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DID SHE REALLY SAY THAT: Joselyn Dumas Says She Has ‘No Problem Having Sex With a Friend’

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Joselyn Dumas

Some will say certain modern Ghanaian women are becoming liberal and others will say, they are becoming cheap—depending on where you sit on the throne…

Last Friday, actress/TV personality-Josselyn Dumas joined a host of others on Joy Fm to discuss the topic “can a man and a woman be just friends”.

Joselyn is reported on Joy Fm to have said that, “[as friends] sometimes sex could be needed to test if a relationship is possible”.

She added that, “I think that when there is a tag in a relationship, it becomes a problem, then the expectations are quiet high, but when you have a friend with benefits you see how it goes, if it goes well, and we eventually decides that we are going to take it a step further, Kudos, but once this is my boyfriend, this is my girlfriend or am married, there is that pressure, I don’t personally like that, so I will have a friend with benefit”.

It surely looks like a controversial topic but what is your take on Joselyn Dumas’ stance? Is she being excessively liberal as an African woman or should we welcome her position? Probably, Joselyn thinks like most men—who do not attach any deep meaning to sex. ‘Friends with benefits’ seems to be acceptable in her world!



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84 thoughts on “DID SHE REALLY SAY THAT: Joselyn Dumas Says She Has ‘No Problem Having Sex With a Friend’”

  1. Well, this is something I won’t do because I like my male friends to stay as friends and nothing more and I dont think sex is needed to test if there’s a possibility of a relationship as she said.
    But Miss Dumas do as you feel. You want to have friends with benefits, go on and have them. Just have it in mind that people will talk and conclude you are cheap.

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  2. Am not surprised she said that after obtaining a Masters degree in Ashawocology.Yoo!!go on testing with that man with boobs.

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        • Haha….but john no fool. He too go chop just like the others. If you get cheap fine girl u no go chop and run too? Chale big ups dumelo and the rest lol

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          • Some article chris posted months ago says girls with huge hips likes to do it more lol so should know our sister doesn’t care.

      • Lately they’ve been banging eachother like crazy. John has a serious g/f some where we don’t even know but 99% of the attention goes to Joselyn Dumas now. Me when it comes to these people lol i know and is always true.

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        • My dear don’t be deceived. John spends more time with Yvonne, Jackie and the rest than Joselyn. All that noise was just to publize that aids movie which is not even doing we’ll by the looks of things. He has already got wat he wants from Joselyn so the desire is gone. As for his girlfriend am reliably informed that she’s older,more mature and from a very prominent family in Ghana. I bet she’s just laughing at this

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  3. They are all ashawos parading themselves as celebrities.sex and relationship are two different things. U dont need sex to determine whether a relationship can develop or not. Ask people who married because of great sex. Once all the kama sutra has been tried out that marks the end of that relationship. People even get tired and bored of sex so what will be left to sustain the relationship?
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  4. chaij….insults be this…hmmm its her body whoever she chooses to do it with…but I personally wouldnt want to do it with a friend…unless theres feelings involved…or perhaps I liked him to begin with but never got the chance to start anything with him…sometimes “testing” will lead to having your worst enemy on earth….I love my friends like they were my own brothers…but hey we are all different…but yes that preassure when everything gets officially labelled…I dont understand why there should be any preasure…I might be wrong but I feel like men in general are scared of that “responsibility”…or preassure as they put it…

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  5. Joselyn you are a disgrace to Ghanaian women for saying this. So you fuck your friends and you have no shame but go on national radio to say it. What kind of disgraceful woman are you?

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  6. i used to like joselyn but afta tht stupid comment she made on radio calling a human being ugly just pissed me off!..you r only knwn for ur hips,if twasnt for that,trust me u wouldnt be in the spotlight…wo duna nu,ebiiin nkoaaa..cont displayn mmoasem sake of small fame u get!

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    • what did she really say? this is the second time am reading about the “ugly” comment but i havent really heard what she said. Who was she referring to?

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      • yes oo,she said,and i quote,”I don’t befriend ugly people because I don’t think I am ugly so I attract very beautiful people – men and women. I’ve never made an ugly friend, all my friends are beautiful.”

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    • stacey do you know why she made that “ugly” comment tho?? is there a link we can listen to or something, coz i need to hear this.. ahh miss Duna, am disappointed!!! kai

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    • Did she really made that comment? Stacey can you please send us the link? i will diss this woman to the fullest. Only thing is person that exposed her would be attacked. She should be grateful and not forget how she ended up being that star.

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        • Aww, I think she only said people with ugly attitude oo. Don’t u ladies think u misunderstood her? Please I am just asking oo..because that’s what I read.

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          • then u read wrong..i was actually listening to her on joy fm who was being interviewd by kojo yankson and i heard everything

          • O okay!! I thought she was humble and different from her other female celebrities oo…i am really shocked she said that.

      • lool eii diss paa?..aww she beg wai lool,i dont blame her,small fame she get so she tk dey fool!..her hips wont take her anywhere mtsww.ne ho fu´n tis3 angwa mo

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    • Stacey, I just read that article ooo. She said she doesn’t befriend people with ugly attitude not physically ugly people. Or???

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  7. Don’t know why we are getting worked up.i will say again that is all they do,ashawo by night,have sex to determine whether there can be a relationship.chai only Gh celebs.chop and go.

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  8. What do you expect? A born one, due to her early promiscuous life style. There is no public function or event she attends without wearing the tightest hip hugging outfit to get attention on her hips for more men to land in her bed. As for men they will sleep with you till kingdom come and go marry their decent girlfriends. I was shocked to hear john dumelo in a recent interview saying he is not dating Joselyn but he has a serious girlfriend. After fondling and chopping you he can say this to the world?Then none of them have respect for u oo. No man wants a woman who can talk such filth for anything serious. Tweaaa! ,,,,you have a daughter too so think before you talk.

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    • Van Dyke, seriously, did John say he has a serious girlfriend or he only said he is dating? I thought he is dating Joselyn ooo. Please what’s the link to watch or listen to this.recent interview of his?

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      • John mentioned this on several platforms and he specifically said it is not Joselyn he is dating. I did my own investigation and found that he has been with his girlfriend for more than a year now and both families are aware. Joselyn herself if fully aware that she was used by John.

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        • O woow i see! So this Joselyn and John dating thing is just a rumour. I wonder how his girlfriend feels when she hears all that and also even if she reads all these things people are saying that John her boyfriend, has been (screwing) having sexual relationship with Joselyn Dumas. Hmmm!!

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          • Ragazza, from sources, John’s gf is older, extremely successful and from a big time wealthy family in Ghana. we all know John likes that lol. She is probably not purturbed by any of this noise. They’ve been together for a long time so i doubt she is worried abt ashawos like Joselyn. If it were me, i would actually feel sorry for those ashawos becos that is how the men will always see them and that is all they will ever be.

          • Van lol…Hmmm!!! 3y3 as3m ooo!! Maybe John ikes sugar mummies from what u just said. I didn’t even know his girlfriend is older than him..Eii John Dumelo! Lol

          • Even look at capt planet and Uche. E dey bee keke! These boys are not marrying ashawos, they are marrying solid established women who are not in people’s faces like joselyn duna. Lol anyway Dumelo’s gf is not terribly old, I hear she’s around 35, very established and solid too.

          • hehehehe dumelo and rich women is he not even ashamed of the age difference. He’s always dating rich girls just to dupe them and dumped them after. When will he settle with a younger and ordinary girl for love?

          • Don’t know about that please find out more. I know his ex g/f was nneka okocha is she related to okoro?

  9. Well is so obvious almight john dumelo has been giving the body some sauce. They are sex partners and from her interview i now believe both of them are banging. I wanna hear where she comment by calling people ugly. If truly this woman made that comment will personally insult her and exposed her past. Seriously it better not be true.

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  10. This girl is pushing her career thru her hips, excessive fake hair and make up thats why she goes out of her way to wear very tight dresses to exhibit her fat hips. she knows thts all she has. Even her acting is questionable.

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  11. If u were a better woman the man who impregnated you would have stood by you as his woman instead of asking you to get rid of the pregnancy hose days..ashawo born one. we know u oo and we will expose your deeds. How dare you have the audacity to say you don’t make friends with ugly ppl. Nonsense, who is more ugly inside than you. Everyday u wear weave on, where is ur hair? You paint ur face like a canvas and u think u can call others ugly. That ugly cellulite build up on ur hips that you can’t even wear swimsuit is why u call others ugly? You sleep with men when you know they have girlfriends and wives without a conscious. Thank goodness your mother is taking care of your daughter becos u have nothing better to teach her.

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  12. Yes she went about calling people ugly but because she is chris best friend he may not report it so here is the report by joyfm

    Bubbly Ghanaian actress and television personality, Joselyn Dumas’
    friendship is not open to all; certainly not for people whose attitude
    she considers ugly.

    In a rare radio interview, the actress, noted for her admirable
    figure, said she doesn’t befriend people who have a different thinking
    frame because she does not have a bad attitude.

    According to the award winning actress, because she is not ugly in
    character, she attracts beautiful people, and so befriends only pretty
    people.

    Joselyn made the revelation while answering a question on the topic:
    “Can a man and a woman be just friends?” on the Super Morning Show on
    Joy FM with Kojo Yankson last Friday.

    “I don’t befriend ugly people naturally because I don’t think I am
    ugly so I attract very beautiful people – men and women. I’ve never made
    an ugly friend, all my friends are beautiful,” the talk show host
    stated.

    Expanding her views on the topic, the actress noted that there is
    nothing wrong with a male and a female agreeing to be platonic friends.

    “You can be friends [with] the opposite sex and be platonic friends
    but at the end of the day, it’s what you both want, it takes two to
    tango so if you are my friend and we just want friendship that’s what
    it’s going to be if we both want to take it a step further it’s always
    easier because we’ve already been friends and we know what we like and
    we don’t like,” Joselyn Dumas noted.

    She added that, “if you have a friend and you are just friends and
    you both agree that you just want to be friends, there is nothing wrong
    with that.”

    The actress further stressed that, friends who are not in tuned with
    what she wants, respect her decision “otherwise we can’t be friends
    anymore.”

    ‘Friends with benefit’

    Joselyn Dumas had held the view that the popular phrase, ‘Friends
    with benefit’ did not necessarily connote sexual relationship but
    friendship in which both parties are there for each other.

    She said, “we’ve all had a friend with benefit. It could be different
    benefits but we’ve all had a friend with benefit….when you need
    something, they are the people [you go to] as well.”

    After renowned playwright Ebo Whyte, also a guest on the show,
    explained that the popular term is associated with friends who engage in
    sexual activity without commitment, she disclosed that she has had a
    friend with benefit.

    “Oh yeah absolutely,” she said and added that “sometimes too I think
    where there is a tag with a relationship, it becomes a problem, then the
    expectations are quite high but we have a friend with benefit, we see
    how it goes. If it goes well and we eventually decide that look we [are]
    going to take this a step further kudos but once this is my boyfriend,
    this is my girlfriend or I am married, there is that pressure… I
    personally don’t want that at that particular moment so I would have a
    friend with benefit.”

    Joselyn noted that she holds that view because “there is that
    pressure of wanting to please all the time but when it is a friend with
    benefit, we both have that mutual understanding that at the end of the
    day, I don’t owe you so much.”

    Ebo Whyte commenting on “Can a man and a woman be just friends?”
    said “I will say yes and no…. What do you want in a friend?” and that
    friendship without sex can be a fantastic one.

    “I do know that a lot men have never given themselves the opportunity
    of looking at a woman as more than a sexual object and they don’t know
    how much they are cheating themselves because the women you haven’t gone
    to bed with is such a fantastic woman in relating when she knows that
    this is not on the card,” he said.

    The playwright noted that, “once sex comes in, the whole dynamics of a
    relationship changes. It is possible, it is difficult but that is no
    reason why we should not give it a try and it’s all in the mind and your
    orientation.”

    Ebo Whyte, who is also a counselor, advised that, “friendship should
    be allowed to grow” because women generally “don’t see themselves as sex
    objects. They wish you would admire and respect me for who I am as a
    person, for my mind not my body.”

    Communications Specialist and Consultant, Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah
    agreed with Ebo Whyte and stressed that “it’s entirely possible for men
    and women to be platonic friends. I also think it’s entirely possible
    for men and women who have previously been in a sexual relationship to
    become platonic friends. What’s important is what you have in common.”

    Sedem Ofori, Senior Producer and Head of Thought Leadership Unit at
    Joy FM, held the view that there is nothing wrong with adults choosing
    to have sex and remaining friends.

    “It depends on what you call friendship and what friendship means to
    those two people. They could be friends and sleeping and doesn’t make it
    any less a friendship,” he noted.

    According to him, it is sometimes an idealistic expectation when
    friends approach a relationship with the presumption that they will not
    be having sex because “what it means is that you will be spending a lot
    time together. You will be sharing very intimate sides of your
    personality and experiences together that naturally puts you in a
    position where you feel attraction for each other.”

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  13. Just when I thought U had so much class and this is what u come out saying.At you age you should be advising little Girls to abstain from sex and here you are talking about having sex with friends is ok.
    So what happens if there is no relationship after that sex?What happened to a woman having so much value?U are a disgrace to women.No wonder people are saying you are an undercover cheap woman.
    Someday your daughter will read this and question you & make sure you give her some sensible explanation.

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    • Trust me she’s very cheap very very a common jerk who was a notorious drug dealer got her pregnant. Will ask her ex roomie to publish all these to Chris soon.

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  14. Chale I go pay any one who go feet get a credible source so we could disgrace and reveal her evil deeds how dare she calls people ugly ashawoo dumas kurasini baa

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    • Eiii..ns3m wor world!! This is funny but serious. I respect Joselyn a lot but the fact that she went to an extent of saying she doesn’t befriend ugly people has really given me a second thought about her. I think she went too far. Hmm..3y3 as3m oo! God have mercy!

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  15. I don’t agree with her stand on friends and sex,but on the calling of people ugly she said she doesn’t like people with ugly attitude not ugly in physical appearance,yes some people do have ugly attitudes .

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    • Vic the point is, who the hell is joselyn to judge whether someone has an ugly attitude or not? Is she perfect herself? Is it not an even more ugly attitude to sleep with ur friends(whether married or in relationships) which she admits she has no problem doing. The girl is an unintelligent fool and shd never have said such a thing just to make news because she hasn’t been in the media for some time.

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      • Keith,the reason why I seem to be agreeing with her on the ugly attitude thing is some people really do have a nasty attitude e.g I attend the same church with delay and Ama K on two occasions I tried to say hello to delay,she looked at me and snubbed me,the very last one was at the church Christmas party wanted to wish her a merry Christmas she sized me up and down like I had a disease unlike Ama who u will always see chatting and engaging in small talk with others,attitude like delays is obviously ugly not her physical appearance.

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        • that Delay girl thinks she is everything. its obvious she has an ugly attidude and she is ugly physically as well. you shouldnt even have said hello to her.

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          • I know right she’s not something i will even smile or stare at her. Horrible teeth too. She needs to fill that stinky gap.

  16. Van dyke seriously! Did John say he’s dating or he said he has a serious girlfriend? I thought he is dating Joselyn oo! Please what’s the link to watch or listen to his recent interview?

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  17. So this desperate attention seeking imbecile had the nerve to come on radio and declare she doesn’t befriend ugly people? And she’s a mother!! What are you teaching your kid? Who are you to judge whether someone is ugly or not, you are the last person to talk on this subject because you are extremely ugly inside. Wow…she has always been a wolf in sheeps clothing so I knew she could not hide her true nasty nature for long. She is not paid much, in fact her last movie with Shirley, she was not paid at all, Leila paid her peanuts for the previous movie as well. These are facts you can verify. The aids movie is not doing well either because it’s too sexually explicit so the aids commission wants nothing to do with promoting it so where is the money for her fake hair and elaborate lifestyle coming from? She uses men to survive that’s how she got pregnant. She intentionally dresses a certain way to focus on her hips so as to entice men and sustain her high maintenance lifestyle. Then when u point it out to her, she gets offended. Last week on her facebook page, a lady joked about how her hips are really helping her to move far, Joselyn told the girl to keep her comment to herself if she has nothing better to say. This comment is still on Jocelyn’s page so you can verify. You parade ur hips constantly instead of your brains then when it is commented on, you rather get mad. Are you normal? As for the men they will sleep with u until u have surgery to tighten your vagina from the size it will become becos they are men. but don’t be fooled, not even one will settle with you. Who wants a loose woman who can easily sleep her man’s their friends too. More Filla coming abt you…next time call people ugly….kwasiaa!

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    • She got pregnant by some drug dealer who’s now in jail in New jersey. She came here to hustle and couldn’t stand the brokeness so some sugar daddy asked her to come down for a job in Ghana. Joselyn is into older rich men only. All she thinks about is her wealth and hips. I used to like her but now i don’t and if she repeat this nonsence again will personally ask her other friend to write some article to Chris. Now am getting pissed off, She never looks good without a make up so why would she call someone ugly?

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  18. JOSELYN DUMAS MISQUOTED AND VILIFIED BY A CONCERNED FAN

    It has come to my realization that questions answered honestly by Miss Joselyn Dumas on a discussion panel at Joy fm has been twisted, using selective bits of her response. She has been completely misquoted by a reporter of the station.
    For some media outlets and bloggers to post such vicious stories about such a respectable lady, who has been acknowledged over the years for her integrity and passion to restore woman dignity, is very unfortunate. The same old hogwash the media is famous for doing to our hardworking public figures. This is character defamation on a lady who doesn’t deserve this after accepting an invitation to be on a panel for discussion on a topic that most people shun away from.
    As an ardent fan of this Nobel woman, I’m requesting that bloggers and media houses cease and desist from further defamation of Ms. Joselyn Dumas’ character and reputation and that the radio station in question should also render an apology to her. I hope my request is taken into consideration as incidences such as this, undermines the faith we have in our media.

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    • I listened to that interview personally. This is what she said and i quote “I don’t befriend ugly people naturally because I don’t think I am
      ugly so I attract very beautiful people – men and women. I’ve never made
      an ugly friend, all my friends are beautiful,” the talk show host
      stated”. Then she further went on to state there’s nothing wrong with having friends with benefits.
      My question is who is joselyn to judge whether someone is beautiful or ugly? Who the hell does she think she is? Is she perfect herself? look at the mountain of mistakes she has made including a child with no visible father. This lady has never missed a chance to wear the tightest clothes to put her hips on display for popularity. do we want our ladies to exhibit their breasts and hips at events and in public just because it is large? Then she has the audacity to judge others….nonsense

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      • Nana what are you talking about. The interview was held by a panel and aired LIVE on radio so nobody edited, twisted or misquoted a word from her mouth. It was LIVE. Joy FM owes her no apology neither does any media house because what has been reported is exactly what she said. Why do u think the panel has been silent, why do you think she herself is silent? Because joy fm has the tape and if she fools with them they will release it again. Infact she should pray they don’t re-play her stupid and senseless comments otherwise she will rather be the one apologizing for talking nonsense and filth. What a shameful and disgraceful cheap female. No dignity or value on yourself but you want to judge who is beautiful and who is ugly in personality. Remove the massive logs in ur eyes before you point at others. No wonder all she knows is constantly dressing to exhibit her hips for popularity, there is nothing to write home about in her brain.

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      • Kid dad is in Jail he was never there tho. She just a material chic who likes men for wealth not even love. THe guy got arrested years ago and was deported i think.

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        • So has her hips naturally been like this since or she went for an injection? Because her hips is serious ooo…she really has wide hips.

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          • Before was banging and medium but after birth she gained weight and decided to work out. Her hips is very natural tho.

          • She has that kimk wide hips, which make her hips look kinda fake. Since she lived in the US for some time, you never know, she might have done something, cos the hips isnt in proportion with the rest of her body.

          • O okay! She has a nice figure then, she is a pretty woman. Just that what she said was not right tho.

  19. I think she mis-spoke, I dont think she really meant what she said…. so please good people here enough with the insult….

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  20. wud u blame her? she a hoe…got one kid out’a wedlock..it’s Ghana, we make hoez and stupid people famous…..and whats the fuzz about her being hot? is it the abnormal a$$ she got? bit$h wer z ur boobs?

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  21. Ah Ah Ah, you that you got pregnant at a young age becos u are a proper confirmed ashawo piece of shit and your child’s father is in prison in America because you didn’t even have the common sense to judge which man is of good character, just cos he had money u let him impregnate you and now YOU THIS IDIOT you have the mouth to say you don’t befriend ppl with ugly character. You are the one with the ugliest character out of all the women in Ghana because you pretend all the time to be good. Your fake and pretentious deeds will be exposed. The truth will surely come out so prepare. Shameful and disgraceful silly cow.

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    • THANK YOU… YOU NAILED IT GOOD. WONDER WHAT SHE MEANT BY UGLY WHEN HER SELF HAS HER OWN NASTY SKELETON HIDDEN SOMEWHERE. THAT DUDE WILL ROT THERE FOR ETERNITY.

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  22. LESSON TO JOSELYN – be very careful what you say when u know u have disgusting skeletons in your own cupboard. You have your own despicable and nasty habits so who are you to judge an ugly or beautiful character in someone else?What is more ugly than sleeping with men you know have girlfriends and wives just becos u say u want to test the waters. What a nasty thing to say coming from a woman who has a daughter. What do you want your girl to learn? So she shd also sleep around until she fetches the right one like her mother? No wonder there is no man standing boldly by you as your man. The Nigerian rich men are still with their wives, the footballers, politicians, CEO’s you test the waters with are getting engaged to other women or are married to other women, even that Dumelo boy has said openly that he is not dating you but has a girlfriend. What a shameful disgrace to you! If you know in your heart that u are not perfect don’t attempt to judge anybody’s character otherwise you will feel the wrath of the public to the point where u will pack your bags and leave this town. A word to a very confused woman is enough……

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