Imagine going out with a guy that beats you and you still have the mind to marry that kind of man.  When the beatings get worse after marriage and you tell them to take a breather from all the beatings – then you become anti-bible because you’re trying to put asunder what God has put together (how they know God put them together is what beats my imagination).

No man/woman has the right to hit or abuse you even if you’re a loud mouth – after all, he/she knew you’re a loud mouth before committing to them. Many people keep silent because they married for better for worse – but not when your face is being disfigured and one foot in the grave.

Someone asked me if I’m going to pack out of my matrimonial home every time my husband slaps me because another woman will pack in if I leave and I should remember God hates divorce….And why would/should I wait for a second slap – the first one may not even land on my face! Won’t mosquito land on his ‘balls’ again? Since I don’t want him to get malaria, I’ll lovingly kill the mosquito for him. Some women are very annoying – I won’t deny that. The best way to deal with a woman with ‘mouth tantrum’ is to walk away when she’s ranting. It’s a more dignifying approach than silencing her with your fist – or belt.

If a victim of domestic violence did not ‘see’ the ‘side’ of a spouse (the person may be a beast hidden under a ‘nice’ person) you can pardon them to believe it’s a one-off (which might not be the case) but I won’t even feign sympathy if the victim was/is aware of the abusive nature of a partner before marriage. I just don’t know why women (especially) believe they can endure domestic violence by prayer. We don’t pray to win, we play to win. Avoid a praying situation by playing a wise woman and avoid abusive men.

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