I read an interesting article this morning about waist beads that contained certain information I knew already—but interestingly, it has something else that got my attention.
According to the article, a bead seller the writer spoke to urged women to keep their waist beads on as it helps control promiscuity in relationships. It is obvious men love waist beads since it somehow taps on their sexual drive but I did not know waist beads have the charm to keeping men glued to women who wear them.
As an African woman, I wear waist beads for 3 main reasons and I will like to know why you wear waist beads as a woman—and if you are a man, why do you like your woman to wear or not to wear waist beads. As a woman, I wear them for fashion as I find them fashionable. It makes me feel great about my body and I love seeing them on myself.
Secondly, I’ve been told over the years that waist beads help shape the figure of a woman—and even though no one has been able to scientifically prove this, they somehow seem to work. So I keep them on my waist (I have 4) to keep and develop my figure.
The last reason why I wear waist beads is the fact that my current boyfriend loves them. He grabs them and plays with them when we are having good times and when we are relaxing, chatting or watching movies. I guess it does some magic things for him, like it does for most men.
Another new and shocking thing I found from the article is that, homosexual men in Ghana have started wearing waist beads. One seller confirmed this, saying; some homosexual men regularly come to buy beads from her—to wear.
Interestingly, in the article which was published on Infoboxx the writer said, “Patricia Naa Dei, a university student I met buying these jewels, told me waist beads were simply for fashion. She indicated, she didn’t like them but had to put them on to satisfy her boyfriend, who loves to see them on her.
During sexual intercourse, her boyfriend whose name she only gave as Ato, removes them and put them on his waist and takes them off after the act. Weird, I agree. But lots of people do kinky stuff in the bedroom, you know? “The rattling sound of the beads during sex urges my guy on,” she added”.
My questions are; do you believe, think or have any experience which shows that waist beads help keep men faithful? If they do, then I will go for 10 next week because mine has a slippery dingdong…LOL
Also, do you wear waist beads and why do you wear them? For the men, why do like your woman to wear waist beads? And if you wear it yourself as a man, let us know why…
I’ve given my reasons so I will be waiting to read yours!
I wear 3 beads and have had it for as long as I can remember. I change it occasionally and they are all white. My partner has just one. I don’t think I can call it a bead since it is the waist chain.
The reason why I wear it is because I have always worn it and when I take them off, I feel someway naked. Also, my partner finds them sexy and I do too.
I am not sure about the part that it can stop men from cheating. I have not had a man since High School when i didn’t know what I wanted so I can’t talk much about that part. But my partner is faithful and I don’t think she is because of my beads. Maybe that is why she is faithful and I don’t know. lol
Are you a really into ….. or is a joke? wow
Oh no joking sister. Most people on here know since I’ve never hidden my sexual orientation. I know Chris personally so he can attest though he thinks I am crazy. He used to be my buddy when I was living in UK, now in Germany
Why? Are you?
hahahaha nah am not ooo. I knew you way too decent for that lol anyways have fun.
Huh? You didn’t get me. I meant yeah I am a lesbian and everyone on here know that. Nothing indecent about that Hun, you should try it
are u a lesbian??????????????????????????????
Yes she is, and proud of it. Hope you have no problem with it though. Judge not, and ye shall not be judged.
lol hmmmmm will respect your wish.
Oh no joking sister. Most people on here know since I’ve never hidden my sexual orientation. I know Chris personally so he can attest though he thinks I am crazy. He used to be my buddy when I was living in UK, now in Germany
Why? Are you?
Oh no joking sister. Most people on here know since I’ve never hidden my sexual orientation. I know Chris personally so he can attest though he thinks I am crazy. He used to be my buddy when I was living in UK, now in Germany
Why? Are you?
Are you a really into ….. or is a joke? wow
Are you a really into ….. or is a joke? wow
I wear 3 beads and have had it for as long as I can remember. I change it occasionally and they are all white. My partner has just one. I don’t think I can call it a bead since it is the waist chain.
The reason why I wear it is because I have always worn it and when I take them off, I feel someway naked. Also, my partner finds them sexy and I do too.
I am not sure about the part that it can stop men from cheating. I have not had a man since High School when i didn’t know what I wanted so I can’t talk much about that part. But my partner is faithful and I don’t think she is because of my beads. Maybe that is why she is faithful and I don’t know. lol
I wear 3 beads and have had it for as long as I can remember. I change it occasionally and they are all white. My partner has just one. I don’t think I can call it a bead since it is the waist chain.
The reason why I wear it is because I have always worn it and when I take them off, I feel someway naked. Also, my partner finds them sexy and I do too.
I am not sure about the part that it can stop men from cheating. I have not had a man since High School when i didn’t know what I wanted so I can’t talk much about that part. But my partner is faithful and I don’t think she is because of my beads. Maybe that is why she is faithful and I don’t know. lol
Who said beads can stop men from cheating? It CAN’T!
I love waist beads,I have them in different colours. I usually buy the smallest in shape and wear three at a go. I wear beads because I love how it looks on me when i check myself out in the mirror. 😉
I would like to wear it 24/7 but sometimes a particular outfit makes it impossible.
pls will come for inspection kkk..lol
Who said beads can stop men from cheating? It CAN’T!
I love waist beads,I have them in different colours. I usually buy the smallest in shape and wear three at a go. I wear beads because I love how it looks on me when i check myself out in the mirror. 😉
I would like to wear it 24/7 but sometimes a particular outfit makes it impossible.
Who said beads can stop men from cheating? It CAN’T!
I love waist beads,I have them in different colours. I usually buy the smallest in shape and wear three at a go. I wear beads because I love how it looks on me when i check myself out in the mirror. 😉
I would like to wear it 24/7 but sometimes a particular outfit makes it impossible.
We can all agree that beads cannot stop men from cheating. However, It turns most African men on. I love seeing beads on my woman’s waist because I find it sexy and a turn on. I remember dating this Nigerian girl few years ago who didn’t like wearing them, and I recommended it to her and she willingly obliged.
eeeiiii boys kasa..lol
Lol… Stephen0544, don’t tell me you don’t get turned on by beads. Every Ghanaian guy likes it. Hehehehe
yh bro..its my favourite item on a woman…lol
We can all agree that beads cannot stop men from cheating. However, It turns most African men on. I love seeing beads on my woman’s waist because I find it sexy and a turn on. I remember dating this Nigerian girl few years ago who didn’t like wearing them, and I recommended it to her and she willingly obliged.
We can all agree that beads cannot stop men from cheating. However, It turns most African men on. I love seeing beads on my woman’s waist because I find it sexy and a turn on. I remember dating this Nigerian girl few years ago who didn’t like wearing them, and I recommended it to her and she willingly obliged.
looool….in that case like i would have never taken them off…lol….men oh some men will cheat…or people will cheat with or without braids….have stopped wearing them…i used to since i was a kid cos i grew up with it..and part of my culture..very common where im from (krobo)…beads are beads…they dont do anything physically or emotionally…and no they dont expand hips or make back huge….when beads come off, thats another way of knowing that as a woman you are developing physically….and in the olden days it helped a lot during menstrual periods….
i meant beads
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i meant beads
i meant beads
looool….in that case like i would have never taken them off…lol….men oh some men will cheat…or people will cheat with or without braids….have stopped wearing them…i used to since i was a kid cos i grew up with it..and part of my culture..very common where im from (krobo)…beads are beads…they dont do anything physically or emotionally…and no they dont expand hips or make back huge….when beads come off, thats another way of knowing that as a woman you are developing physically….and in the olden days it helped a lot during menstrual periods….
looool….in that case like i would have never taken them off…lol….men oh some men will cheat…or people will cheat with or without braids….have stopped wearing them…i used to since i was a kid cos i grew up with it..and part of my culture..very common where im from (krobo)…beads are beads…they dont do anything physically or emotionally…and no they dont expand hips or make back huge….when beads come off, thats another way of knowing that as a woman you are developing physically….and in the olden days it helped a lot during menstrual periods….
I started wearing waist beads 2 years ago mainly because my fiance wanted me to, so my mom hooked me up when she went to Ghana… first day I wore them, i didnt feel comfortable AT ALL!! had to be cautious whenever I bent down, it just seemed to be an inconvenience…. after a week, I told my man that beads aren’t for me, and he was ok with me taking them off… 2 years later, he’s still with me and hasn’t cheated (i hope so) looool… so i don’t believe waist beads stop guys from cheating.. if he’s a dog/cheater, he will cheat whether you wear beads or not…
I started wearing waist beads 2 years ago mainly because my fiance wanted me to, so my mom hooked me up when she went to Ghana… first day I wore them, i didnt feel comfortable AT ALL!! had to be cautious whenever I bent down, it just seemed to be an inconvenience…. after a week, I told my man that beads aren’t for me, and he was ok with me taking them off… 2 years later, he’s still with me and hasn’t cheated (i hope so) looool… so i don’t believe waist beads stop guys from cheating.. if he’s a dog/cheater, he will cheat whether you wear beads or not…
I started wearing waist beads 2 years ago mainly because my fiance wanted me to, so my mom hooked me up when she went to Ghana… first day I wore them, i didnt feel comfortable AT ALL!! had to be cautious whenever I bent down, it just seemed to be an inconvenience…. after a week, I told my man that beads aren’t for me, and he was ok with me taking them off… 2 years later, he’s still with me and hasn’t cheated (i hope so) looool… so i don’t believe waist beads stop guys from cheating.. if he’s a dog/cheater, he will cheat whether you wear beads or not…
I started wearing waist beads 2 years ago mainly because my fiance wanted me to, so my mom hooked me up when she went to Ghana… first day I wore them, i didnt feel comfortable AT ALL!! had to be cautious whenever I bent down, it just seemed to be an inconvenience…. after a week, I told my man that beads weren’t for me, and he was ok with me taking them off… 2 years later, he’s still with me and hasn’t cheated (i hope so) looool… so i don’t believe waist beads stop guys from cheating.. if he’s a dog/cheater, he will cheat whether you wear beads or not…
Hehehe, now I see why you added HOPE SO. You never know until you know. So we just have to hope so. Recently, a friend’s man was caught cheating with the friend’s best friend. They have been doing it for 3 years even when the friend is staying over for weekend and the friend runs to the shop. CRAZY WORLD
girrrlllll ikr!!! wtf, nah that girl shouldn’t even be called a friend… thats just wrong, smh… such is life tho… sh*t happens, we just gotta hope for the best all the time hun.
Hehehe, now I see why you added HOPE SO. You never know until you know. So we just have to hope so. Recently, a friend’s man was caught cheating with the friend’s best friend. They have been doing it for 3 years even when the friend is staying over for weekend and the friend runs to the shop. CRAZY WORLD
Hehehe, now I see why you added HOPE SO. You never know until you know. So we just have to hope so. Recently, a friend’s man was caught cheating with the friend’s best friend. They have been doing it for 3 years even when the friend is staying over for weekend and the friend runs to the shop. CRAZY WORLD
I started wearing waist beads 2 years ago mainly because my fiance wanted me to, so my mom hooked me up when she went to Ghana… first day I wore them, i didnt feel comfortable AT ALL!! had to be cautious whenever I bent down, it just seemed to be an inconvenience…. after a week, I told my man that beads weren’t for me, and he was ok with me taking them off… 2 years later, he’s still with me and hasn’t cheated (i hope so) looool… so i don’t believe waist beads stop guys from cheating.. if he’s a dog/cheater, he will cheat whether you wear beads or not…
I started wearing waist beads 2 years ago mainly because my fiance wanted me to, so my mom hooked me up when she went to Ghana… first day I wore them, i didnt feel comfortable AT ALL!! had to be cautious whenever I bent down, it just seemed to be an inconvenience…. after a week, I told my man that beads weren’t for me, and he was ok with me taking them off… 2 years later, he’s still with me and hasn’t cheated (i hope so) looool… so i don’t believe waist beads stop guys from cheating.. if he’s a dog/cheater, he will cheat whether you wear beads or not…
I have 2 beads and they go with me everywhere I go. They are glass ones and I can take them off the clean them or change the thread. My man loves them and they bring out the feminine in me. I am not sure if they can truly stop a man from cheating. The only thing that can stop a man from cheating is castrating him, cutting his fingers and tongue, Even that he will see use his eyes to LOOK
I have 2 beads and they go with me everywhere I go. They are glass ones and I can take them off the clean them or change the thread. My man loves them and they bring out the feminine in me. I am not sure if they can truly stop a man from cheating. The only thing that can stop a man from cheating is castrating him, cutting his fingers and tongue, Even that he will see use his eyes to LOOK
I have 2 beads and they go with me everywhere I go. They are glass ones and I can take them off the clean them or change the thread. My man loves them and they bring out the feminine in me. I am not sure if they can truly stop a man from cheating. The only thing that can stop a man from cheating is castrating him, cutting his fingers and tongue, Even that he will see use his eyes to LOOK
Beads only turn them on. My first b/f introduced them to me he actually measured my waist and purchase my first beads. Since then I’ve fallen in love with beads. on the cheating part, the guy cheated right after and the stupid comment he ever made was am a man you should know i can fall into anything at anytime so you should try and understand me. Yet he called himself a church Shepherd. Please a man that is willing to cheat will cheat even when you have tons of beads on. Beads do brings out the shape in women. I recommend but is certainly not what will attract a male.
Beads only turn them on. My first b/f introduced them to me he actually measured my waist and purchase my first beads. Since then I’ve fallen in love with beads. on the cheating part, the guy cheated right after and the stupid comment he ever made was am a man you should know i can fall into anything at anytime so you should try and understand me. Yet he called himself a church Shepherd. Please a man that is willing to cheat will cheat even when you have tons of beads on. Beads do brings out the shape in women. I recommend but is certainly not what will attract a male.
Beads only turn them on. My first b/f introduced them to me he actually measured my waist and purchase my first beads. Since then I’ve fallen in love with beads. on the cheating part, the guy cheated right after and the stupid comment he ever made was am a man you should know i can fall into anything at anytime so you should try and understand me. Yet he called himself a church Shepherd. Please a man that is willing to cheat will cheat even when you have tons of beads on. Beads do brings out the shape in women. I recommend but is certainly not what will attract a male.
waist beads turn me on easily
They are nyce……n hot…espec wen ur babe is light skinned….awwwwww…sweeet
@Nii, Bead fits all shades of skin tones. I have seen both Light skinned, dark skinned and even purple skinned with beads on and they all looks sexy as hell. It all depends on the combination of colors one used.
Here we go with the fair complexion being better mindset, reason why some black girls bleach. How can beans which is African and has been used by black Africans since the begin now look better on light skinned women than dark skin. Oh Ghana men
Nii really??? smh was that even necessary.. you are one of those people that end up pushing women to bleach!!! smh
there are different colors that suit all skin tones.
Oh my days Nii. ..you didn’t. ..seriously what has beads go to do with color….Chale kpa….let me guess you probably don’t date dark skin girls.. .everyone should have their preferences. ..but this one di3. …
Come to think of it, gay men wear beads too? Ghanaian gays are more extreme than their counterparts in the developed world. What kind of nonsense is this.
I wear mine for all of the same reasons. As well as I believe it helps me to stay faithful as well. No other man can tell my guy what my waist beads look like
He likes them and I can say the few days I took them off we were really distant and I put them bak on my mindset is different he even pays me more attention and he doesn’t kno I put them bak on. The meaning behind the colors help me decide what color for time periods in my life. I like to keep them even although now I have on 15