There are some people we enter into relationships with who are troubles with a capital T. They’ll mess you up so much and if you successfully rid yourself off them or they decide to take a bow and leave – they somehow try to ‘worm’ their way back into your life to continue from where they left off – destroy you the more! Love is least of the reasons why they rear their ‘ugly’ heads again. When an ex-lover, especially, the married one appears from nowhere and starts getting all loved up, they’re just coming to divide and destroy.
What love has he/she to offer after how many years? What love has he/she to offer when your relationship was the toxic/unhealthy/parasitic type? Truthfully, they have nothing to offer you. They will destroy your home whiles theirs stays intact. How can a man allow his ex-girlfriend access to his life and family after he caught her doing ‘testing mic 1, 2, 3’ on his friend meanwhile his ‘mic was never tested’ (thinking is allowed)?
Some people have given their exes the license to destroy their family, defraud them emotionally, because of a misplaced love they think they still have for them. Some people fall too easily to things their hearts and ears want to hear so just whisper sweet nothings into their ears and game starts. They throw caution to the wind and damn all consequences and start an illicit affair with an ex – who might have even treated them badly during the course of their relationship.