I am not going to post the video which I came cross this morning on social media on here for the obvious indecent nature and family friendly website reasons—but I will provide a link for those interested in watching it to do so at the end of this article.
After speaking to a few people and having read the comments under the video, I sort of gather this is what happened.
A certain Ghanaian man’s girlfriend has been suspecting him of cheating—and he has on the other hand been assuring the girlfriend that even though her own friends especially Sharon wants to sleep with him, he has never been interested in doing so.
So to prove that he is a faithful man and also to show that Sharon (some friends are really evil) is interested in sleeping with him, he gets into several days of conversations with Sharon and makes it known to her that he is interested in having an affair with her.
Not knowing that it was an absurd set up, Sharon agrees to go home with him for a good bang—where the man and his girlfriend plus her other female friends walk in to meet Sharon completed n*ked in bed, waiting for the s*x.
On a serious note, this invokes some sort of “moral maze” question; was it necessary and right that the man did this?
As a man, I have had my own fair share of friends of ex-girlfriend taking a hit one way or the other—but going as far as setting them up is completely insane, in fact, inherently evil. You wouldn’t just become a douche bag for doing this, you would also break friendships—I mean between your woman and her friends.
Of course there are several loose women out there, and the friends of your girlfriend are not immune from the loose pill. But I think a gentleman should just create a big gorge between himself and whichever loose friend of his girlfriend who may be interested in tasting what the girlfriend is enjoying…
It’s this concealed jealous which exists mostly in the circles of female friends that pushes some friends to advise the others bitterly against their men—because, such friends wish they had the man, they wish you were not there or they wish you all become equal, end up with nothing. Mostly, these friends have “nothing” they can call their men—or stable relationships.
On a personal level, my cousin bought into such bitter advice from her bad circle of friends some years ago and she lost her hard working husband—that was even before the era of social media.
Today, many women in relationships proudly flaunt expensive and unique holiday photos on social media, the various decent outings they enjoy with their men are out there on social media for the world to see, including ‘jealous’ friends.
And if these ‘friends’ are not getting that, or cannot even find stable respectable men in their lives—they are just human beings, they will become desirous and the slightest chance they get to throw in an advice will be that meant to end good enviable relationships.
From what I was told, Sharon on several occasions had advised her friend to let the man go because she considered him useless and not serious—but here she was on camera, n*ked and ready to sleep or snatch the same man she defined as unworthy. That is not hypocrisy, it’s nefarious.
The question remains, was it really necessary for the man to set up Sharon in such a disgraceful way only to prove that he is a good man or faithful?
I have somewhat a rigid conscience and SassyChic may find this disappointing but as a man I wouldn’t ever take part in such a demeaning enterprise. At best, I would tell my woman about the unhealthy advances of her friend—that is if the already created gorge could not end her risky ‘preying’.
But to play things this way is profoundly insane. What do you think?
Would be very ironic if his girlfriend is also cheating. The guy didn’t try . I was even surprised he was able to even stay there with them throughout . I mean he’s john . this didn’t mean shit . the guy is probably cheating , this was to earn the wife’s trust again so he can continue .
I personally don’t think he done anything wrong
you dont think the guy did anything wrong cus you are a fool just like the guy!!!!!!!!!i hope this was to be you and you will see how it feels fool
Well bitch am not a hoe like the girl thirsting for my friend’s man so obviously I wouldn’t even be in that type of situation. Get of your feelings sir cos you kinda look like a bitch now
Obviously am not loose to go after my friends man therefore I wouldn’t be in that type of situation and also don’t go there with me because you don’t know me okay. I don’t have to have the same mindset as you. If you put yourself in bad situations, bad stuff may happen to you. The way you talk just shows the kind of low person you are. Can’t even put forth a logical argument. Bye bum.
The guy is soooooo mean. Who knows what he had told Sharon to get her into bed. He is sooo lame and mean. As for the other girls, what gives them the right to judge and pass sentence? Dont they do worse things????? If the Sharon girl was my sister, theu would all be in jail by now.
am telling…they wont go free..i swear
I really hope and pray so. What gives them the right to do that. Ahhhh.
This people need to be arrested for what they did to Sharon. What is the meaning of that? What crime has she committed such that she is being nekkidly videoed and put on social media. The man is a complete fool. God will punish him. How can you do that to woman
No matter what this Sharon did she does not deserve this. The girl and her boyfriend deserve each other because they are fools. First of all, if you are a woman and you don’t know your friends are loose to keep them away from your man then you don’t deserve a man.
Also, never take relationship advice from friends. 99.9% of them are just jealous and they will only pollute your mind. Before you know you have lost something great to become like them.
TOO LAME AND IMMATURE
THEY NEED TO BE ARRESTED
It’s absurd,its rubbish. He is foolish trying to be smart proving to his girlfriend he’s good. I mean he set up this girl twisting and convincing this girl in the name of asking her out,is not as if the girl approached him or seduced, he is the one planning the whole game. If ur a man wanted to truly prove innocency why didn’t he wait for Sharon to asked him out or seduce him. He planned the whole thing by himself. It’s senseless.
the dude is fucked up in the head…this is very sad and those girls too will face their own soon…Karma is a bitch….he is very stupid..marshall or whatever..FUCK YOU…
please can anyone gets me to the sharon..she deserves best..
You want Sharon for what? dirty man
this is my number i am ready for u 00380631221047 idiot
I concur
Where hv u been. lol
Am around ooo… how is it going? Long time no hear from you!!
I really wish the minister for gender could take this up. Those girls and that boy should be brought to book. No one has the right to do this to another person. This is injustice. And if that girls thinks the boy loves her that’s why he did this then she is living a lie. And to those girls who took part in all of this I say SHAME! You are all women too.
He is not a gentleman at all..there were so many ways to prove a point not showing someone nickedness to the world..u can recorded ur conversation for ur lady that’s all..this can course a major problem to the relationship they are trying to save in future
IF not money , look at how pretty Sharon looks, kwasia guy, with him
face like a monkey would get access to even such beauty, aboa saa, i
got pissed off when i read and watched the video on facebook, it is
defarmity of character, cheating is so different , this is a set up cos
the looks on Sharon’s face tells she couldn’t believe the guy could
set her up , even if she wanted to fuck your guy , do you have the
right to set her up and leak her video too , they really don’t know
how much of a problem they putting them stupid asses into, Sharon
should get a lawyer and sue their asses off, they gone think twice
before doing anything stupid like that the next time , assholes
The guy is a bumbling idiot. What was he trying to prove? Disgrace a woman just because he wanted to shag you? What was her crime? This is high school stuff. Shaming a girl to impress your friends.
A true gentleman should never kiss and tell. That is the code. He would have done the deed and kept his mouth shut.
What happens when the so called girlfriend dumps him in the future?
Poor Sharon. You did nothing wrong except pick an a**hole to share your body with.
Sharon why did u follow those girls n..ked
And for the guy just pray u don’t have sisters coz what goes around comes around .. Stupid fool !
IF not money , look at how pretty Sharon looks, kwasia guy, with him face like a monkey would get access to even such beauty, aboa saa, i got pissed off when i read and watched the video on facebook, it is defarmity of character, cheating is so different , this is a set up cos the looks on Sharon’s face tells she couldn’t believe the guy could set her up , even if she wanted to fuck your guy , do you have the right to set her up and leak her video too , they really don’t know how much of a problem they putting them stupid asses into, Sharon should get a lawyer and sue their asses off, they gone think twice before doing anything stupid like that the next time , assholes
This is crazy and inhuman,, what will they get from this?…so they did this all because of a “dick”. Waaaaaaaaaw.. So sorry Sharon..
the guy should take in mind that he will not break up with that his so called trustful lover for any other woman in his life if he does thunder will strike into his head and I sacrifice him for all the rivers in Ghana especially antoa yamaa…how can u put someone in these shameless and remorse manner and if I were a brother of Sharon maybe I either will be in prison…kwadiasem se3…and to Sharon I feel pitiful for u because this is not the first time this thing has happen it is in every society even abroad it happens there and I will advice her to watch how she make friends because I will never blame Sharon for that it happens every even some mothers snatch their daughters husband
This is so childish from the guy. Wasn’t necessary what he did. If Sharon was my family omg I think I would go to jail trust me.
Foolish mans’ son.. Marshall – sias3m akwa.
Omdaizz thats deeeeeep! how can they do that to her & shes soo pretty SMDH!
where is the video, not showing