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Age is No Determiner Of Good S£x | Experience is Not Always the Best Teacher

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There is nothing better than good sex; bad sex is like eating your own puke. Sex is supposed to be fun. Bad sex can literally ruin your life and this is no sheer utterance. I would beat myself to tears if I waste
hours on one male only find out he sucks under the sheets.

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HELP!!! I Need A Man to Validate My Life…

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My cousin turned 35 a couple of weeks ago and turned up large but her parents didn’t think she had a cause to celebrate because apparently she’s 35 and unmarried.
I couldn’t think far on this because even though she’s not married, she’s by far one of the most successful people I know. This my cousin is an aeronautics engineer and a very brilliant one. She’s my mentor and greatly influenced my chosen career now but all her achievements are naught because is still single at 35. This situation got me thinking and the more I did, the angrier I became.
Nothing annoys me most than when she’s in town and we bump into family friends, a glimpse at her finger and they ask the ultimate question, “when is your wedding” or “won’t you marry? You’re not getting any younger.
It doesn’t matter that she’s successful enough in her chosen field and has travelled to many countries of the world for work and she is the best in her field.
I guess these things matter to me alone. Sure there’s nothing wrong with getting married and settling down with the love of your life to raise your little ones.

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Ms Pyper Pebbles Writes: Down And Dirty With The 'Good Boy' | And That Was How My Relationship Ended Before It Started

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Relationships come and go, some leaving you with swearings of never loving again. Whether platonic, cordial, coined on deceit, or nurtured with love and honesty, not every relationship ends with the ultimate, marriage. Whichever way a relationship may be packaged or labelled, once it ends a loop is created and only time may be capable of tightening that loop. Even the no strings attached kind of relationship comes with its own pain.

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6 Things Not to Do In A Relationship | A Guide from Another Woman

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In our relationship series that we started three weeks ago, we brought you 5 things not to do on that first date.
We are continuing from where we left off. We assume you have done everything right to get into that relationship; hence we bring you 6 things that you should never do in this relationship.
Your past relationships did not work for a reason and you do not want this relationship to tow the same line as those other relationships. Brace yourself for these guides….

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The Electric Man: A Lot of ‘Intelligent’ Ghanaian Women Are Going in for the 'Other Man'

Women need s*x! I don’t know how to put this lightly but that’s the truth. Call it empowerment, vanity or pragmatism but a number of women-married and unmarried who are not getting s*xual satisfaction from their men have discovered a source of pleasure- the vib or dil. But can this replace the real thing? We … Read more

Lady Stabs Her Boyfriend To Death Because He Demanded Her Cell Phone Password

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We live in a world where people value material possessions more than anything else. Phone security is much more important to many of us than the pin to our ATM cards.
A woman has found herself on the wrong side of the law for allegedly stabbing her boyfriend to just because he requested for the password to her phone. I don’t know what else this lady can do to protect her phone if she’s willing to kill to protect the security of her phone.
Bossip reports a woman has been arrested after allegedly stabbing her boyfriend to death after he requested the password to her phone, police said Monday.

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No S*x Before Marriage Leading To Lots Of Divorces – Lawyer

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A female legal practitioner, Margaret Achaempong, has strongly come out against the ‘convention’ of couples being warned about not having s*x before marriage, claiming it is a surefire way to having a bad marriage.
The conventional wisdom in this country, due to religious and cultural mores, is that s*x before marriage is prohibited (although no one follows it anyway).

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A Mother's Silent Screams | Why Father's Day Is Still Not Loud

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“If wealth was the inevitable result of hard work and enterprise, every woman in Africa would be a millionaire”-George Monbiot.
If you’ve had to wake up in the sleeping hours of dawn to see Ghanaian women bearing a load meant for a dozen others, only then would you understand Monbiot’s statement. You dare not doubt the frog that comes to tell you that the crocodile is dead.
I have lived my entire life in Ghana so I have seen the struggles and insufferable ordeal these women go through. From the kayaye who straps her child at her back with basin well defined with goods of all kind to the woman who sits in the sun behind a flaming fire to roast maize and plantain to the woman whose only way of walking is running because she hawks pawpaw, nkatie burger, plantain chips and pure water in traffic—the lengths Ghanaian women go through to either aid with family expenses or take the full armour of a bread winner is limitless.
Since I have not had a first hand experience with other countries, I would subject them to extrapolation knowing that what happens in those country would be similar to that which happens in Ghana.
It is no different every year, a lot of concerns are raised with respect to how and why father’s day is not as popular as mother’s day.
The excitement and eagerness that is attached to mother’s day is no where near father’s day. Adverts are made weeks prior to the actual date, talk of the surprises, the dinners and the display of affection on social media.
I could actually count the number of my Facebook friends who uploaded their dad’s picture with beautiful caption but I dare not try to count on mother’s day. People go as far as ignoring you when you remind them father’s day is a week or two away; at worst they pretend the day doesn’t even exist.

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Would You Marry A Man 25 Years Older? | We Asked Several Ghanaian Women & Got Interesting Answers

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The silent adage “age is a mere number” does not really apply to every woman—for some women, they wouldn’t go beyond a certain age mark and they have interesting reasons why this is the case. GhanaCelebrities.Com asked several Ghanaian women, between 24-30 years this question; would you marry a man 25 years older than you? … Read more

A Tearful Story of Love: Balfour Awuah Tabury Has Announced He'll Be Marrying the Woman Who Has Become His Lost Legs Since He Became PARAPLEGIC After Being Knocked Down By A Car

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Love they say is beautiful, sincere and fulfilling—-and even if you have not experienced this yet, the story of Balfour Awuah Tabury would be enough to confirm that, true love is from the heart and it’s priceless.
Baffour Tabury, 31 year old final year student of Cape Coast University (at the time) became popular to a few Ghanaians online when loved ones started sharing his GoFundMe page—-set up to help him raise about 42,000 dollars for ADULT STEM CELL THERAPY at the Stem Cell Institute in Punta Pacifica, Panama.
Balfour became PARAPLEGIC after being knocked down by a car in 2007, and therefore couldn’t complete his course.
It wasn’t just a case of not being able to complete his studies, Balfour since 2007 became bedridden, couldn’t control his urine and bowel, can’t sit for long due to spasticity and can’t even sleep due to severe pains, tingling, spasticity and burning sensation below his waist.
Per his GoFundMe page, “Some American doctors who came to do a charity program examined him last year and directed him to the Stem Cell Institute, after contacting them for a consult, he’s been declared a viable candidate for treatment.”
The cost of treatment and other expenses came up to $42,000 and per his appeal for donation, he only  managed to raise $15,000—-and would still appreciate any donation.

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All Natural Hair Bridesmaids Wedding Goes Viral | See the Amazing Photos

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Houston based couple-Nakyia Whitty and Jay Davis got married last week at a gorgeous beachside wedding in the Dominican Republic—and their wedding photos have gone viral online. When wedding photos go viral, it’s mostly due to the bride’s stunning dress or some silly prank—but this time, people are talking about the natural curls all the … Read more

CHRIS-VINCENT Writes: A Respond to Ms. Pyper Pebbles | Men Garnish Sex With Love Because That’s What Really WORKS

From BrutallyUncensored.Com Having been working with Ms. Pyper Pebbles, I’ve come to understand that she appreciates honesty, even if it is clothed in disrespect and will in the short run hurt her. Of course, that’s a reasonable position, take the hit if that’s what is true—-but what she forgets is that, a lot of people, … Read more

Pyper Pebbles Writes: When Men Garnish Sex With Love | It Won't Hurt If You State Your True Intention

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“You mustn’t force sex to do the work of love or love to do the work of sex”- Mary McCarthy. In plain language sex is sex and love is love though both may have a relationship of a sort–neither should be burdened to work for the other. I still cannot understand why one would opt … Read more

Broke Guys Are Un-Dateable | Why Ladies Run From "Dabidabi 3b3y3 yie"

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“Being broke is a temporary situation. Being poor is a state of mind”— Mike Todd.
Over the years the world has made sure that “women love money” become an established fact. Though some may see it as sheer trite I am still in agreement with the former. Women indeed love money but generally everyone loves money.
Anyone who pulls their tongue away when they are being fed with honey must have a serious issue with their taste buds. Who wouldn’t want to flourish and swim in wealth, eat the food they want, go on luxurious vacations, and drive all luxury cars of their choice? Wouldn’t you want to change your wardrobe as and when they want? I mean who would dare say no to luxury?
Put feminism and the “what men can do women can do it and even better” attitude most women have hanging loosely around their necks aside. Let’s just cut to the chase. Women don’t like broke men. Women want to be taken care of and ‘spoilt’ in every way possible. So what do we do?
We look for men who have the potentials to render such services. A typical woman places value on how much money a man has since success at large is measured by one’s net worth— Then we twist it around calling it ambition, independent, responsible and what not. The question we should be asking is, does the world not have enough men who are ambitious, independent and responsible yet broke? Why then do women not go in for them? Simply because their pockets are not fat. Period!

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