Dear GC,
I’m only 25 and have been told I’m a ‘bad boy’ by not only my mates but exes too. I was never really in a hurry to settle down and hooking up and meeting girls has never been a joy for me.
I’m not trying to sound arrogant but as I am tall, dark skinned with dimples I am never short of love interests. My only issue now is I met a girl at a friend’s BBQ some weeks back and she has me trippin’ big time.
She is really the first girl I’ve met and has made me want to just stop lookin’ and chasing chicks constantly. I’ve already started calling her my girlfriend and on top of all that she is really beautiful, she’s dark like me and has a great body!
Even though it’s only been a few weeks we really get on and we try and spend as much time as possible with each other as I always want to be with her. When we met at the BBQ I told my friend I wanted to approach her, he laughed and said I wouldn’t stand a chance and I should not even bother as he knows few guys that have slept with her. I thought he was trying to put me off so he could try his luck so of course I ignored his phoney advice.
The only problem is I’m starting to wonder if he really was telling the truth about her past. We went out for drinks with my friends and another one of my pals hinted that I should be careful as he has heard she had been around with guys he knows.
I’m starting to think this can’t be just a rumour or a coincidence. I don’t want to scare her off by asking her questions and don’t want her to think I am the jealous type, as I like her and I am falling for her.
I would be so disappointed if it ends up being true. When we go out men are always trying to chat her up and from what I see she is really dismissive of the attention which makes me think it might all be rumours.