4. No Quality Or Family Time With Husbands:
The true essence of marriage is to have a life partner with whom you spend more time with than apart. But from my conversation with these six women, the opposite holds for them.
They spend more time alone than with their so called husbands, under the disguise that they are busy training or sometimes have to sleep in hotels to avoid sex with them because sex drains the energy needed to play football.
“M” talked to me about how her husband once told her he will be spending the next one week in a hotel and be going to training from there when she visited him at his base, because he had been advised by his coach not to have sex and with her around, the temptation was high.
By now, you may have figured out what was happening.
The footballer was rather keeping another girl he had bought a ticket for, to come from Ghana in the hotel—and this she claims was not the first time she has caught her husband cheating.
“As for cheating, I don’t even want to talk about it. I am used to it. I don’t even get angry anymore. I just pray he does not come and give me any disease because the women are everywhere and the moment he buys them a plane ticket, they fly in. So many cheap women all around these days.”
My conversations with these women left me with one lesson; things are never what they seem to be—and marrying a broke man seems like a worthy enterprise, compared to marrying a rich man who has more use for his money than can make of you.
The question however remains unanswered; why are these women and the many others still stuck in these heartless relationships?
The six women I spoke to agreed to speak behind the veil; five are still married and the other does not want any unnecessary direct finger-pointing.
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i know there is no such thing about rosey relationship…but i really agree on nr3…thats something i have realised lately, that some african men who are rich and also famous (doesnt have to be a celebrity) think they can treat people anyhow it suits them. I wont say all but its very hard to be with some ghanaian guys…especially those who grew up home with that mentality that a woman is worth nothing…that a woman is just meant to be there to as baby machine maker…but these men forgets that a wife or woman is supposed to be their supoort system and also the men are supposed to be the strong man and respect them…a woman that respects a woman will not lift a finger on her…as for Bukom Banku he needs strong therapeutic sessions…with all that being said marriage requires lots of work…why did they marry these men in the first place
*a man that respects a woman
They marry them for the money and men arenot stupid they know that so they don’t give a hoot about them
My dear say it again, i’m not defending footballers but to say the truth those women should only blame themselves period.Let say the truth would they accept to stay with the footballers if they were poor?because he ‘s a footballer you don’t reason anymore,you don’t think anymore,you don’t even care to ask God if the man is the one you were meant to marry,and i know that most of them will not seek advice from God because he will tell them “this man is not yours”.No marriage is perfect but for God sake some are just not meant to be period stop following men because of money trust God for your future and everything will be alright. What is yours will never burn your feets and hands.
I don’t know why these women follow these uneducated men who do not have any respect for them or the relationship. Men in general will not respect you if they don’t regard you as valuable to their well being. These women mostly do not work, they sit home and paint nails and comment on social media 24/7. And they want to be respected?
Also, they cannot leave because of MONEY. They are in there for the money so no matter how many times they are beaten or cheated on, they will stay. It is stupid. Tears came down reading this.
Wow, this is pitiful, I think everyone knows that they cheat and that is disgusting in itself but the other stuff is even more dreadful and horrible but tbh the women also have to be questioned on why they put up with it and if it’s because of money and fame then it’s their fault.
My opinion is that, these women obviously do not have a life on their own and not willing to get one either. They are so bent on having a cash cow to fund their flamboyant lifestyles etc thereby depending on these jerks and consequently availing themselves to all sort of ill-treatments and disrespect. Their families also endorse these facade of a marriage. “As the saying goes, as you lay your bed so shall you lie on it”. And to the perpetrators I leave them with this wise saying “People pay for what they do, and still more, for what they have allowed themselves to become. And they pay for it simply: by the lives they lead”.