Love & Relationship Advice: I Am In A Relationship Yet She Won’t Back Off…

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Hello GC Readers,

My name is Steph and I’m a 26 year old man in a relationship but have got a problem with another young lady.

This lady happens to have once been my friend’s girlfriend but things didn’t eventually workout between them.

This lady keeps professing love to me even though she knows I am in a relationship. She continues telling me my friend is still begging to come back but she’s no longer interested in him.

My friend himself keeps telling me he’s got nothing to do with her anymore. Pls advice me on what to do.

Thanks.

Dear Steph,

As the saying goes, two’s company but three’s a crowd. It’s easy to get dragged unwilling or unknowingly into other people’s relationship issues.

I have to assume you are happy in your current relationship. Therefore your loyalties and attention should only be to your current relationship.

It sounds like she may not be taking No for an answer or taking a hint that you are not interested. I have to assume this is the case as this wasn’t made clear in your letter.

Sometimes people want what they cannot have so be weary of this lady’s intentions. Make it very plain and clear you are not interested.
Keep your distance it’s not worth ruining your relationship or your friendship! Nothing good can come of a relationship that starts with betrayal.

Best of luck.

Regards,

Ms. A.K  from GC XXX

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  1. HEY AM BROTHER CONTROL YOURSELF .THIS IS WHAT I CALL DESPERATE WOMAN.LET ME TELL YOU, WE WOMEN ARE NOT GOD BUT WE CAN MAKE YOUR LIFE HORRIBLE AND ALSO MAKE IT PERFECT FOR YOU.MY BROTHER STICK TO THE ONE YOU LOVE AND IS IN THE RELATIONSHIP WITH.THE OTHER ONE IS JUST DESPERATE LOOKING FOR A MAN TO WARM HER BED .SHE WILL NOT LEAD YOU TO ANYWHERE.DO NOT LET A WOMAN COME BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR FRIEND.IF YOU FOLLOW WHAT I AM ABOUT TO TELL YOU, YOU WILL SEE THERE IS NO NEED TELLING YOUR FRIEND ABOUT THIS.OF COURSE WHEN SHE SEES THAT YOU DO NOT WANT HER, SHE CAN EVEN TELL YOUR FRIEND YOU ASKED HER OUT.YOU CAN RECORD ONE OF HER CALLS AS EVIDENCE TO YOUR FRIEND SHOULD SOMETHING LIKE THIS HAPPEN.MAKE SURE ANYTIME YOU ARE GOING TO WHERE SHE IS SAY A PARTY YOU GO WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND.

    I HAVE A QUESITON TO ASK YOU .AND THE QUESTION ISWHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM IF YOUR FRIEND SAYS HE IS NOT IN THE RELATIONSHIP WITH HER AND THE GIRL SAYS HE STILL WANT HER BACK? UNLES YOU WANT TO TELL US THAT YOU LOVE THE LADY .ONCE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT ,DO NOT LET ANYTHING COME BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU(you and your lover) FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON THIS DAYS ARE NOT EASY.MAKE SURE YOU DO NOT SLEEP WITH HER AND SAY IS ONE NIGHT STAND BECAUSE IF YOU DO THAT IS YOUR END.SHE WILL FIND WAYS AND MEANS TO MAKE SURE YOU AND YOUR LOVER BREAK-UP.I KNOW WHY I AM SAYING THIS BECAUSE YOU MEN ARE SOMETIMES UPREDICTABLE.( can not keep those things well even when they hijack)

    THIS IS NOT SOMETHING TO BE CONFUSED ABOUT.DO YOU KNOW THE KIND OF PROBLEMS PEOPLE HAVE. GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND DONT MIND HER.DONT EVEN ALLOW HER TO COME CLOSE TO YOU.NO MATTER HOW SHE PURSUADES YOU DONT MIND HER.THIS IS SOMETHING YOU CAN HANDLE.YOU OWN YOUR LIFE.YOU CAN PICK HER CALLS AND ALSO REFUSE.YOU CAN PREVENT ALL THIS FROM HAPPENING.BE A MAN.YOU THINK TO BE A MAN IS EASY ah THEN GO AND ASK YOU FATHER ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU ARE HANDSOME OR YOU CAN ASK THAT MAN WHO SANG to be a man nawaoooooooooooooooooooo HE WILL TELL YOU.I KNOW HOW WOMEN PUSHES WHEN THEY WANT YOU BUT DO NOT MIND HER.

    STAY BLEESSED AND REMEMBER AIDS IS REAL .

    THANK YOU.

  2. You need to let your current girlfriend know what’s going on before this girl who’s bothering you mess up your relationship. She’s desperate. Some people like “attachment” too much! ahba!  Tell this girl to go find herself a man!