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Love & Relationship: My Brother Hasn’t Told His Wife About His Vasectomy, Should I Tell Her?

 

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Dear GC,

I have a bit of a dilemma and can’t discuss this with friends for fear it will get back to the people I’m talking about.  I was recently catching up with my younger brother over the phone recently. He was home alone as his wife was away on business.

I was asking him when he’s coming to see his nephews as they love him and he’s so good with children. I asked him when is his wifey having theirs. I especially asked because his wife is mid thirties and the clock is ticking.

My brother point blank said, even though he said he wanted kids when they met he is now saying he has no intention of having kids and has had a vasectomy. He told me she don’t know and he aint telling her either.

I’m quite close with his wife and I feel really really bad for her. I cant believe my brother would be this cruel. Even if he’s changed his mind at least tell her right? Should I tell her?

Catherine.

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Dear Catherine

This is truly a sad situation and I’m sure the saying that ‘blood is thicker than water’ will be one of the things stopping you from telling your sister in-law about your brother’s dodgy secret.

As much as I too disagree with your brothers actions, I also feel you need to be very careful with the personal issues within a marriage. I’m sure you feel somehow sensitive about it because you’re a woman and the thought of your husband tricking you like this is hard to swallow.

I would advise against you telling your sister-law in an obvious way as I’m sure regardless of how close you both are, there’s so much about their marriage you won’t know anything about. It maybe that she already knows and has kept it to herself. Also maybe her views on having children could have changed.

If it’s really bothering you and your feeling burdened you could have a general discussion on having children, maybe talk about your opinions without asking her direct questions and see what she comes up with.

It may appear like you are tip toeing around the subject but should you tell the truth you may end up messing your relationship with both of them.

Hope this helps!

Regards,

SassyChic!

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5 thoughts on “Love & Relationship: My Brother Hasn’t Told His Wife About His Vasectomy, Should I Tell Her?”

  1. like sassychic stated “blood is thicker than water”, why don’t you help your brother first by taking some type of antibiotic for infeection cause the risk of infection is greater when you drain the Hematoma Good Luck

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  2. I never bother reading IanSassyChic advise on this one and if she already said what I have to say then I really apologize since I wanna get this shit outta my chest to sister Catherine brother.

    Ok, since homie has admit this secret to his sister “ONLY” the simple one question need to be ask that did Catherine brother had vasectomy on purpose? or was it by an accident?

    My question might sound silly but Catherine’s brother should also look from a woman perspective. Why? because majority of the women don’t just marry because of man. Women also want to enter into a good marriage because they wanna have children for the sake of the future and family.

    My advice to Catherine too, is that she should struck a very friendly conversation with her sister in-law about this situation without Catherine mention her brother name. This should give Catherine ideas where her sister in-law stand. With that said, if Catherine brother had vasectomy on purpose without the wife knowing about it then he need to be put on BLAST.

    @ Miyagi

    Was good Bruh. I strongly co-sign your statement but I’m guessing a male with vasectomy can be VERY expensive to treat and who knows whether it might works or not.     

     

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      • Bruh, you alerady know. We chopped the truth and nothing but the truth. 
        I work in the pharmaceutical industry and sterilization productions ain’t cheap at all
        especially when developing and manufacturing antibiotic. Can you imagine the uniform we ware before we start all the technical shit cost $125 dollars per uniform. What makes the uniform soo expensive is that it can “only” be use for one day. 

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