Have you ever been in a relationship where your man has demanded that you gain weight because he likes big women? Some men can actually threaten to leave a marriage or a relationship if the women do not adhere to their request.
Sadly, this happens in more relationships than we know or hear about. It has been a personal experience and it also happened to my siblings. I have two siblings who experienced this during their marriages. In both instances, the men met them when they were slim and beautiful, but after years of marriage, they demanded that my sisters gain weight or they would leave!
Sadly, I watched my sisters turn their lives around by gaining weight to please these men in order to hold on to their marriages. Years after my sisters had gained all that weight and were unable to lose them, the men walked out of the marriages due to reasons known to them.
I hate to say this, but I feel my sisters reacted stupidly for gaining weight only to please a man. I will not change my lifestyle to please any man. Remember that men approach you because of something they see and admire about you. It could be the way you dressed, look, dance, etc. And so if down the line, these same men suggest that you change something about you for them, you shouldn’t accept that.