to the ideals of the high fashion world…this could be due to weight/body type, hairstyles, make-up, jewellery, and so on.

People appear ‘fashionable’ and ‘up to date’ when seen in/with the latest attire or accessories. Some deny their own wants or tastes just to appeal to others and they follow the latest fashion even if it makes them look bad – really bad. Unlike the people they want to appeal to, they don’t take into consideration how explosive their thighs are, the small/massive butt and bust and their skin tone when they apply makeup or paint their face.

If you look bad in skinny jeans/leggings, for example, you’ll still look bad in them no matter how trendy they are at the moment. People who seriously need to hide their bellies are usually the ones who display it. I don’t see any cuteness in displaying flabs, love handles, stretch marks and cellulites all in the name of ‘latest’. Some ladies don’t feel comfortable in the nude in the presence of their husbands/partners but find it cool displaying it outside

Personally, there are fashion items I admire on people but will never wear because either my body type won’t allow it, or I don’t like to wear it because of comfort or otherwise. Persuading me to buy the latest big/hoop/drop earrings won’t wash because I don’t like. 

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