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Dear GC, My Boyfriend Has Been Texting My Best Friend, Telling Her He Has a Crush on Her…What Should I Do?

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Dear GC,

I am a 3rd year student of KNUST. I have been dating this guy for 2 and half years now. He knows all my friends and I know all of his. My boyfriend has trust issues and is often fishing for information from my phone and laptop because he is insecure and thinks I am cheating.

It was very sad when I find out he is doing that but he always gives the excuse that his ex made him mistrust girls.

Now the main problem is my very close friend gathered courage to tell me that my boyfriend has been texting her for sometime that he has a crush on her and he likes her a lot. It was difficult for me to believe this but the boy confirmed it and has been apologizing for a month now.

My relationship with my friend is now on rocks because anytime I think about it, it hurts a lot. I broke up with him but I feel so lonely and sad and I wish I could move on with him again but I am afraid I can never trust him again.

I know with time things between my friend and I will come back to normal because she apologised for not telling me early and I forgave her.

Do you think taking this boy back is a good thing to do? I am very confused. Please help me.

Thank you.

From: Belinda A. / Ghana

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17 thoughts on “Dear GC, My Boyfriend Has Been Texting My Best Friend, Telling Her He Has a Crush on Her…What Should I Do?”

  1. This is a no brainer. What are you still doing with him? It’s not going to end well. He’s your boyfriend, not your husband, move on.

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    • I have just found the right one and the greatest spell caster on earth who has brought back my happiness and turned my world around by helping me get my ex partner and helped me get back my life cause i was totally frustrated after 6years of hardship and pain, a friend of mine buzz me on my email saying i should cheer up cause solution has come. At first i was like what are you saying, then she mentioned the name ‘EBOEHI’ and i must thank my savior Great DR EBOEHI who has play a very vital part of my life making me a great person and the most happiest person today you are a great man who is bless by powers with traditional healing spell caster, after Great DR EBOEHI has help me get my ex back he also help me recover what i have lost in past years i must thank him (Great DR EBOEHI) the life he has restored back for me and my happiness. Now i am doing well in my work and also with my partner, Great DR EBOEHI is a very great spell caster you need to know just meet him and with your problem and it will be over.. Email him via: ([email protected])..

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  2. if u get back together with him, i doubt if u will be able to trust him completely without wondering who his next crush is…advice urself

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  3. C’mon kiddo, you’re too young to be stuck in a rut. Have fun. Do great things with your life, starting with your schoolwork. Have a lot of boyfriends. Don’t stress too much over who they’re texting or not texting. Haven’t you met some other guys you’d rather befriend?

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  4. Does care for you enuf? does he respect you?does he miss you enuf?does he crave for your attention? if not, walk away……

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  5. Coming from a fellow university student, she needs to enjoy her life. She should not put her studies on hold just for the sake of a man. If he’s constantly doing such things, then that should be a clue to her that he is not worth the time. It will hurt but time will heal your heart, Ms. Belinda.

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  6. Leave his ass, he’s not worth your time or energy. Also, you have a good friend, because some so-called friends wouldn’t tell you.

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  7. So you’re mad at your friend for telling you but too late. .. What if she never told you at all. . Don’t be blinded by your emotions my dear.. Your friend a a real one

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    • Her being mad is a bit understandable but she needs to be graceful that her friend was honest with her and told her. Some friends will just let it go by.

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  8. I have just found the right one and the greatest spell caster on earth who has brought back my happiness and turned my world around by helping me get my ex partner and helped me get back my life cause i was totally frustrated after 6years of hardship and pain, a friend of mine buzz me on my email saying i should cheer up cause solution has come. At first i was like what are you saying, then she mentioned the name ‘EBOEHI’ and i must thank my savior Great DR EBOEHI who has play a very vital part of my life making me a great person and the most happiest person today you are a great man who is bless by powers with traditional healing spell caster, after Great DR EBOEHI has help me get my ex back he also help me recover what i have lost in past years i must thank him (Great DR EBOEHI) the life he has restored back for me and my happiness. Now i am doing well in my work and also with my partner, Great DR EBOEHI is a very great spell caster you need to know just meet him and with your problem and it will be over.. Email him via: ([email protected])

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  9. Baby girl concentrate on the books and stop giving your beautiful heart to men. They not worth it a bit. In God’s time your Mr. Right will come your way soon.

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  10. Once a thief always a thief. Do not go back to him cos he will do it again and next time he will not be spying on your friends, rather your mother. He is a man whore so leave him quick

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