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I Mistakenly Slept With My Ghanaian Church Member & Now I Am Pregnant | I Don’t Know If He is Responsible But My Boyfriend is White

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Dear GC Readers,

I am 3 months pregnant and even though my boyfriend who I have been with for almost 2 years is extremely happy about this, I am really worried since I made the biggest mistake of my life by sleeping with a friend from Church in December.

My boyfriend is white and he is supportive. He is currently helping me with my papers and I truly love him which may sound contradictory because I slept with someone. But like I said it was a mistake which I regret. It will never happen.

My biggest problem is what if the child is for the man from church who I mistakenly slept with? What if the child is born and he is black instead of being mixed as my boyfriend is a German?

I have been thinking about this and even though my friend says it’s not likely I got pregnant just that once that I mistakenly slept with someone else, I cannot sleep and this is really affecting my health.

I feel like telling my boyfriend I made a mistake last December and slept with someone. At least if we settle that and the child comes and he is black, I wouldn’t have a lot of questions being sent my way.

I don’t know if it is a good idea to tell him this; because what if he is the person responsible for the pregnancy? Telling him about this mistake will affect our relationship even if not today, in the future.

Please what should I do? Should I tell my boyfriend about this or just be mute and go through my pregnancy, praying that the baby turns out mixed.

Also, is the anyway I can know if the baby is black or mixed before birth? My friend said my heartbeat can be used to determine this by some people who are good at this.

From: Ivy T/ Germany

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14 thoughts on “I Mistakenly Slept With My Ghanaian Church Member & Now I Am Pregnant | I Don’t Know If He is Responsible But My Boyfriend is White”

  1. I would say, wait till after you give birth then have a DNA test to see; you can choose to tell ur boyfriend or not rather than thinking abt it for it to affect ur health

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  2. Girl bye! I don’t even understand the word “mistakenly” as used in the write up. Go and see that brother in Christ for a solution. F#cking your church member?! Tweaaaa

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  3. Is this girl for real or what??? How do u mistakenly sleep with a friend from church, oh the irony. Hmmmm just admit it your only with the German for your papers lol. So I suggest you come clean after u hve received ur papers that way u can go on about your life lol. Eye asem ooo

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  4. IF THAT BABY TURNS OUT TO BE BLACK THEN YOUR CHEATING WILL BE OBVIOUS AND COME TO LIGHT. I MEAN THAT CHANCE THAT A WHITE AND A BLACK OFFSPRING BECOME BLACK IS ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE! IT HAPPENS A LOT HERE WHERE BLACK WOMEN WITH WHITES SLEEP AROUND WITH BLACKS TO BEAR BLACKS OFFSPRINGS. SOME OF THESE OYIBOS TOO IGNORANTLY TAKE THESE CHILDREN AS THEIR OWN.
    AS FOR ME IN DUBIOUS TIMES LIKE THIS THE ONLY WAY OUT IS AN ABORTION CUS IF YAWA GAS YOU WILL LOSE YOUR PAPERS.
    NEXT TIME CLOSE YOUR LEGS!

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  5. Ohh please give us a break… Did his ding-dong mistakenly find it’s way into your honeypot? I highly doubt it. Look, if a guy invite you to his house and you’re already in a committed relationship with someone else please don’t go. There is a 50% chance that he would try to do something with you if you go there. Anyway, now that you’ve got yourself pregnant by your church member I guess you have to be honest with your obroni guy. Good luck!!

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  6. loool surplise surplise….hmmm asem….madam you should have dropped the mistakenly…were you drunk? the right here is regret..that you slept with a guy and you regret your actions….anywho whats done is done…maybe you could calculate back to figure out…but regardless of the situation you just have to wait and have the baby…the complexion/features of the baby will decide…but all the same there must be a reason why you slept with the asoreba…so maybe you should sit your bf down and tell him the truth…i believe there is more to this than just mistakenly cheating with your church member

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  7. She calls it a ‘Mistake ‘. She should have known and why would a woman in an already committed relationship go to the house of a single man.

    It doesn’t sound like a mistake.

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  8. Tell your white boy friend you were visited by an angel and he got you pregnant. That your pastor had a vision about it. That god did it.
    So what happen to your Christian principles on premarital sex etc?

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