I listened to an angry friend blab on and on about her boyfriends’ recent cheating escapade with the concluding generalization of “all men are cheats” I just couldn’t help but wonder if women are being fair with this stereotyping.

People say men are moved by what they see and women by what they hear. Well…at least not for the women of this generation, who are moved by what they want not hear.

I certainly cannot blame my friend’s boyfriend for cheating, I would have done same if I were him. She sure can be overbearing, demanding and selfish most of the time.

Casting my mind back, I vividly recollect the number of times she has cheated with the cover story of doing it only to relieve herself of financial or employment problems.

Well it sure seems like that is how it has become for attached women now, finding a quick way out but not classifying it as cheating.

Yes, men indeed are attracted by what they see and cannot help themselves most of the time but be tempted to experience it. That in my opinion is better than these “quick fix” women exchange sex for; One man paying for trips, the other in hair and make-up department, the shopping voucher man and the main boyfriend she claims she is in love with.

It must be that impossible for a cheating woman to find a man who can fit almost all the criteria for her to be satisfied.

There is no way I’m condoning a cheating man’s antics. There are men who a serial cheats, sleeping with multiple women at once and making a fool out of their partners.

All I’m trying to establish now is women are no saints when it comes to cheating and more often than not it is grossly motivated by material gains.

Do you think it’s time to end the ‘men are cheats’ stereotyping? After all, women are equal cheats or sometimes even worse…