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FOR THE LADIES: He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not…

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I have a lady friend who is in her later 30s. She is still single and searching for the “right” man to marry. She recently told me about her involvement in a singles group on facebook. The group is a blind date page where single ones are expected to meet their life partners.

All time that I have been friends with her (3 years now), one thing I’ve noticed about my friend  is that she is very desperate for a husband. She told me about a man whom she had found on facebook who lives in the states. I advised her about the dangers of blind date (although she is far older than me, she confides in me a lot).

I asked her these questions afterwards. How does he feel about you? Does he like you? What are the chances of a relationship with him?

I continued by asking her these questions.  How do you feel about yourself? Do you like yourself? Do you enjoy spending time with yourself? If you don’t, why would you expect anyone else to?

This is a person who needs a man and yet doesn’t enjoy spending time with herself. This means she doesn’t feel complete without another person in her life. Her life is dependent on another person.

Relationships that begin in desperation rarely last and if they do, more often than not, they are not happy ones. The reason why everyone wants a partner is because we think we will feel better with someone who truly loves us. However, if the basis for a relationship boils down to conquering our loneliness, be rest assured that the relationship is doomed forever.

Desperation focuses attention around what you don’t have rather than what you do have. We know that the Law of Attraction brings you more of what you focus on.

How do you attract the best man or woman for yourself in your life? I believe it has to do with learn to enjoy yourself. This means spending time alone and making the best out of it. Use it as a time to refresh and grow. Dig deep and look at what went wrong in your previous relationships and how those things could be corrected.

Learn from your mistakes and become wiser to the signs that the wrong prospective partners send.

Most people will tell you everything you need to know about them. This often happens to the ladies who are “pushy.” (talking from an experience). When you are behaving like you, some do not like it. So what I’ve realized is, most guys pretend to match the expectations of the lady.

After some few months in the relationship, the true self begins to evolve which finally ends up breaking the young union.

As a single lady, focus much more on yourself. After all, life should be enjoyed, not agonized over. As you relax and learn to really love yourself, the energy will shift around you and you will begin to attract more suitable, potential partners into your life.

Then, with a “buffet” of wonderful people to choose from, your love life will blossom.



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