Love & Relationship: Dear GC Readers’, My Fiancé Is Extra Freaky & Wants A Blowjob In Front Of A Camera Or Else…

Dear GC Readers,

I’m going through something which is bothering me a lot and hope your readers can chip in a bit of advice to help me make a good decision. I am a newly engaged young woman in my mid 20’s and I’m so much in love with my man.

We are both Christians and very excited about our relationship. We are working towards a big wedding which is something I want so much.

Despite all the happiness and signs of more happiness coming my way in the future should I finally marry my fiancé, our sexual life is becoming a poison to our relationship.

My man is more than a freak and he loves to have porn movies on most times whilst we make love. He also orders me around to imitate what the women do in the movies which I have been obliging him with since we met.

However, he has been asking me to give him a blowjob and he intends to record this. He says he loves blowjobs and the cameras.

I have been telling him to give me some time and it seems he is running out of patience now. He is behaving funny and once said, if I cannot please him sexually, why should he bother marrying me since I will make his life miserable.

I love him so much and want to be with him, what should I do now? Should I accept his order as I have always done and go ahead to give him what he wants?

Selina

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Dear Selina,

This sounds poisonous indeed. As much as I know you want your man’s happiness you surely need to cater and consider your own happiness also. My concern is not so much his demands or his requests, the threats and ultimatums are probably what is your raising your anxiety.

If your man is a little more freaky than you are used to there is nothing wrong with this so long as you get to the point where you want to do what he’s asking and you are ready.

You’re going to have to be brave on this one Selina, next time he threatens you let him know that you are not marrying him based on sexual favours.

Obviously sex is important to him but you need to find a way to let him understand that you give him what he wants in bed when its comfortable for you, not when it’s forced.

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SassyChic!

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