Weekly Discussion: What Will Bother & Hurt You More?

I got into a discussion last night with my friends and to my astonishment, it seems some men will be more bothered or be hurt if their wife or girlfriend was caught cheating with a man. But they will be less bothered if she was cheating with a fellow woman.

Contrary to the above, it looks like women do not care whether their man cheated with another woman or a fellow man, they will be equally bothered and hurt no matter the sex of the 3^rd party.

I am not sure if this cuts across but that is what I gathered from the lengthy conversation we got into last night…

Is it less of a moral crime if a woman cheats with another woman or if a man cheats with another man compared to if it is done with opposite sex?

Probably this even follows the legal definition of adultery where the law only sees adultery as when a married person engages in a sexual intercourse with an opposite sex who is not party to the marriage (3^rd party is not the wife or husband). So if you catch your wife cheating with another woman or your husband with another man, it does not amount to Adultery in law (UK Law to precise).

What do you think? Will you be more bothered or hurt if your partner cheats on you with an opposite sex and be less bothered if he/she cheated with the same sex?

I know guys who said if their wife or girlfriend cheats with another woman, all they will do is invite other woman home for ‘Ménage à trios’ (pardon my French).