Ladies, Would You Snatch Another Woman’s Husband Because You Are Lonely? | My Friend Says HELL YEAH

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So I have a friend who has a friend, who has a cousin who has a best friend who usually comes by our house to just hang with the girls on the porch and pour drinks over a lot of chat topics.

I will call this lady Bianca for the purpose of my article.

Yesterday was another lovely evening and we were in the corner of the yard guzzling away our boredom on bottles and bottles of wine and chatting the evening away. Then Bianca shows up with her four year old daughter-Drew.

So Bianca joins our table made up of Janice, Pamela, Shirley, Bernice and me!

Drew plays away in the hall while we chat, Bernice asks Bianca about Drew’s dad and Bianca immediately slams. “the oaf will not even send me and Drew a dime for upkeep, and when Drew got sick the other day, I had to stay awake two nights straight in the hospital all by myself and you know the excuse he cooked up when I called him to bring us some supplies? He had the nerve to tell me he was at a family meeting and could not leave! The hell, like Drew and I aren’t family huh?”

Yea Bianca was mad. But that is to be expected from having a child with a man who already has a family right? You will never be his first family or priority.

This is the part Bianca never mentions when she slams her baby daddy, the fact that he is a married man and she knew he was married even before he got her pregnant.

Now to more the real purpose of this article; we were still doing drinks and on the issue of how single most of us are even though we are somewhat seeing somebody but each persons relationship seems to have its own special issues.

Bianca is the most single one of us because she cannot juggle work, her kid and nurturing a real relationship and according to her, the most painful part is that no single men seem to want a relationship with her. So now she tells us “Ladies, I am actually thinking of giving some married man who has been chasing me a chance”

I am like whaaat! You haven’t learnt your lesson?!!

Pamela, Janice and Bernice have their mouths hanging open.

Bernice is the married one among us so the announcement from Bianca got her super upset.

Bernice; “Are you telling me you are purposefully setting out to break another woman’s marriage?”

Bianca; “That is not my intention but ladies, check this, no single man wants me and I am a very lonely woman these days. I am just tired of being alone so I am going to give it a shot with one of these married men chasing me. At least I will have companionship and someone by my side.”

So let me get this straight Bianca, you will break up another womans home just because you are lonely? In fact your child is already from one married man and things didn’t work out but you will date another married man to have someone by your side? Is your past experience not bitter enough?

Bianca; “It was a bitter experience but look what I got from it, a gorgeous daughter and though I would rather not date a married man, those are the only ones who want me right now. And you never know, it may turn out better than my first experience. After all you ladies are dating single men and you are not exactly happy in your relationships so what is the difference?

Well she had a point there and I am still speechless that she has made this decision but who am I to judge?

Ladies, would you date a married man after years of waiting in vain for a good single man?

Would you advice your friend to do that or do you have a friend doing that?

Let’s get talking…



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  1. bianca who already has a child for a married man,still wan’ts to date another married man becouse she is single? The thing is no single guy will date u becouse u wasted ur time on someoneleses man. She should keep wastin her life by playin single hand,that new married man she intends to date will also get her pregnat very soon. He won’t leave his family for her either,gone were the days when wife’s fight thei husband’s lovers.most wife’s now adays channel that energy into makin their homes much better.

  2. me i understand it is wrong to date a married man but i dated one for many years and he never told me he was married. he always told me he was single and i never saw another woman. i think the wife was abroad. thrn after wasting my time for years, his wife shows up.
    is it my fault if i do not leave this man alone? because he deceived me and wasted my time. and he himself does not want us to breakup and has filed for divorce from his wife now.
    what i can say is, circumstances are different. i am not about to leave him after i am in love and the whole world has seen us together. who will come and date me after that?
    i am sticking to him oo.
    dont just blame the women, some men can lie!

  3. Madam hw sure re u he is getting a divorce? Men always lie yet they stay wit their wifes. I have dated a married man since 2004. I ve wasted my youthful years n am now in my late 20’s.dis man is still stucked to his family but every year he lies dat he is getting a divorce. In these years his wife have had 2 kids 4 him where as I ve none cuz he thinks time is nt rite. Well I ve adviced myself n I ve seriously regretted wasting my years. Mind u, tru out dese years no holiday is spent together. Even my bdays.u even realise dat the money he gives u is wey too smnall as compared to wat his wife n children enjoy. I ve now advised myself n I am dating a younger guy 4 the past 2 months now. Am 2 years older than him but I think I feel am his priority so I am happy. Well he might nt ve it all but I ve ma piece of mine now n I dnt feel like an option. Its never too late 4 u. Dnt listen to those married men waii.they knw they ll never marry u yet wanna waste ur precious tyme

  4. I feel sorry for women who fall in the traps of such men. many men are just vultures. very greedy. they will lie to you to get you to trust and date them while they stay with their families and you know what, you are not even his only girlfriend outside marriage. and the wives are aware but they will allow you to waste your time just to teach you a lesson. if my husband is cheating, i pity the girl because i know he won’t even spend his hard earned money on you while his kids and home and wife are there. that is when i will even make more demands on him while i pretend i don’t know about his behaviour. who gets fooled in the end?
    i only hope this bianca gets a good man and doesnt waste her youth on old married vultures. one mistake is enough. try to dress and act slightly younger and you will get a single man who will treat you with respect and even marry you.

  5. I will never advice a friend to date a married man. Though they do help sometimes especially those of us who did not had the opportunity to good life and had to struggle on our own. But, hey sisters its a waste of time and energy. i have two best friends and our story is so pathetic. We are in our late 20’s still not married though we are somehow ok in terms of our living conditions. But i will attribute all these cos of the hardships we went through and wanted to achieve something for ourselves. The married men were there for us and were prepared to do anything for us cos we are nice and hot ladies. One of my friends even had a minister of state promising to divorce his wife and marry her at the end of the day disappointment was the answer. Why am i saying its a waste of time. Now we, especially me have got something for myself, at least i have 3 bedroom flat, my own shop and car. At the same time i work and earn salary at the end of the month and now that i want to settle down, the young men of my age are scared to come forward . Of course every man would be scared to come forward. The married men, never ever leave their wives to marry us. They prefer traveling with us seeing us in our hot dresses and seeing the breasting standing firm without falling. So my dear friends, never follow this married men even if you will, just for a short time cos before u realize, the young men of your when u were in your teens would be scared to come to u and the married men will begin to fancy the younger one’s. A word to a wise………

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