I’ve been married for just a year now and although I believe we are happily married getting to this stage was really no joke. When I met my now husband he had been separated a year and we married 7 months after the divorce was settled. They divorced because she cheated on him but she never really accepted his decision to get the divorce.
Now she is said to be very ill. Her parents have passed, she’s an only child and her friends can’t accommodate her. After seeing her condition in the hospital and speaking to her surgeon, my husband is saying to me that she should stay with us till she recovers as she needs care.
Though we have had run ins and she has been a real nightmare since meeting her, I’m not a heartless person, but my friends say I should beware as it could be a scam to get her husband back. She is genuinely sick and cannot recover well if she doesn’t get the care she needs
What should I do?
It’s easy to see why you are thinking twice about not wanting to accommodate the ex wife. You are human and your dealings with her sound as though they’ve been less than pleasant, not to mention your marriage is still quite new.
You cannot ignore this woman who only has the both of you to turn to. So it’s important you sit with your husband and state clearly what you can do to accommodate her and for how long or if you can care for her in her own home.
I hope this helps…Let’s see advice GC readers have to offer!
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