If you are not aware that there is an on-going war on men between both desperate and non-desperate women, I guess you know now.
Consciously and unconsciously, we (women) find ourselves fighting each other for men. It is less intense or much unnoticed if you are lucky to be the woman defending the battle.
From when we wake up to when we go back to bed, it seems our every moment through life is channeled towards getting the attention of a man or men.
Have you not realized how other women just open their mouths and eyes wide without caring if you are looking or not when you are with your man just to gaze at him? I know it always used to be this way but then recently, things have heightened at my end here.
I am beginning to find it even uncomfortable going out with my own man. I nearly gave one ‘biatch’ a slap last 2 weeks for her ungodly gazing.
Even the female customer service advisors at super markets, banks and corporate offices are doing it. Instead of serving you and looking into your eyes, if you are with your man, all their attention drifts to him.
When it comes to those who work at restaurants and pubs, open flirting with your man has become the order of the day. If you are not careful, your romantic night out could be easily destroyed by some of these women who are at the attacking side of the war on men.
I hope I am not just being paranoid, have you also noticed how the war on men especially decent and responsible men have heightened in the last few years?
When you look out of your windows, the things some of these women on the attacking side of the war wear say it all. Nothing is being done secretly anymore, some women storm out of their houses each day dressed in their war armour (skimpy dresses, uncomfortably tight jeans and bras), ready to attack or defend what they rightly hold.
The war on men has been worsened by new technology and social media. In the past few months, I have found women sending indecent photos to my man and I learnt I have to compete with these women.
What I have heard my friends say is this ‘if you do not send those naked photos your man wants to him, some other woman out there will freely send them to get his attention’.
Apart from the indecent photos, the indecent communication via BBM, WhatsApp, Twitter, Facebook and Text has also increased.
To be at the safe side of things and not to give myself a heart attack, I do not even bother checking my man’s phone. He may be innocent, but these aggressive women out there in the fight won’t just stop.
Any little chance they get, they will throw in conversations which are not worth having with a guy in a relationship.
What has it been for you in the past few years or months? Are you also fighting the war on men or are you being fought?
What do you think is the actual cause of this hostility between women in relation to men? Are the just not enough responsible men out there for all of us or what?
It seems the proud days when men used to fight and chase women have ended!
“It seems the proud days when men used to fight and chase women have ended!” I guess you’re right.
But it’s good that you don’t even bother to look through your man’s phone. It will only bring distrust in the relationship.
You slapped a girl? Wooooww.. take it easy :p yeah? Don’t mind such girls.
I neva fight over a man… there r so many ways to protect ur man from other bitches…… all we need is to use our common sense so that de other ladies wont no our weak points… i av neva attack any lady for sendin indecent fotos or comm,unication to my fiance cos is not too necessary… cos de more u attack dem, de worse dey ll do…. i av always been a defender… 3 months ago, an ex gurl of my man snd me a text thru fbook that she has been sleepin with ma partner…. buh they use to fuck demselves weneva dey feel like so i should advice myself… n i must break up with him…. all i told her was, i already knw that… i Know my man is a young guy n he will love to av a lil bit fun with other gurls apart from me… it a normal for a guy to do that so she shouldn bother herself too much us cos i do understand him… but what she must knw is its me he loves veri much n she is de 1 bein used.. so anytime my man comes to her for sex she shouldn ignore him or better still anytime she misses my man n wanna av fun with him she can contact me n will i make him available for her… and immediately i told her all that she deactivate herself from facebook n neva came back again till now… i knew all wat she was sayin were lies… she onli wanted to hurt me or make me jealous all becos she was jealous abt us…..
@RocklynLove, i need you to advise my girlfriend .the truth is she z so cute and every guy wants her so they say bad stuff aba me and its like she wanna give up..hit me up so we talk
@RocklynLove, I can’t stop laughing. That was really good. I think that is what we all have to do even when you know it’s true. Brush them off, and let know that you don’t care a bit about the gossip.
@RocklynLove, You go girl!
hmmmmmm…. eye asem ooo… den maybe she loves as a her boifriend not not willin to face sm challenges
Granted, some women are really desparate and would do anything to get your man’s attention, but I feel you probably may be too paronoid. You have to trust your man enough to know that if he truly really loves you, then you will never ever have to fight to have him. I don’t believe in fighting for any man. They are not worth it. A true man who loves you will always be by your side no matter what. Yes, temptations from these dangerous women will come, but you just have to be watchful and prayerful. Men are very easily distracted especially when it comes to women, so you also have to make sure that you are being the great woman that he needs to be with. I love the article and I can totally relate to what you are saying. The battle is even worse when you man is handsome. I have experienced some desperados on fb sending my husband nasty messages knowing very well he is a married man. I as a married woman have also had some ignorant men sending me some crazy messages. Well, for me if you do I just delete you off by friend list, and so does my hubby. Don’t stress yourself over these desperate ladies out there. Just enjoy your relationship with your man in and out of the home, and trust that he will be there if he truly cares.
@Yaa, good advice!
Is there any editing on this blog at all? Does the writer of this article understand what ‘war ON men’ means. Two women scrapping over a guy is not war on men.