If you’ve ever caught your partner faking orgasm, then that is a clear indication that she is cheating on you or about to cheat on you as a study has found women who fake orgasms are more likely to cheat on their partners.
Even though the research found that faking satisfaction in bed is not healthy for relationships, It also revealed women fake an orgasm in almost a fifth of their sexual encounters in an attempt to spare their partners’ feelings.
Dr Justin Lehmiller, a psychologist from Harvard University who analysed the findings, said: ‘The more orgasms a woman had faked, the more likely she was to have cheated previously and the greater her likelihood of cheating again. Fake orgasms say a lot more about a woman’s odds of staying faithful than actual orgasms.’
The researchers also found that women fake orgasms far more often than men do – they do so 18 per cent of the times while men only fake it in one in 20 times.
As a woman, I know for sure men cheat the more and are more likely to cheat in relationships. However, the above research gives a clue to the men as to when they have to be worried about their women being faithful—-when they are faking satisfaction.
I think it is a matter of, if I am not getting satisfied, I won’t tell you but I am surely not going to be losing out—I will get it from somewhere!
Dis one is for oheneba miyagi.he’s the expert
@maame ama, loooooil Aden Maame Ama looool, well Generally, yes, the women who DO fake orgasms tend to do it because they’re afraid of hurting the guy’s feelings… but there are two sides to that. Sometimes women fake orgasms because they don’t know HOW to communicate effectively with their partner, or because their partner just isn’t very good at reading their signals. They don’t want to go through the heartache of telling him that he’s got bad technique (usually because they really do like the guy and want him to be happy) and so they pretend that they’ve reached an orgasm anyway. It’s not about “mind games”. It’s almost always about love and compassion for their partner. Honestly, for a lot of women, an orgasm isn’t the be-all and end-all of sex anyway.
@Oheneba Miyagi, eheeeeeee I said it!
@maame ama, loooool
@Oheneba Miyagi, I have a question for you: if someday you discover that your woman (or women) has/have been faking orgasms for you all the time, what will you do?
@Sally, well sorry to disappoint you cause that someday will never come there is ways of finding out when she fakes it
1.) If she still has a lot of energy afterward
2.) If you are inside her, and her vagina or uterus does not have wild contractions, you didn’t give her an orgasm.
3.) Most women have a flush around the face and neck and their nipples get hard when they orgasm. If her’s didn’t, she probably didn’t either. Some man are just greedy and selfish to see that cause they focus more on their self thank you
@Oheneba Miyagi, ok… but I bet that contractions can be faked…. any body who has had orgasm before can fake it because we know how it happens. I can contract my “thing” even when the man’s thing isn’t performing yet. 2) I always have less energy afterwards even without orgasm.. I always want to sleep afterwards… and I bet you that if having sex was just an ordinary game, I would have arranged for a match to prove to you that you cannot always tell… I think that it is the way you are, your personality type portrayed to women that make them do what they do for you as just a person and not because you are damn good, boy or you are a faithful guy – with a woman who likes sex a lot
@Sally, Hmmmm interesting but did you know that both men and women produce oxitocin (a natural narcotic / opiate) and adrenaline. Men release more adrenaline which in higher levels will fatique the body much quicker. and Women receive more oxitocin so thats why they feel “in the mode” and fuzzy longer after sex. actually women do fall asleep after sex most of the time. thats usually because the man is already asleep, and remember the women do release an amount of adrenaline too. not to mention the oxitcin creates a warm soft fuzzy comfortable feeling that can prep you for a good night’s sleep.
@Oheneba Miyagi, EEEEEIIIIIIIIIIII YOU…. HMMMMMMMM HAHAHHAAHHAH
@Sally, hahahaha it’s getting hot in here
@Oheneba Miyagi, yep… so I am getting out for some air… good night
@Sally, night night
@Sally, did u say u wud have arranged a match to prove him wrong?hehehe…interesting.I will definitely pay to see u two trying to kill each other.I’m a mischievous pervert *winks*
@maame ama, loool that will so not happen
@maame ama, hahahahahhah….. bring your $1,000 and you get the first front seat
@Oheneba Miyagi, more over, you most of the time seem to think that you in particular are very very veeeery good at “it”…. But now that you know that it may not be the man being good but rather the woman having some “compassion” or connection (i will call it), with the man that does the thing…. haven’t you at any point thought that some women are faking it for you and you feel swollen headed about it?