Some people usually think one is ‘stupid’ when they are helped; you buy something for them or simply make out time for them. It’s very unfortunate when people abuse your kindness but it’s sad and disappointing when they think you’re stupid and don’t know what to use your money for. People do things out ‘love’ for their partners and they in turn insult the person to friends. If the partner doesn’t do it, then the person is mean and stingy.

People abuse niceness and generosity all the time but adding insult to it is rather uncalled for. When we need help, we always go to people who we know will assist and we won’t/don’t understand the day they cannot render us any assistance. Like this person calling someone ‘stupid and not knowing what to use money for’ – I’ll find it very difficult to stretch forth my hand if this person should ask for assistance from me because I don’t know if I’ll be the next stupid person. We sometimes think we’re playing smart on people but we end up outsmarting ourselves.

Being sweet and nice all the time is not something I’ll recommend especially when your sweetness and niceness is abused all the time. Sometimes, it’s not about the giver being generous but just to be known as the sweet/nice guy/girl. Some people don’t even trust people ‘who are too nice’ due to past experiences or they not being nice themselves so they question any nice thing you do for them.

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