Not everyone looks forward to celebrate the day of love and of lovers. And I am not talking about single or broken-hearted people. I am talking about those couples who have felt their relationships slipping out of their fingers and are only left with good-old-day memories of how their previous days were enjoyed with love and honeymoon tactics (plenty, plenty calling, love texting and pillow talks have now become squeezed-in ‘how are you’ texts).
These couples have simply eased their relationship into their normal routine and have forgotten of its specialness in their lives like we normally become unconscious of the act of breathing. One might think it is great to internalize a relationship but indeed it is a hellish thing to do.
A relationship has a special place and reason in your life and you must do all that you can to retain its brightness. Although some people find it a legitimate and assured source of sex, it is an opportunity to get to know someone with whom you can share your life, from whom you garner support and encouragement and, of course, with whom you can explore the feeling and world of love. These are just a few of the special reasons for cherishing and relishing your relationship.
Unfortunately, most often than not, the reason for being in a relationship becomes vague as you simply narrow it down to a stepping stone to your marriage (ladies especially are culpable of this).
It is not wrong to prepare for marriage in a relationship (I mean, it is the ultimate goal of a GOOD relationship) but when the essence of the relationship becomes a waiting for some marriage, then there may not be the chance to enjoy it at all. This is where the spark could sometimes get missing. Either that or one of you does not love the other enough.
Whichever way it is, you need to bring the spark back into your relationship and though it might sound corny, this Valentine’s WEEKEND is the perfect opportunity.
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