Ghanaian actor-John Dumelo who was missing at his friend-Majid Michel’s renewal of wedding vows over the weekend in Accra took to instagram to offer an apology for his absence—and then dished out the best marriage advice we’ve read in a long time.
Of course John Dumelo is not married yet—but he surely knows what will make a relationship last.
In an instagram post, the actor wrote;
“I’m sorry I missed your Special day yday. You know sometimes these private jets get over booked and flying commercial is stressful. But I know you had a magical “Vows Renewal” day. I’ve seen how you’ve grown to love your wife even more over the last decade even though I’ve know her longer than you.( don’t be jealous). You guys make marriage such a sweet thing and I wish you nothing but more wonderful years together.
You should remember that marriage is less about marrying the right person and more about becoming the right person. When you’re having an argument, listen to understand, don’t listen to find loopholes so you can win. Marriage is either a win/win or a lose/lose. You can’t win by “beating”someone else down.
Don’t forget to laugh. Most couples spend the majority of their time talking logistics: who’s doing the house shopping, who’s calling the gardener, who’s picking up the kids. A relationship can’t survive on logistics. Have a water fight instead. Don’t go to sleep when an argument hasn’t been resolved. Sometimes just an “I’m sorry” would solve everything and Majid, don’t forget to put the toilet seat up when peeing. #loveyouguys #willmarrysoontoook? #haveamelomoment”
What do you think?
My friend! Practice what you preach otherwise shut the fu€k up! You play around with women like they are instruments then you talk blah blah blah just to look good to the public, God is watching you.
At least it’s better than ur anti – christianity opinions….
Choose a better life!
John must practice what he preaches and stop blowing hot air.
A womanizer like dumelo has no business giving marriage advise to majid who has already been married for 10 year. Grow a pair and get married yourself dumelo… then you can dish out advice. If your feet is on land what makes you think you can advice those who have their feed in the sea? you have NO idea what it is like….
Ah Ah Ah Dumelo wan advise a man who has been married for 10 solid years already. Dumelo u dey blaze?
Your girlfriends sef you no dey see top, then u dey talk of marriage. You fool pass. Smh
Awww..how so sweet JM..doesn’t matter who is giving the advice the most important thing is to pick where u are weak and correct them..as the saying goes don’t mind the body-mind the engine..wise words J.Congratulayions to the couple
His initials are JD. JM is the president but I don’t blame you for the confusion. JD mostly speaks for JM ?
Typing mistakes.. thx f the corrections
You knew virna before majid knew her and do what? what a stupid and unnecessary comment to make.
and so what?
exactly! that comment was so unnecessary. and private jets and blah blah…its like he doesn’t think before he speaks. no wonder you are not married!