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Satisfaction Not Guaranteed: It’s Not About Physical Beauty, Brains Or Personality!

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Often hear people say – ’I prefer brains to looks’ and others will argue that because they’re not blessed with good looks, they prefer someone with good looks to give them beautiful children. ‘Ideally’, one would say brains should have prominence over beauty. Even with a person’s personality, you know a person before their personality unfolds and what draws you to the person in the first place?

Someone would prefer having beautiful and good looking appearance and feel they are very lucky (and truthfully, they’re lucky), because one is attracted easily to beautiful things. On the other hand, someone would prefer having brains. Majority of people also believe that what one lacks in ‘brains’ is compensated for in looks and vice versa, so bottom line is, one cannot have it all (I believe they’re the people who don’t go out and interact with people enough). Are we ever satisfied with chasing brains, the aesthetics or people’s personality?

In this day and age, girls/boys are dressing provocatively, videotaping themselves and taking semi-nude photos to the opposite sex for favours because that is what is taking them ‘far’. How then can brains be more prominent these days? A man in a position like that will lose half of his possessions before inviting his brains into the picture. People associate success with someone perceived to be ‘brainy’, but commonly, many people are successful not because of their brains, rather because of what they possess – physically.

Also, if someone has excellent brain, but doesn’t look good, he/she may have to work little harder to attract the attention but if he/she has also good looks with that brain then it would be easier to get the attention of others.

From someone’s’ point of view “the first thing that will attract you to a person is the appearance of the person. If the person has not opened his/her mouth to say something brainy (subjective), you can’t really say I went after him/her because of her brains. Also, you can’t approach people; start questioning them to see how intelligent they’re before you invite them out for a drink. People who are always bleating about preferring brains to the physical are the ones who feel they need to explain their choices of partners to people why they’re with the person who doesn’t pass the mark of a good looking person (subjective). They are the sort of people who assumes that beautiful people are daft. Have you asked yourself why they never explain their choice when the person is very appealing? I don’t remember ever meeting a friends’ girlfriend and exclaim ‘WOW, she’s intelligent’….it’s pretty that comes to mind first.”

The truth of the matter is human beings are never satisfied. It’s really not about being beautiful/handsome, brainy (intelligence) or having a great personality, it’s circumstantial choice; they choose what is applicable to them at that point in time to make a statement or explain their choices to people – If I want cute babies, I’m not going all out to look for a brainy person; brains don’t produce cute babies no matter how well versed the person is ‘biologically’ good in books and bed. I’m going to look for a very handsome man (circumstance); if the person is brainy, it’s a bonus. The inside they say is better than the outside – but it’s the outside that attracts and the brain is in there – until something triggers it, outsiders will not know how bright, dull or daft it is! I believe everyone has brains but it’s how the person uses it that matters.

 



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2 thoughts on “Satisfaction Not Guaranteed: It’s Not About Physical Beauty, Brains Or Personality!”

  1. humans are not satiable….it’s a fact! i have realised that people who don’t have good looking partners are the ones who use brains to see the beauty in them. accept it or not, people like to feel good when they think they have a brainy person but always spying pretty girls in town.

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