Women need s*x!
I don’t know how to put this lightly but that’s the truth. Call it empowerment, vanity or pragmatism but a number of women-married and unmarried who are not getting s*xual satisfaction from their men have discovered a source of pleasure- the vib or dil.
But can this replace the real thing? We don’t need the board pounding sweaty hogwash most men offer as s*x but we need a toe curling experience. The bravado with which men talk about s*x is just disgusting and appalling.
Personally I don’t see why a woman cannot have s*x toys even when she’s in a relationship. The benefits of having a toe curling s*x cannot be underestimated. If anything, it makes you sleep better at night and this is something that has become a luxury in Ghana considering our economy.
I have always been a believer of the “all or nothing” mantra. There’s nothing like curling up to the man in your life after some serious s*x and falling asleep. But if this man has an “ultimate finish” while you wonder what the hell happened. Imagine the man lying beside you panting with a smug look on his face thinking he’s done something wonderful while the woman is still in shock trying to wrap her head around what happened. I think I just might strangle someone *sigh*.
Our only problem as women in Ghana and our part of the world is that, we just can’t seem to talk about our s*x preferences. Ask a man about their performance in bed and the things he would say would just amaze you.
Just ask his partner or the woman in his life and she will just roll her eyes. Men are just clueless about their women’s s*xual preferences. They just don’t get it and they don’t care as long as they get their “ultimate finish.”
The importance of s*xual satisfaction to both men and women cannot be downplayed but especially to the modern day woman is immense. There are options available for women to achieve s*xual satisfaction and more women are going in for just that.
During s*x men are usually seen as the selfish ones but a lot more women are becoming selfish in that regard too. Most men are of the view that this is an insult to them and they will call quits with their partners should they discover them using a toy.
Some friends even suggested that their women talk to them so they will know where to touch to satisfy them and are willing to go through a diet change to be able to satisfy their women. But there are a lot of egoistic men around who wouldn’t hesitate to call their partners cheats should they talk about their inability to satisfy them s*xually.
Studies have shown that about 70-80% of women do not reach orgasm through penetrative s*x and that is when toys can become the saviour.
The thing is men are allowed ti masturbate but when a woman gives herself pleasure then it becomes an issue. But then again it’s a man’s world right?
For most single women they opt for dildos because it’s satisfying, faithful and you are sure of not contracting any STDs. Manufactures of these dildos are doing a great job as they come in different sizes and shapes with different functions to suit the needs of every woman out there.
Gradually most men are being replaced by the electric man which is giving women the satisfaction they need in their lives.
As it’s typical of African men especially Ghanaian men when faced with competition, all they do is whine rather than up their game. But until they do so, the electric man will be busily doing their job so they can boast of it elsewhere.