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Pyper Pebbles Writes: When Men Garnish Sex With Love | It Won't Hurt If You State Your True Intention

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“You mustn’t force sex to do the work of love or love to do the work of sex”- Mary McCarthy.
In plain language sex is sex and love is love though both may have a relationship of a sort–neither should be burdened to work for the other. I still cannot understand why one would opt for fries with chicken when all they crave for is fufu with palm-nut soup, it is unreasonable.
Why go about professing your undying love to one innocent lady just because you want to unveil what lay beneath her beautiful, have a taste of the meat-ed pie in between her ties? It is so inconsiderate of men to keep up with this very ‘culture’ and apparently it doesn’t look like they are letting go anytime soon.
So I chanced upon a video of one lady who was ranting and her rants were appropriate and for a better reason. She went on about how men would sweet talk you and go all nice to make it look like you are the divine pair and just after a couple of sex they just go aloof on you leaving your feelings hanging.
She added that for her, once you ‘hit the jackpot’ you have automatically signed a contract and your ass isn’t leaving her until she decides to set you free off her claws. Intuitively, I bet this lady has had enough of heartbreaks.
A lot of men have decided to make the “hit and run” affair a routine. They would recite the most romantic poems, call and text you so many times as if their life depended on you, they would go great lengths to do everything humanly possible just to get laid and run off like they never met you.
That is when their phones collaborate with your ‘house witches’ to discipline you. Their phones would amazingly forget to record your missed calls or messages, they suddenly become busy and find all the stupidest excuses in the world to tell you.
What if we had people who could just come up into your face and be honest with you? What if we had people who could go like “I am not in love with you but I desire you in a sexual way” would the world know peace?
In as much as it may sound disrespectful to some people, I would rather be disrespected than have my heart broken with swearing of never loving again.
“A man is likely to earn himself some dirty slaps if he goes about saying such things to a lady” one friend commented and I agree. You may be called all sort of names but it makes sense on a grande scheme and my equally conscious friends would agree that is no insult.
“In a bid to safe my cheeks from such slandering slaps I opt for a relationship just to get the cookie though I may not necessarily be in love” a male colleague shamelessly added.
The selfishness of humanity is infinite. You would rather watch someone suffer just to satisfy your unquenchable libido. Then why not go for a prostitute, it is pay as you go and it is devoid of emotions.
In the end it was the cookie you wanted and a prostitute can give you a bang in unimaginable way.
I just wish relationships could be defined before sex even comes to play.



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  1. Know what…I was recently talking to a male friend about this…just be honest…don’t go all love love just cos you want to enter….I beg there are too many girls out there too who wants to just hit it and not want the whole love relationship…if you are a man and approaches a lady and honest with her then you should respect her choice of not wanting you to just hit it…move on to the next that isn’t looking for love but sex…it’s sooo simple…lots of African guys always play the love cards….but oyibo guy will tell you he ain looking for love

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