3. Openly Disrespect Without A Mouth to Say A Thing:
Do you remember Asamoah Gyan and Sarah Akwablah’s case? If you do, have you ever wondered how Asamoah Gyan’s wife with whom he has kids with feels about the overtly disrespect to her, their marriage and womanhood?
Akosua Abebrese in her article titled “So Married Asamoah Gyan With 4 Kids Chops Down A 22-Year-Old Girl & Allegedly Goes for Her Bum | And You Say There is Nothing WRONG?” wrote;
Asamoah Gyan has a wife, married with 4 kids—with the first 3 being, Frederick (the oldest), Floyd and Rafael. In January 2014, he welcomed his 4th child, a baby girl.
The fact that this guy is a footballer or has money does not exonerate him from his moral and social responsibilities—even if not to anyone at all, to his wife, the mother of his children.
But this is Ghana, rich men (especially rotten teeth footballers) treat women including their wives like used menstrual pads and no one dare call them to order—because, with money you can buy everything and everyone in this stinking sh*t hole called a country.
I feel sorry for women who marry Ghanaian footballers for the obvious reason; these footballers do not respect them and in most instances, treat them like dogs as well as beat the hell out of them.
Considering the disgrace Asamoah Gyan has brought on his family and the ridicule he has subjected his wife to, for admitting that he slept with a 22 year old student without a protection—and for the hovering allegation of even having chopped the a$$ of this girl who is now pregnant, the footballer deserves to be bashed more than Ghanaians have done.
We’ve never heard a word on this from Asamoah Gyan’s wife and let me quickly add that, she is not deaf and dumb, perhaps, she has no say in whatever happens.
And that’s the sort of bondage all these women I spoke to are under. They are married to men who can do whatever without them having a say. These men can drive around town with women sitting in their cars, can go out anytime and come back anytime or never even come back, and they wouldn’t be able to open their mouths.
Sometimes it’s better to keep the mouth shut over such things because the response you may receive can be the usual; beatings.
These men can sleep with whoever, have children with whoever and yet, they as the wives, cannot complain or demand that they are respected.
I don’t see this as marriage; such a disproportionate relationship wouldn’t even exist in ‘parasitic symbiotic relationships’—but grown up adults for whatever reasons are allowing this to flourish in a place they call home while walking around town with rings and fake smiles as wives of footballers.
i know there is no such thing about rosey relationship…but i really agree on nr3…thats something i have realised lately, that some african men who are rich and also famous (doesnt have to be a celebrity) think they can treat people anyhow it suits them. I wont say all but its very hard to be with some ghanaian guys…especially those who grew up home with that mentality that a woman is worth nothing…that a woman is just meant to be there to as baby machine maker…but these men forgets that a wife or woman is supposed to be their supoort system and also the men are supposed to be the strong man and respect them…a woman that respects a woman will not lift a finger on her…as for Bukom Banku he needs strong therapeutic sessions…with all that being said marriage requires lots of work…why did they marry these men in the first place
*a man that respects a woman
They marry them for the money and men arenot stupid they know that so they don’t give a hoot about them
My dear say it again, i’m not defending footballers but to say the truth those women should only blame themselves period.Let say the truth would they accept to stay with the footballers if they were poor?because he ‘s a footballer you don’t reason anymore,you don’t think anymore,you don’t even care to ask God if the man is the one you were meant to marry,and i know that most of them will not seek advice from God because he will tell them “this man is not yours”.No marriage is perfect but for God sake some are just not meant to be period stop following men because of money trust God for your future and everything will be alright. What is yours will never burn your feets and hands.
I don’t know why these women follow these uneducated men who do not have any respect for them or the relationship. Men in general will not respect you if they don’t regard you as valuable to their well being. These women mostly do not work, they sit home and paint nails and comment on social media 24/7. And they want to be respected?
Also, they cannot leave because of MONEY. They are in there for the money so no matter how many times they are beaten or cheated on, they will stay. It is stupid. Tears came down reading this.
Wow, this is pitiful, I think everyone knows that they cheat and that is disgusting in itself but the other stuff is even more dreadful and horrible but tbh the women also have to be questioned on why they put up with it and if it’s because of money and fame then it’s their fault.
My opinion is that, these women obviously do not have a life on their own and not willing to get one either. They are so bent on having a cash cow to fund their flamboyant lifestyles etc thereby depending on these jerks and consequently availing themselves to all sort of ill-treatments and disrespect. Their families also endorse these facade of a marriage. “As the saying goes, as you lay your bed so shall you lie on it”. And to the perpetrators I leave them with this wise saying “People pay for what they do, and still more, for what they have allowed themselves to become. And they pay for it simply: by the lives they lead”.