This week has been polluted with fumes from two respected Ghanaian Christians and Gospel Entertainers-Christiana Love & Pastor Love.
Their 9 years marriage and togetherness in Christ has come to a shocking end. The reason for their breakup is still not grounded as both sides keep throwing out contradictory stories…
Whatever the reasons are…one thing is certain and that is; the marriage has ended. Something definitely must have caused this…
As individuals, we all have things we are ready or will tolerate in our relationships-be it marriage or boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
There are certain things we will never accept or tolerate and these are the things which will be enough for us to say Goodbye even if we are with the best of all men/women…
Let’s all get talking… What are the things you will never tolerate in a relationship? And why?
As a woman, I will endure a lot in relationships but what I will never take is abuse. There are so many black women in abusive relationships, being beaten each day by their partners and I never want to join this. So for me the moment a man abuses me or shows abusive signs, I am out
As for me if i realize that my husband is a bully, i would opt for separation.if he changes his behavior i would then take him back.but personally what i would not tolerate in a husband is when i realize that he is a drug addict or peddler,if he is a homosexual and also a rapist that cannot control his libido even on his own family.right there and then i would end the relationship.
For me, relationships are exclusive and by this I mean, my man for me alone and me for him alone. Any breach of this exclusivity means I am out of it. PERIOD. Of course I will not take an abuse, for that I will not even say I am going, I will just vanish but for cheating, I will look into your eyes and say goodbye
For me what I won’t tolerate is when my partner takes me for granted.That is when I’m made to feel less important in a relationship.I must be the most important person in her life becos I can’t stand being a second choice to someone who claims 2 love me.That is why I wont even think of proposing to any woman whose love for me is in doubt but that doesn’t mean I wont play my role though.