2. Husbands Beating Wives As If Bukom Banku is Their Role Model
Not long ago, Ghanaian boxer-Bukom Banku emphatically stated during an interview that, he beats his wives—proudly saying he was a boxer before becoming a husband and his three wives or so understand that, so if they provoke him, he beats the hell of out them.
Once again, why this sort of buffoon has three wives is a million dollar question with no answers within the quarters of reason.
The situation is the same in the houses of the five footballers’ wives I spoke to—with the divorcee saying, she was only slapped twice by her husband, so it was not that rampant for her.
At least, we know of the mounting allegations of John Paintsil having being beating his wife and there are rumours that Sulley Muntari, Stephen Appiah and Samuel Inkoom do not spare the rod in their bedrooms.
One of the footballers’ wife sadly said; “Chris, I am being beaten so much that even there was a time my mother was in the same house while my husband was kicking me in the bedroom.”
Pretty sad…right?
But what follows is even worse; the family of this woman is aware of the regular beatings but they say, divorce is not an option because the family is against any form of divorce and perhaps because of the occasional money they receive from their cash cow, that’s not going to be supported.
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i know there is no such thing about rosey relationship…but i really agree on nr3…thats something i have realised lately, that some african men who are rich and also famous (doesnt have to be a celebrity) think they can treat people anyhow it suits them. I wont say all but its very hard to be with some ghanaian guys…especially those who grew up home with that mentality that a woman is worth nothing…that a woman is just meant to be there to as baby machine maker…but these men forgets that a wife or woman is supposed to be their supoort system and also the men are supposed to be the strong man and respect them…a woman that respects a woman will not lift a finger on her…as for Bukom Banku he needs strong therapeutic sessions…with all that being said marriage requires lots of work…why did they marry these men in the first place
*a man that respects a woman
They marry them for the money and men arenot stupid they know that so they don’t give a hoot about them
My dear say it again, i’m not defending footballers but to say the truth those women should only blame themselves period.Let say the truth would they accept to stay with the footballers if they were poor?because he ‘s a footballer you don’t reason anymore,you don’t think anymore,you don’t even care to ask God if the man is the one you were meant to marry,and i know that most of them will not seek advice from God because he will tell them “this man is not yours”.No marriage is perfect but for God sake some are just not meant to be period stop following men because of money trust God for your future and everything will be alright. What is yours will never burn your feets and hands.
I don’t know why these women follow these uneducated men who do not have any respect for them or the relationship. Men in general will not respect you if they don’t regard you as valuable to their well being. These women mostly do not work, they sit home and paint nails and comment on social media 24/7. And they want to be respected?
Also, they cannot leave because of MONEY. They are in there for the money so no matter how many times they are beaten or cheated on, they will stay. It is stupid. Tears came down reading this.
Wow, this is pitiful, I think everyone knows that they cheat and that is disgusting in itself but the other stuff is even more dreadful and horrible but tbh the women also have to be questioned on why they put up with it and if it’s because of money and fame then it’s their fault.
My opinion is that, these women obviously do not have a life on their own and not willing to get one either. They are so bent on having a cash cow to fund their flamboyant lifestyles etc thereby depending on these jerks and consequently availing themselves to all sort of ill-treatments and disrespect. Their families also endorse these facade of a marriage. “As the saying goes, as you lay your bed so shall you lie on it”. And to the perpetrators I leave them with this wise saying “People pay for what they do, and still more, for what they have allowed themselves to become. And they pay for it simply: by the lives they lead”.