I am single and I am content with being single. I have chosen to be single for reasons which I consider necessary and important. I know a lot of single people on here share the same sentiment.
It is sometimes really annoying to have things rubbed in your face by friends and acquaintances. I spent almost my entire weekend listening to one of my friends who visited extensively bragging about her man.
It got me a little jealous and then it became annoying. Everything was “Kelvin this, Kelvin that”. I know it is good to be in a relationship but to what extent can a woman brag about her man and the vice versa?
Do you think a woman should tell her friends everything good her man does for her or share with her? Should a man also use every minute and opportunity he gets to brag about her woman? Let’s get talking….
I think you have hit a uncomfortable nerve here. Just tell you friend to keep the joys and thrills of her man to herself else a sinister woman will take those secrets and become the jump-off to her man.
Personally it doesn’t bother me to hear the conversation but definitely believe in propriety and practice it when it comes to man cause I don’t trust half these hefers no way and feel its important to keep your freak to yourself.
To the best of my knowledge, i dont fink is good to brag abt ur guy or lady since anytin can happen in a relationship.We can easily cast our mind back when dat Slut NADIA BUARI want to TV3 to brag abt ESSIEN,n at de end she was been dump like a filthy TRASH.lol.anyway,i was happy when she was dump since she want to ESSIEN’s lyfe wit dat GREEDY MOTIVE of her.
I think it doesnt really matter when u talk abt ur guy to ur friends. It makes ur friends get jealous and want to take him from u to show u that ur guy is not all that u think. After all, ur guy might leave u any moment from then no matter what. So dont trust tehm like that.
Well I can say I have been on both sides of the coin ( single and listened to the ‘bragging’ and now in a amazing relationship and talked to ppl about it. ) Mostly I only discuss such things with friends that are already in relationships OR pals that ask about my boyfriend. Thing is if I do volunteer information about my relaionship it’s neva to make anyone feel bad Im saying how happy I am. I would more say it’s the listners issue if it boters them so much. It didnt really bother me back in my single days but then I guess it depends if my friend is saying it to evoke envy or saying it just coz she is happy. Anyway I guess it wont hurt to pipe down a bit now and again
😉 lol
WHEN PEOPLE ARE IN LOVE THEY OFTEN TALK ABOUT THEIR COUNTER PARTS QUITE A LOT,WHICH IS THE NORM.BUT TO THE EXTENT OF BRAGGING ABOUT ONE’S COUNTER PART, BEGGARS BELIEF.MAYBE SHE’S JUST PULLING YOUR LEGS KNOWING YOU ARE SINGLE.
I won’t brag about my woman to my “boys boys”. People change… and if the changes come what would I tell them? I leave the sweetness or sourness of my relationship to myself.